Snakeys 1yr relationship ended and now hes gutted!

[Dizaster]

Progress Report:

Snakeys emotions are up and down. Was happy last night but did not last for long. Has barely eaten anything but a biscuit in 3 days and has had around 8 hours sleep in these 3 days. Has no energy nor does he have the will to eat. Nearly called her yesterday, had the number on the screen of his mobile but used every bit of will power to chuck the phone away. Has given phone to his mother for the day as she was going out of town. First day back at work, am busy but its not enough to keep my mind off her. Even when talking to customers on the phone snakey cant help but remember the phone call he received in which his beloved gf broke his heart. Doing a good job of faking a stomach virus so people he works with dont see the real reason, feels like he could throw up anyway so not much to fake.

Glad ya hanging in there mate!!

[Dizaster]

Anyway, I thought of a cool story that if you happen to talk to her again and give HER one last chance to WIN YOUUU back, you could tell her this story... If you practice saying it to yourself a couple of times and just remember the main points of it, it'll go down really well, and will just give her that last opportunity to think about her reasons for not being with you and if they are real or not...
Here's how the story goes/how you'll say it to her from here in..

"This story is called, Meeting the 100% perfect girl, one fine, spring afternoon in Austin (change this to sydney or Melbourne or something).

The story starts with with "once upon a time", and ends with "so,,, sad story isn't it?"

Once upon a time, on a fine Spring Afternoon in Austin, a guy was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.
He wasn't thinking about anything special, he was just going to do his laundry.
At the same time from the other direction, a girl was walking along Forest street, going to mail a letter. She wasn't thinking about anything special, hadn't gotten dressed up or put on make-up,,,, she was just going to mail a letter.
And it just so happened they passed each other.
As the guy looked up at the girl he said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect girl for me... Who would think, you could just be out doing your laundry, and you would meet the 100% perfect girl for you.
And as the girl looked up at the guy, with her letter in her hand, she said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect guy for me... What are the chances of just being out mailing a letter, and meeting the 100% perfect guy for me?
And by some, Miracle, by some freak of chance, they both worked up the guts to talk to each other..
So they stopped to talk to each other. Then began walking down Forest street together, just talking about, life, and everything.. And they realised that, everything they had in common, they connected on one hundred percent... And everything they didn't have in common, complimented each other perfectly!
So as they kept walking, they headed down towards the lake and found a bench to sit on. So they sat down,,,
And, hours, went by in the blink of a eye...
After a while, they both started thinking, and the guy says, "You know what?? This is too weird... What are the chances you can just walk outside your house one day, and meet the 100% perfect person for you" And with that, just a small, sliver of doubt popped into their heads.. and they began to wonder..
Suddenly the guy says, "Here is what we are going to do... If this was really meant to be,,, If fate realllly meant for us to be together, then we should seperate right now, without exchanging numbers or anything,,, and let fate decide... If we run into each other again, we'll know that it was meant to be, and we'll just get married right on the spot and live happily every after!"...
So the girl agreed, and they parted ways.
He went to the East. She went to the West.
A day passed, and they didn't see each other.
2 days passed. 3 days passed. A week passed. A month passed. A year passed, and they still hadn't seen each other.
By this time, they both began seeing other people...
Over the years to come, they were even fortunate enough to find love.. They found 60% perfect love.... 70% perfect love... Even as much as 83% perfect love,,, But neither of them found 100% perfect love again..
Eventually though, they both got married and had happy lives.. They had happy marriages with nice people, and they had nice kids who were happy, and even grandkids.....
One day, many many years in the future though, there was a very bad influenza going around, and many people got very very sick.... The man and the lady ended up recovering from their ilness, but both their partners died..
....
So,,,,,,
One fine, spring afternoon in Austin, the man was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.. He was now an old, weathered man, and was clutching his laundry bag, in his feable weak hand, as he went to do his laundry...
And from the other direction came a lady who was going to mail a letter. She had her letter there, tucked into her feable, weak old hand. She was about 79 now, him 82, as she was going to mail her letter..
And they passed each other..
As the man looked up at the lady he said, "You know what?? I think I know that lady from somewhere?.?. There is something about her,,, but I just can't put my finger on it"..
And as the lady looked up the man she said "You know what?? I feel like I know that man... It feels like there is something there, or he has some meaning?.?."
But to many years had passed for the both of them, and they couldn't put their finger on it. To many new experiences and memories had filled their lives now, and the memory of each other had faded..
So they passed each other, and didn't even speak....
*****
But the thing is, They REALLY WERE the 100% perfect people for each other. Fate really did mean for them to spend their lives together....
And fate will put you together once, but what are the chances that fate will put you together twice?? It's like winning tattslotto, then throwing out the ticket and trying to win again just to make sure it was meant to be.

