Quote Originally Posted by Munky
How old are you SOBO? I can't believ you are getting this hung up on a woman that clearly doesn't want to be with you and took great joy in f*cking you about like a plaything. She's probably telling all her mates how she strung you along like a lost cat.

Mate cut loose and forget her. Get over it. I guarantee that when you get out there and start meeting new women you will wonder what you saw in this girl.

FFS slap yourself round the face and belt up. You are young so just get out and enjoy yourself and stop moping about like some lovesick puppy.

harsh words but its for the best
I know what I should be doing, but its tough, its not like i can suddenly forget about her like she never existed. I did get drunk on the weekend, and I broke, I checked my phone the morning after, she left a message on my phone, (i passed out at saying that she heard i was passed out etc. and she wanted to know that I was ok, BUT this was after I had called her 3 times, i checked on my phone, that's pretty weak, I wish I had not done that, its in the past now. I also spoke with her the day after, found out she was having a party at her place, b/c her parents when away for the week, and that has been the last time i talked to her for the last few days, I now find it easier that I don't talk to her, when I do I find myself wanting to know what is going on with her, what she's doing etc. but that only makes it worse.

The night she had the party, I went to my buddies house and talke with his bro b/c he went thru the same thing a few years back, he said the best thing to get thru this is totaly cut her off and move on with your life, so this friday I am taking this chick to a baseball game, she's a friend, but we sorta had a thing for each other a little while back, Im not gonna try anyting, at least i haven't decided yet, but just to get the other chick ot of my head, i tihnk its a good idea.