Quote Originally Posted by Sharla View Post
You can look underneath as long as she doesn't have a barely noticable lazy eye or big feet and if she's fat you'll just use her to indulge your fantasies about being disrespectful to women!

Gee I wonder where I got the idea that you were superficial.

He wasn't a career model he was doing a PhD in maths and computer science - he just wanted to talk about how beautiful he was all the time which was BORING. it's not just an appearance thing - it's mantal energy invested in something pretty dull too!

I don't try to say I'm superior based on gender alone than 50 % of the world's population so I don't leave myself open for insults the way you do.

Me looking for someone i'm compatible with is just as valid as you looking for desirable traits in a woman.

I can honestly say that I'd prefer someone with a healthy lifestyle who is reasonably relaxed about appearances (not unlike myself) and most women I know are the same.

If you're not going to screw every person you meet you have to make some judgements about whether or not you'll be compatible with someone when you meet them.

Guys often go on and on about a woman's looks so why is that so much better than a woman actually preferring a guy who can relax a little who will look after himself.

I think it promotes a healthier person actually. Women today feel the need to get boob jobs etc to impress men because ideals you wouldn't criticise a man for having make them feel like they need to just to be attractive.
I still don't see how you think I'm superficial. Surely you know me well enough by now to know that what I say on the boards is rarely to be taken seriously.

The fat women text thing was behaviour I was ashamed of. And I stopped it, you know that so you don't need to keep bringing it up. Beside's I think I demonstrate that I'm an open book and a million miles away from being fake or superficial in the fact that I talk about these things anyway.

You only even know about my flaws because I readily admit to them!

The girl with the boss eye.....that was just a flyaway comment on a hidden board thread.I wasn't comdemning her or being cruel, it was just a private lads chat on a boxing forum, it doesn't make me a bad person!

And for what it matters if she was everything I wanted in a girl then I wouldn't have been put off by a mere physical imperfection, but she was just a nightclub fuck nothing more. And before you lecture me on my lack of morality, she asked to come home with me and was just wanting sex as well. She was Danish, only working in the UK for the summer and barely spoke proper English. She could have been the most beautiful girl physically in the world and she still wouldn't have been more than a casual fling.

As for guys always going on about a girls looks, that may be true but I personally don't judge a girl's worth merely by how pretty she is. I do have to find a girl physically attractive in order to be attractive to them (and so do girls) but beyond that I look for other qualities as well.

A pretty girl, who is intelligent, health conscious, has good values, shares my interests and is warm and friendly is far more appealing to me than an absolutely stunning looking girl who has nothing in common with me, isn't a warm and caring person or who is self centered and shallow.

As for the male being superior to the female comments on Dizasters pick up blog......well if you can't see that that was tongue in cheek and a gentle rib taking aimed at riling you up then I guess I'll have to knock 'intelligence' off your list of qualities