Bad times

[Andre]

If the two of them lined up in front of you now with eyes closed mouths puckered arms out which one would you step to?
Thats your big answer.

Are you scared you'll lose her?
I know two couples who are married and one of the sides has done the same thing and come clean straight up on both occasions,both were actually the females in each case and both couples are now stronger than ever with the honesty commming to the front straight away helped the other one see it for what it was, A slip that never turned into a slide cause their partner (you in this case) thought better of it and pulled the plug before going the whole way.

I've been married for 16 years never kissed another woman but mate Ive been close so close in fact I may as well of. Its no big one.We are all human.

[El Kabong]

It's about time Salty! Way to go! It's only a bad thing if your current girl finds out!

Also don't feel guilty about it because the more guilty you feel then the angrier your girl will be when she finds out because you feeling really guilty = her thinking you really fucked up royally.....it's just a kiss it wasn't like a secret marraige or anything, stop being such a drama queen

[ICB]

I'd tell her personally its better to tell her now and she'll forgive you, but whatever you do make up your mind fast. You didn't really do anything that bad so its no big deal if you don't tell her either. But theres always the risk someone else could tell her which would be bad so its your decision bro.

[Andre]

Vd's response will be...



Now have a think do this with her first then tell her once youre done,"hey babe guess what".

Wave good bye now go and do it this way around to the other chick like you were supposed to do last night.Then this way and this one " Salty bits ".

[Spicoli]

Tell her it was a mercy kiss on an ugly chic.

Theres a 'kiss' and then theres stabbing the back of her throat with your tounge kissing

If it was the latter,you may be telling yourself something and dealing with internal conflict?

[Julius Rain]

so how did that kiss happen? was it at a party a bar or what? come on buddy tell us the details. oh dont forget to tell us how were the tits?

ok seriously, smash is right theres a reason why you kissed the other girl. better u find out sooner then later what that reason is. maybe u aint ready for a real commitment or to be with one girl your whole life. your current girl may be great and all but you still got to know what you really want. 1 or anyone?

[donnydarkoIRL]

Alright Salty mate?

Sounds like you do care about your current GF.
Very neasy at our age for our judgement to be clouded and for us to get misguided.

Honesty is probably the best policy. Tell her, if she thinks that your relationship is still worth pursuing, then you've obviously got something.
If she throws it away, then maybe your relationship doesn't hold much weight.

If you don't tell her though and she finds out then its game over either way.

[El Kabong]

I'd tell her personally its better to tell her now and she'll forgive you.

To an extent she'll forgive you but whenever you fuck up in the future you can bet your Aunt Suzy's ash can on her bringing this little incident back up.

Listen here bro, it's not like she caught you so first off whatever you tell her she's going to assume the absolute worst as anyone would in this situation. It was just a kiss it's not a big deal, it's not like you're a wanted man now or you have a plethera of STD's (I'm assuming) so what your girl doesn't know about this innocent mistake won't come back and hurt you.

If you act half as guilty and you seem on here then you had better be ready for a knockdown drag out fight....just block it from your memory and make like it never happened.