Yeah what i'd do is just ignore them... Whatever fun they are having getting into drugs, a part of them knows they are heading down the wrong path and are feeling bad about it.. So they're gonna hang onto making comments about you to make them feel better.... The fact that they are pointing out you think you're in a better place than them, is simply an outwards projection of the exact thing that they are feeling... As long as they feel inferiour, they are always going to be trying to bring you down as long as you're associated with them.. The only thing i'd suggest, and you probably don't do this anyway, is don't be critical of them having drugs.. Just be like, yeah they can go ahead and do that... Technically it doesn't change who they are.. It might add to their ego in some way that they are "cooler" because they're taking drugs, but as long as you don't feed into that side of things by even acknowledging their drug use, they'll probably end up being cool with you... Just if you can manage to treat them the same as usual and let them be dickheads if they want, they'll either not bother with you because they aren't getting a rise out of ya, or they'll be cool and see you as a friend who is of more value than others that just want to make them have more drugs...
If I get a chance tonight, i'll upload this e-book by Eckhart Tolle.. It talks about people's ego's, and I love it because just about anything anyone does that is stupid, it is explained in this book... I deal with people with all sorts of big ego's all day, and this book has made me understand them so much better and deal with them a tonne better as well...
It sounds like those guys are just a little envious of you and trying to do a bit of attention seeking at the same time... Obviously they are getting something out of drugs that they aren't getting from regular life, which is a part of every human's exploration, but at some point, they just becoming assholes and you'll probably have to tell them to back the fuck off... But let them have their 5 minutes of fame on your webpage for now..
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Re: What would you do?
Originally Posted by Dizaster
Yeah what i'd do is just ignore them... Whatever fun they are having getting into drugs, a part of them knows they are heading down the wrong path and are feeling bad about it.. So they're gonna hang onto making comments about you to make them feel better.... The fact that they are pointing out you think you're in a better place than them, is simply an outwards projection of the exact thing that they are feeling... As long as they feel inferiour, they are always going to be trying to bring you down as long as you're associated with them.. The only thing i'd suggest, and you probably don't do this anyway, is don't be critical of them having drugs.. Just be like, yeah they can go ahead and do that... Technically it doesn't change who they are.. It might add to their ego in some way that they are "cooler" because they're taking drugs, but as long as you don't feed into that side of things by even acknowledging their drug use, they'll probably end up being cool with you... Just if you can manage to treat them the same as usual and let them be dickheads if they want, they'll either not bother with you because they aren't getting a rise out of ya, or they'll be cool and see you as a friend who is of more value than others that just want to make them have more drugs...
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