have you never had a girl approach you? I've had girls who want a relationship from me that i don't want, i've had girlfriends parents wanting me to marry their daughter.. i'm not saying this to boast, or anything to that extent.. but i've been in relationships where i've been more into the girl than her into me, but also where the girl was more into me than i was into her, it works both ways..
Hhhhhhmmm it has happened when I am travelling in Asia :roll: or meet them even outside of Asia. And I am not talking about meeting girls on the red light district. Just typical girls walking around the city who approach me and one might think it is because they want to get out of their country, a free meal, etc. But no, they really just want to go out and both are as involved in the date and contribute as much. But I am not sure if having a girl approach you means that she is willing to have things revolve around both and not just her. That is, to have her contribute to the relationship as much as the guy in all aspects.
If we google the topic, go to any library section on relationships, ask people, etc. We'll see that it is expected from men to do it all in the relationship: romancing the girl, taking her out, taking care of expenses, proposing, giving her the ring, giving the speech to both families, etc. That is what confuses me. If a relationship involves two then why won't women offer those things that they demand/expect from men? Where's the equality women complain about?
A guy needs a career, a job, own transportation, etc. if he's considering meeting girls and having a relationship. No wonder some people say "No money, no honey". As harsh as it may sound, a girlfriend/wife is an expense. As for women, no, they can totally be broke, no career, etc. no problem. A guy will still pick her up. Imagine a guy telling both families he will marry her and he doesn't have a job, career, etc. I can assure you everybody would feel totally insulted. But have it the other way around, no problem.
i will agree, that if you are a girl, you can go into a bar, and say "i could sleep with him, him, him, him, him etc" and just point at guys, where if you're a guy you actually have to "try" to get laid and meet a girl...
Yes, and it will cost the guy some money.
Girls are at the advantage that by nature
Yes they are .