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Well she only got new friends coz the other ones left school and some moved away. But i knew at some point last year her parents told her she needed to stop seeing me as much so she could study. They are pretty strict parents and shes a good girl so she doesnt like pissing them off.
Well shes lives around the corner from me...well actually across the road (which is why its so fuckin hard). Her mum is waving to me when she sees me but ive always had the impression like she acts nice to me but turns on me when im not around. And her dad, i got along with but he could be a real dick plus my dad has known him for ages and theyve had their differences. I wouldnt be surprised if hes said to her "hes just like his fuckin father, he will do this etc etc". My dads a bricklayer and her dads a builder so they dont get along alot of times.
I get you man, I understand completely.
I can't understand how tough that must be on you living close together though, that would be torture.
Perhaps, you should allow yourself to be seen out and about a lot, if she's unhappy and her parents recognise that annd they're reminded of your presence and how happy it made her, then perhaps they may speak to her.
Do you think she's unhappy now?
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Yeah well mate i noticed she still drives past my house and i reckon 90% of the time she would be looking for my car and it aint there coz im always at a mates house at the moment. Yeah well mate, if i get a chance i will talk to her mum if i see her down the street or something. Ill ask how my ex is and im hoping she will say something that might help me.
Cool man, don't hang on that result though, perhaps as insurance look beyond this situation and see the future, ways you could be happy without her.
In truth VD has a point, It sounds bad, but when a girl miostreats you, revenge is sweet.
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I called her today and i think im fucked. We are going to talk on monday, face to face. But i asked her if there was any chance of us getting back together and she said she didnt know. I asked whether she really meant it last week when she said she didnt love me. She said she wasnt sure, she said she think so but doesnt know. And i asked her how she was going and she said really well. She said that shes going to think about getting back together.
So come monday im fucked, basically im just turning up to find out what went wrong and that she doesnt want me back.
You shouldnt have called DAMMITyou did not give yourself ample time to pull it together.. You probably sounded shaky and desperate and gave her the upper hand. You should have waited till got you shit together and composed yourself so that you can talk to her and make a last ditch mature ADULT effort to reason with her and plead your case.
The few weeks would have helped you master your emotions better so you would appear like you were going on with your life just fine(huge psychological advantage)
Dude, no matter what be strong from here on in, we're here buddy
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oR KIDNAP HER?
No No No....don't do that actually, then you have to keep her somewhere...
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Actually, if Snakey was to act like he had found someone else, or actually DID find someone else, she would probably want him back.
It's weird how when you don't want anything to do with someone as long as they still want something to do with you, but when they actually find someone else and don't need you anymore, it makes it much harder to get over them.![]()
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