There mistake was that they second guessed fate, and fate never gave them a second chance..

So... Sad story isn't it?"


Anyway, that's it... I'm not sure how you'd want to use that story or if you'd even want to,,, but I think it's a good story to make her think about what she's giving up... And she better be prepared to let you go if that's the choice she wants to make,,,, and that their is only so many chances she'll get before you'll have moved on and she won't get that chance... So she better be sure that you are not the right person for her...

[Snakey]

Anyway, I thought of a cool story that if you happen to talk to her again and give HER one last chance to WIN YOUUU back, you could tell her this story... If you practice saying it to yourself a couple of times and just remember the main points of it, it'll go down really well, and will just give her that last opportunity to think about her reasons for not being with you and if they are real or not...
Here's how the story goes/how you'll say it to her from here in..

"This story is called, Meeting the 100% perfect girl, one fine, spring afternoon in Austin (change this to sydney or Melbourne or something).

The story starts with with "once upon a time", and ends with "so,,, sad story isn't it?"

Once upon a time, on a fine Spring Afternoon in Austin, a guy was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.
He wasn't thinking about anything special, he was just going to do his laundry.
At the same time from the other direction, a girl was walking along Forest street, going to mail a letter. She wasn't thinking about anything special, hadn't gotten dressed up or put on make-up,,,, she was just going to mail a letter.
And it just so happened they passed each other.
As the guy looked up at the girl he said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect girl for me... Who would think, you could just be out doing your laundry, and you would meet the 100% perfect girl for you.
And as the girl looked up at the guy, with her letter in her hand, she said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect guy for me... What are the chances of just being out mailing a letter, and meeting the 100% perfect guy for me?
And by some, Miracle, by some freak of chance, they both worked up the guts to talk to each other..
So they stopped to talk to each other. Then began walking down Forest street together, just talking about, life, and everything.. And they realised that, everything they had in common, they connected on one hundred percent... And everything they didn't have in common, complimented each other perfectly!
So as they kept walking, they headed down towards the lake and found a bench to sit on. So they sat down,,,
And, hours, went by in the blink of a eye...
After a while, they both started thinking, and the guy says, "You know what?? This is too weird... What are the chances you can just walk outside your house one day, and meet the 100% perfect person for you" And with that, just a small, sliver of doubt popped into their heads.. and they began to wonder..
Suddenly the guy says, "Here is what we are going to do... If this was really meant to be,,, If fate realllly meant for us to be together, then we should seperate right now, without exchanging numbers or anything,,, and let fate decide... If we run into each other again, we'll know that it was meant to be, and we'll just get married right on the spot and live happily every after!"...
So the girl agreed, and they parted ways.
He went to the East. She went to the West.
A day passed, and they didn't see each other.
2 days passed. 3 days passed. A week passed. A month passed. A year passed, and they still hadn't seen each other.
By this time, they both began seeing other people...
Over the years to come, they were even fortunate enough to find love.. They found 60% perfect love.... 70% perfect love... Even as much as 83% perfect love,,, But neither of them found 100% perfect love again..
Eventually though, they both got married and had happy lives.. They had happy marriages with nice people, and they had nice kids who were happy, and even grandkids.....
One day, many many years in the future though, there was a very bad influenza going around, and many people got very very sick.... The man and the lady ended up recovering from their ilness, but both their partners died..
....
So,,,,,,
One fine, spring afternoon in Austin, the man was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.. He was now an old, weathered man, and was clutching his laundry bag, in his feable weak hand, as he went to do his laundry...
And from the other direction came a lady who was going to mail a letter. She had her letter there, tucked into her feable, weak old hand. She was about 79 now, him 82, as she was going to mail her letter..
And they passed each other..
As the man looked up at the lady he said, "You know what?? I think I know that lady from somewhere?.?. There is something about her,,, but I just can't put my finger on it"..
And as the lady looked up the man she said "You know what?? I feel like I know that man... It feels like there is something there, or he has some meaning?.?."
But to many years had passed for the both of them, and they couldn't put their finger on it. To many new experiences and memories had filled their lives now, and the memory of each other had faded..
So they passed each other, and didn't even speak....
*****
But the thing is, They REALLY WERE the 100% perfect people for each other. Fate really did mean for them to spend their lives together....
And fate will put you together once, but what are the chances that fate will put you together twice?? It's like winning tattslotto, then throwing out the ticket and trying to win again just to make sure it was meant to be.

