Bad times

[smashup]

Were you drunk?
And how long you been with the GF for?
I started after exactly 7 years out of 15 with my ex and did it a good few times with various women since that first time.
Left her and now with a new one
Trust me theres a reason you kissed that girl
Bit of a let down though as you never even banged the ass off it

[CGM]

Were you drunk?
And how long you been with the GF for?
I started after exactly 7 years out of 15 with my ex and did it a good few times with various women since that first time.
Left her and now with a new one
Trust me theres a reason you kissed that girl
Bit of a let down though as you never even banged the ass off it

Good point there Smash.

[Salty]

That's the worst thing though I thought I had found a girl who I could do that continuously to but yeah, thanks YB for talking me through it. I just hope no one tells her before her exam on monday

I guess what ever happens, happens

[Youngblood]

Good luck Salty.

Don't be too hard on yourself dude. You didn't go to far over the line and stopped the situation, and quickly, from getting worse then it surely coulda.

Booze is no an excuse, but it sure ain't no help either.

[Andre]

If the two of them lined up in front of you now with eyes closed mouths puckered arms out which one would you step to?
Thats your big answer.

Are you scared you'll lose her?
I know two couples who are married and one of the sides has done the same thing and come clean straight up on both occasions,both were actually the females in each case and both couples are now stronger than ever with the honesty commming to the front straight away helped the other one see it for what it was, A slip that never turned into a slide cause their partner (you in this case) thought better of it and pulled the plug before going the whole way.

I've been married for 16 years never kissed another woman but mate Ive been close so close in fact I may as well of. Its no big one.We are all human.

[El Kabong]

It's about time Salty! Way to go! It's only a bad thing if your current girl finds out!

Also don't feel guilty about it because the more guilty you feel then the angrier your girl will be when she finds out because you feeling really guilty = her thinking you really fucked up royally.....it's just a kiss it wasn't like a secret marraige or anything, stop being such a drama queen

[ICB]

I'd tell her personally its better to tell her now and she'll forgive you, but whatever you do make up your mind fast. You didn't really do anything that bad so its no big deal if you don't tell her either. But theres always the risk someone else could tell her which would be bad so its your decision bro.

[Andre]

Vd's response will be...



Now have a think do this with her first then tell her once youre done,"hey babe guess what".

Wave good bye now go and do it this way around to the other chick like you were supposed to do last night.Then this way and this one " Salty bits ".

[El Kabong]

I'd tell her personally its better to tell her now and she'll forgive you.

To an extent she'll forgive you but whenever you fuck up in the future you can bet your Aunt Suzy's ash can on her bringing this little incident back up.

Listen here bro, it's not like she caught you so first off whatever you tell her she's going to assume the absolute worst as anyone would in this situation. It was just a kiss it's not a big deal, it's not like you're a wanted man now or you have a plethera of STD's (I'm assuming) so what your girl doesn't know about this innocent mistake won't come back and hurt you.

If you act half as guilty and you seem on here then you had better be ready for a knockdown drag out fight....just block it from your memory and make like it never happened.