Quote Originally Posted by Mad_Dog
either way you are going to hurt

hurt goes away much faster when you choose the path you want to take as opposed to someone else choosing for you.

you know have a situation,,,,what do you do...

if you make the move, your confidence levels will remain intact and you will be much better for it.

if she leaves, you will be ruined for at least two years.
3 years depending on how hot she is....