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Re: Watching porn with the girlfriend
Donny said it straight up first thing, depends what the girl thinks of it....
If my girlfriend even FOUND a porn picture somewhere on my computer at the start of the relationship, it would have been world war 3 literally... I would have been crazy to show her porn, or wack on some porn before diving into bed with her...
BUT, as time moved on, it was discovered my girlfriend kind of had a thing for other girls, and we went through a phase of watching lesbo porn together while i'd like grab her neck and be like "yeah, you'd fucken like those hot girls to be licking your snatch wouldn't you you little lesbo slut.. You'd love to be in that scene with all the girls holding your legs open while the other pounds your c**t with a dildo... Now cum bitch!".. You know, a bit of that is great... But she totally likes that thing in the heat of the moment.. And we've worked up to that... You can't be afraid to push things a little further each time, for BOTH of you..
You don't need to talk like that out of the bedroom.. hell no, but lead towards that in the bedroom, and your's will be the only knob she'll ever need..
But your relationship has gotta be at that stage... Hell, telling your girlfriend to get naked and start playing with herself while you go down the shop to get a bottle of champagne, but really come strolling back in walking 2 other dykes with dog collars on could be totally freakin hot for your relationship..
But only if your relationship is at that stage...
I'd probably work into it in some way.. If your girlfriend is comfortable with you pointing out a girl and being like, "she's got nice hair" etc, and she'll agree.. Then you can move into "that girl is attractive" etc... Once your passed that comfortableness, actually find out what your girlfriend likes...
I found out quickly, simply by asking, that my girlfriend doesn't like butchy or normal lesbians,,, she only likes totally big breasted, blonde bombshell ones.. So I personally dug up a bunch of vids and photosets of what I thought she would like (the things a guy has to do right?), and wacked it on and got hot and heavy, and it was great! In any long term relationship, you need to do different things all the time, or it gets old..
So i'd say definetely go for it.... But run it at her comfort levels... But girls like to be led and dominated.. Women are inherently submissive by their feminine energy. Men are dominant and masculine by their inherent energy.. So even though you keep your girlfriend comfortable, it doesn't hurt to push that a little bit, as long as she trusts where your leading her is safe and for her as much as you, then you can't go to far wrong...
On a side note - A study was done at a leading university on women and what they get aroused by, and 100% in this study of something like 1000 women, got turned on by watching female on female porn... Only a few didn't get turned on by male to female porn... And only like 1% were turned on by male to male porn...
So safe your personal collection for yourself (lol just kidding man :-) )
But have fun with it.. Girls are sexual creatures and leading them somewhere taboo and naughty can really bring something more out of them that you didn't know was there.... But if a girl feels uncomfortable, it'll freeze up real quick, and it'll be 2 steps backwards...
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