I enjoy having sex with someone i'm "in love" with than just some random girl
That's right. Same here. I rather have sex with my wife (if I ever marry) then a random girl. The whole after-sex resting in each others' arms and all that sappy stuff I wouldn't be able to have with a random girl and even if we just played along, it wouldn't be the same than being with my wife. So I rather have limited, less explosive, less kinky, less experimental, less times, etc. with my wife than a prostitute who would offer way more in the pleasure department.
this is usually cause i'm always drunk when i do some random girl
LoL
plus, when you say "typical" wife or girlfriend, what does that mean? Maybe i don't aim for typical or something but i want someone who will travel with me, and someone who is as outgoing as i am.. someone who can be one of my best friends.. MAYBE it's just me, but i'm all set with doing those things with a prostitute...
Sure, to have your wife as your best friend and all is what I would prefer as well regardless of sex not being anything near of what a prostitute/dancer/etc. offers. You have to sacrifice one thing for the other I guess.
finally, my last thing that kills your argument about the whole "buying a girl a drink or dinner is like paying a prostitute" is the fact that you're playing her like it's a game...You go out, and you're trying to land a hot girl that you hope you can take home.. 50%+ of the fun is the chase and the mystery of it all...the "is she into me" and "what will happen next"...Then when you finally land her, it's a great feeling of accomplishment. This adds SO MUCH to the whole experience...If you're paying for a prostitute, which i think is heavily frowned upon and shows terrible signs of desperation, then there is no mystery. she's going to come over in something slutty, probably fukked out of her mind on heroine, and is going to sleep with you, then ask for money. WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHMENT
Ok, I think I get what you are saying but bottom line is that both were paid for. One was paid hard cold cash while the other one was paid with a fancy dinner, wine, transportation, event (movies, play, museum, concert, etc.), a gift, etc. and in the end the street prostitute will be cheaper (in the long run) and way better in bed. Also, with the prostitute, besides being cheaper and offering better sex, you are guaranteed 100% that you will get some action whereas with the "typical girl" you are not guaranteed so it means that your money could just fly out of your wallet and pretty much just mean you paid for someone to talk your ears off about the latest celebrity gossip and what not.
My wife /kids /house/food/cars/etc etc... I wouldn't swap for any amount of pros.(never fukked one actually)
I agree. Haven't been with a street prostitute either but have been close to. On a business trip my colleagues threw a prostitute to me and I think they even paid her already. She gave me some sweet talk that I didn't really believe but played along and I ended up rejecting her. But I am not going to complain about how she talked to me, how she caressed me, hugged me, played with my hair, her eyes how she delicately looked at me as we talked a little as she rubbed my hand, playful smile when we joked, her femenine perfume, smoking body, etc. I was visiting Thailand beaches a few weeks ago and met a girl who I found out later she was a GoGo Dancer but she also did the stuff I mentioned in this paragraph. Oh man! These girls are trained/experienced in the arts of seduction and pleasure. No doubt they would screw my brains out but, its just not my thing.
If relationships REALLY revolved around BOTH, what a difference would that really make. It's 2009 and relationships are still traditional where it all revolves around the woman. It doesn't make sense to me.