Snakeys 1yr relationship ended and now hes gutted!

[Julius Rain]

Hey snakey, we all go through this at some point. Throughout that 1 year with her hopefully you have establish yourself into her heart. If not snakey, to be honest your at the edge of a clip. First let me tell you this, women are naturally attracted to guys that can handle them gone. Or atleast a guy that can act like it. The worst thing to do is be the first one to say you miss her. Women are attracted to strong men, mentally not really physically. If she sense your doing fine without her, it will send a chemical reaction through her body to want to know why your doing fine alone. Curiousity always brings back a pussycat, take it from me. If you occupy yourself with other things besides thinking of her. Mother nature will lure her back to you. If this does not work, move on she will just cost you headache in the future if you still manage to gain her back for atleast a while.

A bit of advice towards your next relationship if it doesn't work out with your recent ex. A women worth keeping is the one that loved you before she liked you. The best wifes are the once that never like their husband ways (leaving toilet seat down,showering only ones a week,never remember her bday,never remembers anything,farts excessively in bed,can only last a minute or two at best during sex,etc.) but never leaves his side cause she loves him.

[ono]

Suck it up, walk it off and go chase some punani!

Long term relationships at 19 are not the way to go anyway.

Seriously i know how you feel....i think most lads have been in your situation. I have. The best thing to do is move on as soon as. Go out with your mates, start a new hobby.

I started weight-lifting when it happened to me. It was just something to do to replace the time that i normally spent with her.

You'll be ok pal, your just 19. You have a lot of fun years in front of you. Now you can enjoy them without being committed to just one girl.

I wouldn't bother trying to win her back. I think that will just lead to more heartache. After a couple of weeks without speaking to her, you might feel completely different. Good luck mate