What do you look for????

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Glad you get what I mean Amat, not picking on Ice as his response is typical for 99.99999% of guys when asked what they find attractive in a girl but it means nothing.

Translated roughly it means 'I have to be attracted to them'

I know what you mean as well about your girl examples. It's the intangibles that often make us attracted to someone. Initially almost all males are attracted to a physically attractive girl, someone who most approximates the youthful, childrearing potential ideal of a nice petite hourglass type figure but personality is where it gets complicated.

I really think to a large extent we are attracted to girls who are like us, at least in several important regards.

By good sense of humour, we actually mean, someone who likes MY humour, and by kind and good natured, and 'a nice person' we usually actually mean someone who is kind and nice to ME and likes ME.

We are selfish shallow creatures ultimately, all of us are, but there is nothing wrong with that. If we are going to spend our lives, or at least a significant portion of it with somoene we expect that we should find them sexually desirable, that they make us feel good about ourselves, and that we enjoy spending time with them more than spending time without them.

Is that the line you gave her when she asked why you never took her anywhere and kept her hidden away in your apartment?

At least when I want to charm my girl I don't have to use a flute

At least my girl can see the flute without needing to turn her head sideways