I'm with Mad_Dog, she calls up crying theres guilt there. You don't cry because you're unsure about what coulda/shoulda/woulda happend, you cry because you did something wrong and should be punished . It actually sounds like she's the histarical high maintenance type, which you need to get away from if she is - theres nothing worse than a woman who needs attention, needs to hear your voice (stand on your on two feet). Growing up with 2 older sisters and a mom I've seen what women are capable - the rebelious (bi-polar) out of control free spirited sister, the over achieving work your ass off live in a nice house and be bitter till the sun goes down sister, the mom who drinks 10 beers a day never cleans house and stays in bed for a week. Not to mention the women I've encountered on my own path... What you need to know is most females are tuned into themselves, even when they're with you (unless you're a good looking guy and she's fugly - hardly ever the case). They can be the sweetest person in the world one day, and the next be a completely different person. It's your job to make a decision whether you want to live your life for someone else or live it for you. Majority of women share this selfishness, and if you have it in your head theres someone out there just for you who doesn't have shortcomings like this you're dead wrong lol. And when they do pull some evil shit like two-timing you, it seems soooooooo much worse than when a guy does it, why? You can't choke the wench into her next life when it happends (atleast I refuse to lay my hand on a woman). Of course thats when you seek other alternatives like getting her fired, kicked out of school, planting drugs on her and calling the cops - beside the point . Bottom line women are always more trouble than they're worth and theres but one reason to keep them around, they're beautiful. Are there cool chicks out there who won't fuck you around? Yeah of course, but they're rare and have to of seen the dark side of life themself so they know just how lucky they are to be with you and have this great thing going on. If a womans had a privelaged life, get the fuck away from her cause she'll walk all over you.