Conflict On This Board

[Sharla]

I'll answer this Julius

You're a snivelling little turd

Who was it who said in the very first post he wrote winging about how terrible life was but how determined he was not to wind up like his brother by running out on his kids.

You have always been full of shit obviously since now you try to pretend being an irresponsible dumb ass is actually somehow manly.

You are a disgrace to your gender in fact as evidenced by most other men even VD who looks after his kids.

You say you know what you did was wrong but you have the audacity to brag about it.

F Off and get a life you depraved little pickle dick!

When you put up that first post feeling down and out and stressed we all got behind you.

We all felt for what you claimed was you efforts to be a man and facing challenges along the way.

You clearly made all that BS up by the way you're acting now!

Youngblood - you're a smart guy - who do you wanna be like more - who do you really think represent what it is to be a man more -

Snivelling little Julius with all of his excuses and attempt to glorify the fact he messed up rather than take responsibility for it or Hitmandonny - not only a responsible father and diligent worker but 2 times Irish national boxing champ.

There's a reason people like Hitmandonny achieve more in life than little wanks like Julius - responsibility!

ok without anger, tell me what do you think is best i should do?

can i really do anything right now? Not knowing if the girl is pregnant or not? We are not talking at this moment, even if i try she is not talking to me.

Everybody is just jumping into conclusion, only thing I really need to do is tell my wife i had a affair. I'l do that but not now til I am sure this girl is not pregnant or is.

Its one thing to believe that abortion is bad, but not everyone share that opinion. Am I the one who is not open minded?

I am getting ranned out of the forum for coming here where I thought we were like family and would not judge and attack eachother so quick. When it isn't even for certain that this girl is pregnant.

Yes I said it would be best she gets an abortion if so, and she agreed. Shouldn't that be between me and her not between me and saddo forum? Its our lives, right or wrong to your eyes or others. Its what we think will be best for us, and its not even a formed baby yet. if it was I wouldn't want an abortion. I can understand some people that would state abortion is wrong but attack me when it has happened and not just a thought yet. who knows maybe if i figure out that she really is pregnant. Maybe i would persuade her to keep it. But in all honesty I have no idea at the moment, she could just be messing with my mind to make me act like the way i am or whatever. I don't know! no matter what though now I know it is a bad idea to put this even in the hidden board. next time I'll just pm my closes friends here. I wouldn't be judge by them so quickly.

You can't tell someone to get an abortion. I could never kill a baby I was carrying just because it came at an inconvenient time.

I don't have any religious objections to it - i wouldn't judge a woman for choosing that but I could never live with myself if i did that.

If that's the way she feels (and you wouldn't know) then you have no right to pressure her into becoming a murderer in her own eyes for the rest of her life.

You screwed around unprotected - you may just have to realise that the consequence - although difficult - is way better than other things that could have happened - like AIDS.

Stop expecting sympathy

Stop using the guy excuse

Make yourself available to help out.

Be honest with your wife.

Accept the fact that your wife has every right to HATE you until the end of time and you have no right to feel sorry for yourself at all.

Accept the fact that your irresponsible actions may mean learning to more responsible than you've ever had to be before and the world is not all about how you feel and about how you want anymore.

You're getting picked on because you're acting like being so blatantly uncaring of the repurcussions of your actions is your right just because you're male.

In fact that won't fly with most people because most parents on here love their kids, women are disgusted for obvious reasons and we're all someone's kid.

I have no empathy for your hurt feelings in this situation. You've neglected to think about anyone else's feelings for this whole ordeal and now you have no right to expect others to care about yours!

Stop expecting it.