There mistake was that they second guessed fate, and fate never gave them a second chance..

So... Sad story isn't it?"


Anyway, that's it... I'm not sure how you'd want to use that story or if you'd even want to,,, but I think it's a good story to make her think about what she's giving up... And she better be prepared to let you go if that's the choice she wants to make,,,, and that their is only so many chances she'll get before you'll have moved on and she won't get that chance... So she better be sure that you are not the right person for her...

Are you fuckin kiddin me mate...







Thats a fucking good idea! Im gonna try it when i try and see her in a couple of weeks. Im gonna tell her that story and then say to her at the end "if this is meant to be, do you really want to tempt fate and risk the chances of never again being together". I hopes thats gonna be a tear jerker

[Memphis]

Mate, it was a nice tale but give it a miss eh. Dont try any gimmicks, no tricks, no grand gestures. Just tell her straight. Let her know how you feel and leave it, if she wants you she'll let you know.

Good luck mate.

[AdamGB]

lol Snakey did you listen to what anyone said? It's not a case of scoring with her...

Your relationship has stalled - it isn't working... they take work... it's not a case of 'oh my god I love you - we're ment to be... so BE WITH ME!' it takes work and communication

[Saddo]

Sneaky mate just chill and if you start hassling her with "i love you stuff" it will just turn her right off you more and maybe for good.... they don't like it mate...

women are strange creatures mate and the only way she will be intrested in you again is if she cant have you.... fucked up i know but that is how it is with them split arses

somthing similar to getting another girl preferably better looking and make sure she sees bumps into you with her... it dosnt have to be a new girlfriend just a very hot girl to be seen out with say hi to you old girlfriend but be disintrested.

the main rule is if she thinks she cant have you she will want you... if she can have you anytime she wont want you.

thats the only hope you have of ever really getting her back for good

but if i were you i would just move on and have fun at your age mate its for the best

[Snakey]

Hey ive listened to what everyone has had to say and ive combined it into a super plan. Im giving myself two weeks to get myself into a good state of mind. After that im gonna arrange a meeting with her at which point im going to attempt to look like i feel fine. If she asks me about staying home the day after she broke up with me i will just say i was feeling sick (which i actually was...due to that ). And ill jump in first and ask her how shes going and judge by he reaction to that where i go next. I plan on ending the conversation with that story because i know shes a sensitive girl and she will relate to it.


Not full proof, probably wont work but i was with her for a year so what another couple weeks of waiting going to do.

[JT Rock]

Hey ive listened to what everyone has had to say and ive combined it into a super plan. Im giving myself two weeks to get myself into a good state of mind. After that im gonna arrange a meeting with her at which point im going to attempt to look like i feel fine. If she asks me about staying home the day after she broke up with me i will just say i was feeling sick (which i actually was...due to that ). And ill jump in first and ask her how shes going and judge by he reaction to that where i go next. I plan on ending the conversation with that story because i know shes a sensitive girl and she will relate to it.


Not full proof, probably wont work but i was with her for a year so what another couple weeks of waiting going to do.

Snakey get her a log in for the forum and we'll have Bilbo and X sort her out