Woman Troubles

[raleights]

Hope it all goes well SOBO, you should atleast try to work it out
Just make sure if you're being fed bullshit, ya see right through it

and if all else fails well, X has already advised you on what to do...

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[Mad_Dog]

lots of good idea's and opinions, thanks for all of them, but sorry guys, I really don't want to lose this one, sure she is the first one I have loved, and I think going your way will not solve my situation,

I do NOT think she did anything with him, like physically, because there were other people there, and I asked her, she told me that she didn't, I believe her. Maybe she was just emotional at the fact that she was thinking about him, and needed to here my voice, I dunno... but I do not think she was cheating on me, or is.

I mean I thought about it, how bout if we did break up, and lets say 2 years down the road, I am with another chick, and this one i see at a bar again one time, and she tells me she still loves me, I mean, I for sure would have thogoughts running through my head of her and the times we have shared, so in that case I see where she is coming from, and I understand that,

but i mean this guy, yes is a friend etc. I dont want this to happen everytime she sees him, well a slong as he doesn't say he loves her all the time, I gotta have a chat with him when i do see him, b/c he has fucked this over nicely for me. I mean she did love him, I think, not like, they were younger, so nothign really happened, she just had a lot of fun with him, (not sexually) and I guess at one point did like, she told me in the car when I asked her,"what did you think" she said "why couldn't you have said this 2 years ago. and that the only reason she was happy, (b/c this guy left the school after two years,) was becasue I came into her life, and made her forget about him. He is just here for the summer, and going back to school at the other end of the country at the end of summer so... but I dont want her to think of him all the time, you know, like everytime she see's him, she'll think what if, worse if she acts on it, I dont tihnk she will.

Whaever the case may be, I am definalty going out with her on thursday if she decides to go, and this guy "happens" to show up as well, I am not going to leave him with her at some bar,

again, thanks for all the thoughts, i have not been able to stop thinkig about this, which is bad since I got night school and a exam this tues, lol

so I am going to talk to her tonight, let her know that I am there, if she needs me, and that I want to help her through this, she has however said she needs to think this throught hereself, (what could she be thinking about, I mean the good times they have had? does she want to go out with this guy?? like i don't know, hopefully it passes, soon. ) Thanks, and I guess i can keep you guys updated as the situation goes,


Thanks again,

poor guy he already knows the answer but is in denial. good luck my friend, I tried. Good luck for reals

[X]

Kill them both and let God sort it out.

[Steelie]

The answer always lies within the arms of a big unit...they're glad of the attention and expect to be treated like shit.

You can't lose!!

[raleights]

I still think making a revenge thread for cheating spouses would be productive...a top 10 if you will

things like chopping her hair off while shes sleeping, paying a hiv-positive crackhead to rape her, cutting break lines on her car. can do it for the girls too (castration ect. ect.)

we've talked about everything else, why not

[raleights]

Kill them both and let God sort it out.

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[Snakey]

Man you got problems...im here in aus having a fucked up situation trying to figure out if this chick i know likes me....and she has a bf whos a mate of mine. At least you got the girl...im hear playing "guess the body language" Mate sounds to me like you got a problem...i think the only thing you can do is ask her how she really feels and you might not like the answer. But dont listen to me...im having women troubles too, fuckin women have to be so bloody complicated!

no snakey it is not complicated, simple black and white. If she is not down with you.......here is what you say.....................NEXT!!!

please dont be friends with women......

be a dick sometimes. Beleive me, I got more women being a jerk than being nice. This is something I could never figure out why. But when I was nice I got walked all over, when I was a jerk, I was Brad Pitt the second, I dont know why but its true.

DONT BE A PUSSY!!

I wish I could give you all my experiences. Everytime I see or hear of a young guy getting all lovy dubby over a chick that has no interest in him, it makes me shake my head cause I know better.

Thats the problem mate, i am a bit of a dick to her and she responds well to it.....but she has a fuckin bf who i have known for ages. I swear shes just trying to confuse the snake man

[SOBO]

WELL LOOKS LIKE ITS A SINKING SHIP

i was at a coffee house and she called saying she had just finished work, I told her I wanted to talk, after some resistence, I pursuaded her to come, she was very busy, etc. So i give her my spiel, about how I am there for her, and how I want to help her through this, and that I want to help her, and not just buy getting thrown to the side and letting her think, to this she replies

"there are a lot of things we need to talk about"

which is great!, (sarcasm) our relationship has been kinda rocky for the last bit, I asked her if she would be ready to talk by tommrowo night after my test, she said she wouldnt be ready...

so to kill my curiousity, i asked, "so it's you, and its not me right" to this she smiled, and said "yeah, its me and not you"
WTF was she laughing at? that confused me, I did not confront the matter further,

well sorta, I later asked "so, is your mind basically made up" she shook her head no, then i told her she can go to her meeting, and she gave me a hug and a kiss, ON THE CHEEK! then she went to change in the bathroom, so i just left!

AM i right in assuming it is basically over and WTF could she possibly be thinimg, whether or not to break up eith me? if she is that far, I tihnk its too far and its over no? is she preparing a speech to give, or is she gathering up all my stuff so she can give it back to me? like WTF,

then again forgot to add this, i asked again if anything happened btw her an the oter guy, she again shook her head no, so... either thats the truth or I am about to find out soon enough...

what a great present for summer huh? man im gonna feel pretty shitty for a while now....


but thanks for all the for everyone who gave it,

i'll keep you updated....

[BIG H]

Mate, where woman are concerned there aint really any advice that can help you!!

I've been in some pretty shitty relationships in my time and have been in some pretty dark places over woman - at the end of the day whatever is gonna happen will happend and it will be for the best for you in the long run, hard as it may seem now

Good luck fella

[Mad_Dog]

I told you already that it is over but you aint listening

what you will do now, is hang on to hope and think well maybe if I do this and maybe if I do that she will want me back

then you will say I will be loyal until she comes back

and then you will end up feeling and looking like a pussy


move on bro, start dating as fast as you can. Put it behind you as fast as you can.

see what happens when you follow starrs and missy's advice. you wind up looking stupid. if you would have been a man about it you would have left with your dignity.

[Mad_Dog]

she feels sorry for you but this pity will only last a little while, then you will keep coming back and back wanting to talk her pity would turn to disdain and you will be looked upon as a bother. you will feel like a pussy you know why?

cause you will be....

dont be a pussy, you can still come back BE A MAN!!!!

[Mad_Dog]

BE A MAN SOBO YOU FAG!!!!!!!!


COME ON BROTHER I AM ROOTING FOR YOU!!!!!

STEP UP BE A MAN!! LEAVE WITH YOUR DIGNITY

start going out with your buds, get drunk have fun. other chicks will come if you act like a winner

[raleights]

Sorry SOBO, shitty deal all around. Assuming this is your first time to deal with this, start looking on the positive side of being single. Think about what you really wanna do, things you couldn't do when shes around (masturbate with a moist rag). Ultimately do whatever it is ya gotta do, to get back to normal. You're probably questioning whether to trust someone else like that again, in which you need to let her know. What she did changes the way you think and feel, and shes an evil cunt for it.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

well sorta, I later asked "so, is your mind basically made up" she shook her head no, then i told her she can go to her meeting, and she gave me a hug and a kiss, ON THE CHEEK! then she went to change in the bathroom, so i just left!

and that my friend has just ended your relationship.

[Munkymagic]

Great great thread.

Life sucks sometimes SOBO