Snakeys 1yr relationship ended and now hes gutted!

**Snakey** · 03-10-2008 07:54 PM

Originally Posted by Pacstraightleft

Sounds like she's seeing someone else. Just let her go and move on with yer life.

If I were you, I'd just tell her "you're not the only woman in the world you fucking cheatin' whore!"

It's ok to say that imo, cause you guys are not married yet and dont have kids.

Nah she would never do that. I was the first guy she ever did anything with. She wouldnt cheat on me, shes too nice for that. And i asked her straight out before.

Man im so cut up at the moment, like ive said. Im giving her a couple of weeks and then im gonna call her. But i dont know how long i can keep on functioning like this, i have barely eaten in 3 days and ive got shit all sleep.

**JT Rock** · 03-10-2008 08:29 PM

Oh Shit!!!!!!!! I forgot the most obvious!!!! BOXING, BOXING has helped me through the roughest shit in life it keeps my mind occupied.. Coralles vs Castillo was one of those suprise fights that did it for me, It was a Saturday night and me and my Ex Fiance broke up and I didt feel like doing anything but sitting on the couch and watching TV... Well seeing that fight live just put me in a whole different mind frame

**Douglas** · 03-10-2008 11:31 PM

Originally Posted by JT Rock

Oh Shit!!!!!!!! I forgot the most obvious!!!! BOXING, BOXING has helped me through the roughest shit in life it keeps my mind occupied.. Coralles vs Castillo was one of those suprise fights that did it for me, It was a Saturday night and me and my Ex Fiance broke up and I didt feel like doing anything but sitting on the couch and watching TV... Well seeing that fight live just put me in a whole different mind frame

Yes, beating on the heavybag can also help me cope with pain.

Good ol' punching bag, it can take any abuse I feel like inflicting.

**Steelie** · 03-10-2008 11:12 PM

Originally Posted by snakey

Nah she would never do that. I was the first guy she ever did anything with. She wouldnt cheat on me, shes too nice for that. And i asked her straight out before.

Man im so cut up at the moment, like ive said. Im giving her a couple of weeks and then im gonna call her. But i dont know how long i can keep on functioning like this, i have barely eaten in 3 days and ive got shit all sleep.

It's not much comfort now but the fact that your brothers on here can both relate to and illustrate they have got through the same situation, should highlight that you can and will get through it.

Letting go is hard. But honesty (with yourself) + distraction are the key.

You gotta trust me Shakey...I was right about Ricky Hatton and I'm right about this