Well I'm probably ultra conservative in this sense for a few reasons:
1) Addicitive tendancies tend to run in my family and I think I have an addictive personality so I don't think I want to experiement with some things ever because I don't trust my ability to control my reaction / need for it.
2) I have a cousin who is a pschitzophrenic (dam I think i probably made a few mistakes spelling that but hopefully you get it) from his drug habit so chances are it would mess with me and I'd be scared eventually it's mess with a partner the same way.
3) I have a healthy lifestyle not to unlike Donny and just don't like being weird to people who choose to live in other ways
4) As Salty said - who has the money for it?!?!?
5) As Legion said I hate feeling like I don't have my senses about me - except probably to more of an extreme than him since I hate even feeling drunk if I'm out and not sure of how easily I'll find my way home etc if something happens.
So yeah I think i do find others who are healthy more attractive.
I do believe guys should have guys nights - i think it's a bit of a myth that most women don't - and I really wouldn't care if a partner got boozed or had some weed etc out with his mates.
Not into someone who does more than that and don't want to have to mop up vomit from drunken nights out too often.
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