Does anyone else HATE this..

[Kev]

I've had more than one relationship end over this in the past, RP.

I'm staunch in my "nothing good happens there" way of thinking. I question the morals of people who attend such gatherings and believe they suffer from poor self esteem. Male and female dregs alike, their jackassery nauseates me to the point of wailing frustration.

There are better ways to enjoy yourself than participating in mass gaucherie with an uncountable number of devient dimwits.

lol you are truly the only man less sociable than myself.

Me, you and CFH would make for the worst party hosts of all time

[RP33]

As long as she's not going out every weekend I don't see what the problem is.

Everybody has a right to a social life and if you trust your girl there's no reason to panic every time she goes out.

Yea I dont see what the big deal is? I mean she is dancing and being out with her friends

Worst case scenario she is out gets hit on and bangs some dude.. I mean it all comes out in the wash and you decide if thats the kind of girl you want.. Like I said worse case scenario.

Let her be, if its not a trend and she comes home at a reasonable time and your bond is strong than your fine. But if your girl is over flirty and dresses scantily than again you decide if you want a girl who thrives on pushing the boundaries of your trust

so here is the trend.. or at least it seems.. the people on here who are around my age, understand.. and JT and Bilbo who are older, do not.. and that's fine.. but you guys aren't understanding completely what im saying..

i'm not panicking when she goes out.. i specifically said in my first post that i trust her, and am not worried about anything "happening", or her meeting someone else.. it's not that at all..

And i don't know what the siginificance is about going out every weekend Bilbo, but yes, she goes out at least once, normally twice a week.. Again, i don't know what that means, but considering you brought it up..

I hate having to repeat myself, but again, in my original post, i said that i don't want to stop her from hanging out with her friends, that's not what this is about.. i understand that people have to have social lives.. i didn't say she should be going out..


It's just a general uncomfortable feeling that i have when she goes to a place that if i were single, i'd be there looking for some chicks.. I mean, there are alternatives to going to clubs to hang out with your friends.. Considering they're all friends because they go to the same college, and they're all not from this state, they all have apartments to have parties at and stuff.. not saying that they should always stay in, but it just seems crazy to always go out.. plus, i know she can't afford it.. heck i couldn't afford it.

It's just a simple matter of feeling uncomfortable.. if you've been in the situation recently, then you know how i feel.. hence the people who literally said they know how i feel.. if you haven't been in the situation in decades, let alone ever, (not speaking to anyone personally here) then i don't expect you to see where i'm coming from.