Woman Troubles

[Howlin Mad Missy]

So Missy, ever break a guys heart?

think I did didn't mean to, I cared, still do, so I can relate if this guy turned up and said that to her it would upset her.


M_D me? Never. But you do know we cry for all sorts of reasons not guilt

[raleights]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

[Howlin Mad Missy]

LOL men

see how they laugh at us SOBO

Missy is just proving my point






she turns me on like no other though and I would gladly take emotional abuse from her as long as she keeps me sessually satisfied

Didn't know you had a lisp? Kinda like it

[Purist]

Don't listen to them

Men have no clue what she is going through because they think completely different.

See, if you act like the jealous guy who thinks she is going to leave him, then she is going to think that you don't trust her, and that will make things much much worse for you.

Be there for her through it and show understanding. If she didn't want you to be there for you she wouldn't have called you and told you. There's a reason she told you, and that reason is NOT that she's going to leave you.

Best be there for her and let her know you understand what she's going through and that you're there for her no matter what. You show her that, it's something that a simple "I love you" can't show. And then she will cherish you for your understanding and willingness to be there for her.

Now you can either make her feel more close to you, and take her with her flaws, or you could reject her and look for someone "perfect" and push her away and regret it.

Now's not the time to think of yourself, think of her, and she'll think of you.

Think of yourself, and so will she, and you won't have a girlfriend anymore.

ok turn the roles around

your guy came to you and said, I met my old girlfriend at a club and she told me she loved me. Now I am confused. I do not know if I love you or her.

what will you do

I'd tell him to do what makes him happy and that I'd understand.

And if he decided to leave thats on him not me, because I let him have the choice and didn't try to force anything on him. And if he makes a choice he lives with it, I don't have to.

All that revolves around the fact that she's not a two timing tramp, how do you know she isn't?

Because if she was a two timing tramp she wouldn't have told him.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

[Purist]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

Me neither. If I have a man that comfurts me adn the comfurt leaves, and I cheated on him with a guy that did comfurt me that makes me weak to him, because cheating doesn't mean you leave the other guy, I'd still have contact with the guy who I was cheating on. So that would make me weak that I couldn't break away first and THEN find someone. Whats the point of cheating?

[Mad_Dog]

Don't listen to them

Men have no clue what she is going through because they think completely different.

See, if you act like the jealous guy who thinks she is going to leave him, then she is going to think that you don't trust her, and that will make things much much worse for you.

Be there for her through it and show understanding. If she didn't want you to be there for you she wouldn't have called you and told you. There's a reason she told you, and that reason is NOT that she's going to leave you.

Best be there for her and let her know you understand what she's going through and that you're there for her no matter what. You show her that, it's something that a simple "I love you" can't show. And then she will cherish you for your understanding and willingness to be there for her.

Now you can either make her feel more close to you, and take her with her flaws, or you could reject her and look for someone "perfect" and push her away and regret it.

Now's not the time to think of yourself, think of her, and she'll think of you.

Think of yourself, and so will she, and you won't have a girlfriend anymore.

ok turn the roles around

your guy came to you and said, I met my old girlfriend at a club and she told me she loved me. Now I am confused. I do not know if I love you or her.

what will you do

I'd tell him to do what makes him happy and that I'd understand.

And if he decided to leave thats on him not me, because I let him have the choice and didn't try to force anything on him. And if he makes a choice he lives with it, I don't have to.

All that revolves around the fact that she's not a two timing tramp, how do you know she isn't?

Because if she was a two timing tramp she wouldn't have told him.

here it is SOBO, straight from the source

Starr says

1. Tell her you understand
2. Tell her to do what makes her happy
3. She then dumps you

M_D says
1. tell her you understand
2. Tell her to pick the guy who makes her happy
3. If she is confused dump her


your choice

[raleights]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

And thats a good thing, says alot about you personally. But you know you're the minority with that, most women/men have

Atleast the ones who were attractive enough to have those opportunities, this doesn't really apply to ugly people

[Mad_Dog]

either way you are going to hurt

hurt goes away much faster when you choose the path you want to take as opposed to someone else choosing for you.

you know have a situation,,,,what do you do...

if you make the move, your confidence levels will remain intact and you will be much better for it.

if she leaves, you will be ruined for at least two years.

[raleights]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

Me neither. If I have a man that comfurts me adn the comfurt leaves, and I cheated on him with a guy that did comfurt me that makes me weak to him, because cheating doesn't mean you leave the other guy, I'd still have contact with the guy who I was cheating on. So that would make me weak that I couldn't break away first and THEN find someone. Whats the point of cheating?

There is no point of cheating, but it happends everyday for pointless/selfish reasons

[Howlin Mad Missy]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

And thats a good thing, says alot about you personally. But you know you're the minority with that, most women/men have

Atleast the ones who were attractive enough to have those opportunities, this doesn't really apply to ugly people

I've seen the hurt it causes, if I cared about someone how could I do that to them.

[raleights]

either way you are going to hurt

hurt goes away much faster when you choose the path you want to take as opposed to someone else choosing for you.

you know have a situation,,,,what do you do...

if you make the move, your confidence levels will remain intact and you will be much better for it.

if she leaves, you will be ruined for at least two years.

3 years depending on how hot she is....

[Howlin Mad Missy]

either way you are going to hurt

hurt goes away much faster when you choose the path you want to take as opposed to someone else choosing for you.

you know have a situation,,,,what do you do...

if you make the move, your confidence levels will remain intact and you will be much better for it.

if she leaves, you will be ruined for at least two years.

chances are she will leave if you listen to the men

[raleights]

better question, ever cheat on someone?

No. what's the point? if you're tempted by someone else then you're not meant to be with the person you are with. Capiche?

And thats a good thing, says alot about you personally. But you know you're the minority with that, most women/men have

Atleast the ones who were attractive enough to have those opportunities, this doesn't really apply to ugly people

I've seen the hurt it causes, if I cared about someone how could I do that to them.

Dunno, my parents were married for 18 years and it didn't stop them. Of course they were both addicted to drugs and money so maybe they weren't in the right mindset

[Howlin Mad Missy]

that's because they're weak and outta control