Quote Originally Posted by Mad_Dog
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SOBO Says
i was at a coffee house and she called saying she had just finished work, I told her I wanted to talk, after some resistence, I pursuaded her to come, she was very busy, etc. So i give her my spiel, about how I am there for her, and how I want to help her through this, and that I want to help her, and not just buy getting thrown to the side and letting her think,

The woman instead of caring for him still lets him wait.
Can't she?

He then asks, "so it's you, and its not me right" to this she smiled, and said "yeah, its me and not you"
WTF was she laughing at? that confused me, I did not confront the matter further,
She laughed at him!!!!!
How do you know that she was laughing at him?

It's not like she laughed after he said he would be there for her.

She laughed after he told her "It's not me, its you right?" And THEN she smiled and agreed. NEWSFLASH she wasn't laughing at him!

see she can laugh at him because she already has at the very least mentally left him and got together with the other guy.
You really get misconception on a lot of things, ever think of expanding your mind?

Poor guy is confused and hurt and asks
"so, is your mind basically made up" she shook her head no, and gives him a mercy hug and kiss as if he was a street do.
Again, all your perception points to is something negative.

THE MOMENT she tells him that she's leaving him then you have layway to say she's treating him like a dog etc... but she hasn't left him has she? And she's not cutting him off and avoiding him is she? No she isn't. You're taking things like this and showing a negative perception. You're only thinking to one outcome and one way things work.

You're not being open minded, I am. You been saying since jump that she was gonna leave him so any little hint of anything you can mold to it you're automatically saying it.