Does anyone else HATE this..

[CutMeMick]

So, i know most people on here are older than me, and/or single or married and probably aren't in the same position as I am.. but i REALLY hate when my girlfriend goes out to a club with her friends..

I mean, i put up with it cause it's not worth getting into an argument over, and that's what some of her friends do, and i can't say she can't hang out with her friends, but MAN it drives me insane..

don't take this the wrong way, in no way am i a jealous guy, nor do i not trust her.. we've been together for 2 and a half years and are really close and stuff, but it's just the fact that she's in that environment where any drunk douche bag could hit on her and shit.. and i know that sounds stupid but when i go to the places she goes to with my buddies they're all going to meet girls, obviously.. so why am i to think that the things my friends do to girls, doesn't happen to her?

And i know you can say that a guy could hit on her at the supermarket, and that you really can't avoid it, but being in a place like this is asking for it..

I know there is nothing i can do about it, i sort of just wanna vent, but it would be nice to hear this bothers someone else

RP33, get out from under your girls skirt man...

Aren't you the one who posted pictures of the bachelor party you were at and also flat on the floor passed out?

I've been with my girl for several years now she goes out often with her friends sometimes if I can I come along for the ride. Her girlfriends love me cause from all their guys I'm the only one that can stand them on their night outs. (I'm not friends with their boyfriends) But they know I can come along and just watch them go crazy.

I was gonna type a long response but as honest as I can be with you DIANE has the best response and it's perfect. No one else on here has to reply anythign else. Shes perfectly right.
Girls just wanna Dance, Drink, Laugh and Feel Good. They like to get on the dance floor shake their asses, slap eachothers ass. Make stupid faces and make fun of other girls there and the guys there who are salivating over them.

More then anything RP33 you just gotta grow up man. Shes just having fun as others have said so as long as shes coming home to you and she doesn't walk in like she just got off a horse your good.

Well you can't very well tell her to not go out...#1 it would piss her off #2 she'd go out even more because women like to push buttons it's just their nature.

I strongly suggest anytime she plans on going out you should have like a poker night or go bowling or something. Do some guy thing and get your mind off it.

Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere......write that down

Right on Lyle, RP33 take your ass somewhere and have some drinks yourself on your own. Does the term "Elbow room mean anything to you"

I've had more than one relationship end over this in the past, RP.

I'm staunch in my "nothing good happens there" way of thinking. I question the morals of people who attend such gatherings and believe they suffer from poor self esteem. Male and female dregs alike, their jackassery nauseates me to the point of wailing frustration.

There are better ways to enjoy yourself than participating in mass gaucherie with an uncountable number of devient dimwits.

You gotta love Silverback....
Making a sandwhich would also be too risky cause you know you gotta use a knife sometimes.

Everyone needs a break from everyone once in a while. As long as she comes home and isnt walking like John Wayne wheres the fuss?

True. You also wanna check her breath.
And not for alcohol but for Cock Breath.

When I was younger, and used to go to the clubs with my girlfriends, it was nothing more than to just have some fun with the girls. At the time I had a boyfriend, and like you, he didn't like to go dancing, and the thing is, woman just like to dance, and if their guys don't want to, then they go with the girls.

Most girls don't go there looking for hook-ups, although most guys do. We honestly, just want to hang out with each other, have some drinks, laugh, and dance.

Sure we get guys that would hit on us, but pretty much all we did was toy with them in order to get free drinks, and laugh with each other on how pathetic some guys are with their pick-ups lines.

And being that she is with you, she is probably playing the protector role for her friends, that's what I was, so I'm sure she is handling herself well, and you have nothing to worry about.

Let her have her fun with her friends while she can, because the clubbing scene will get old after awhile. Remember, you only live once, so let her live it up while she can.

Also remember, this holds true for both men and women - It's okay to look at the menu, as long as you come home to eat.

Diane,
I wish I could Rape I mean Rep. you again...
This is perfect. I've been with my girl for a while and I can't tell you how many times she's called me to go pick her up cause she can't drive back.
2, 3 in the morning there I go to pick her and her drunk friends up but wait guess what? They wanna eat their hungry so there I go car full of drunk girls who are hungry driving them around. I know my girl and I trust shes smart enough to know when shes had enough.
Diane, would you also not agree that the more RP insists on not letting her go the more she'll do it?
I know with me I just went along for the ride with my girl and I had soo many laughs from seeing them fall, cry, puke allover the side walks.
My girls past it it's a just a little faze that girsl go through you just gotta let her be and she'll get over it. Let her get it ouf her system.
Great advice Diane.

I was going to give you some good advice, but the Bottles gone. The wife comes on here

In true fashion Scrap.
Take it it's time to talk about some things with her?

Yea I dont see what the big deal is? I mean she is dancing and being out with her friends

Worst case scenario she is out gets hit on and bangs some dude.. I mean it all comes out in the wash and you decide if thats the kind of girl you want.. Like I said worse case scenario.

Let her be, if its not a trend and she comes home at a reasonable time and your bond is strong than your fine. But if your girl is over flirty and dresses scantily than again you decide if you want a girl who thrives on pushing the boundaries of your trust

Spot on JT....
RP33, keep in mind this is coming from an engaged man. (JT not me)

I've had more than one relationship end over this in the past, RP.

I'm staunch in my "nothing good happens there" way of thinking. I question the morals of people who attend such gatherings and believe they suffer from poor self esteem. Male and female dregs alike, their jackassery nauseates me to the point of wailing frustration.

There are better ways to enjoy yourself than participating in mass gaucherie with an uncountable number of devient dimwits.

lol you are truly the only man less sociable than myself.

Me, you and CFH would make for the worst party hosts of all time

No music, non-alcoholic beverages, and everyone just sitting staring at eachother.