I sense a lot of bitterness on this thread from all the male contributers!
MESSAGE...............just cos you feel like you've been fucked over in the past - GET OVER IT!Every one is different,no need to treat every woman like it's a competition to see who's got the most control.
But i suppose,coming onto a boxing forum to ask for relationship advice is about as well advised as Pete Townsend using the net for 'research'!