lots of good idea's and opinions, thanks for all of them, but sorry guys, I really don't want to lose this one, sure she is the first one I have loved, and I think going your way will not solve my situation,

I do NOT think she did anything with him, like physically, because there were other people there, and I asked her, she told me that she didn't, I believe her. Maybe she was just emotional at the fact that she was thinking about him, and needed to here my voice, I dunno... but I do not think she was cheating on me, or is.

I mean I thought about it, how bout if we did break up, and lets say 2 years down the road, I am with another chick, and this one i see at a bar again one time, and she tells me she still loves me, I mean, I for sure would have thogoughts running through my head of her and the times we have shared, so in that case I see where she is coming from, and I understand that,

but i mean this guy, yes is a friend etc. I dont want this to happen everytime she sees him, well a slong as he doesn't say he loves her all the time, I gotta have a chat with him when i do see him, b/c he has fucked this over nicely for me. I mean she did love him, I think, not like, they were younger, so nothign really happened, she just had a lot of fun with him, (not sexually) and I guess at one point did like, she told me in the car when I asked her,"what did you think" she said "why couldn't you have said this 2 years ago. and that the only reason she was happy, (b/c this guy left the school after two years,) was becasue I came into her life, and made her forget about him. He is just here for the summer, and going back to school at the other end of the country at the end of summer so... but I dont want her to think of him all the time, you know, like everytime she see's him, she'll think what if, worse if she acts on it, I dont tihnk she will.

Whaever the case may be, I am definalty going out with her on thursday if she decides to go, and this guy "happens" to show up as well, I am not going to leave him with her at some bar,

again, thanks for all the thoughts, i have not been able to stop thinkig about this, which is bad since I got night school and a exam this tues, lol

so I am going to talk to her tonight, let her know that I am there, if she needs me, and that I want to help her through this, she has however said she needs to think this throught hereself, (what could she be thinking about, I mean the good times they have had? does she want to go out with this guy?? like i don't know, hopefully it passes, soon. ) Thanks, and I guess i can keep you guys updated as the situation goes,


Thanks again,