Finally went out and done some PICKUP!!

[Dizaster]

My local pickup forum had a newbies night last night where the experienced guys do a seminar, then we head off into the heart of Melbourne and seperate like 5 newbs to 1 experienced guy..
My leader was this italian stallion and was freakin hillarious.. We met up at Federation Square first up which is like a bit of a hub of melbourne.. There was a club near we were going to go into but the line was long, so our leader says we are just going to walk around and approach girls in the street for a while.. I was freaking out a little bit but kinda excited too.. Anyway, we're just walking along and he's like "okay, when I point to a set (2 or 3 girls), you go in and say hi what's up, and ask where is cool in the city to go too".. This other dude approached these 2 really hot blondes first up and we watched as he talked to them for a couple of mins.. Then the leader is like, okay your next up.. I was freaking a bit more, and he points out these 2 older ladies and i'm like, ahhh can I have someone younger.. Coz by older ladies I mean at least 45... So we walked more and these like, suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuupppper cute girls had ciggies and needed a lighter...
:-) Lucky me I am the only one that smokes so I head over and they were soooooooooooooo friendly that I didn't know what I was worrying about.. I swear I coulda stayed there talking to them all night and got a number etc. but my group is just standing 5 yards away waiting so I had to bail out and not hold them up..

Anyway, after that we went to the club and I approached like 5 to 10 groups of girls.. Some were intimidating as hell.. Like these 4 like realllly hot girls that looked closed off alone in a corner.. They weren't the walmest of folk, but after talking to those for 5 mins, I felt like I could approach anyone after that...

Didn't have any shit experiences, and realised it's that fucking easy to go and talk to a strange girl. And really most of them are going to be open and nice and happy to talk.. And at least one was interested big time, just I wanted to keep approaching more people and getting used to approaching strangers, so I didn't stick in with any one group to long..



Very proud of myself and think I could find an addiction to this pretty darn easy..

[Dizaster]

The biggest thing though is thinking back to ALL the nights I went out with the blokes and get pissed and have a good time, but not even talk to any girls.. Like just look at them and be like, "fuck man how hot is she", like, for HOURS.. And then go home like, darn wish I talked to this or that girl..

Last night I probably spent 80% of my time talking to a stranger, and at least 30 different strangers..

[Kev]

The biggest thing though is thinking back to ALL the nights I went out with the blokes and get pissed and have a good time, but not even talk to any girls.. Like just look at them and be like, "fuck man how hot is she", like, for HOURS.. And then go home like, darn wish I talked to this or that girl..

Last night I probably spent 80% of my time talking to a stranger, and at least 30 different strangers..

Well done mate proud of you. So are you ditching your lazy girl and throwing her back out onto the streets now and starting a new bachelor lifestyle?

[Dizaster]

The biggest thing though is thinking back to ALL the nights I went out with the blokes and get pissed and have a good time, but not even talk to any girls.. Like just look at them and be like, "fuck man how hot is she", like, for HOURS.. And then go home like, darn wish I talked to this or that girl..

Last night I probably spent 80% of my time talking to a stranger, and at least 30 different strangers..

Well done mate proud of you. So are you ditching your lazy girl and throwing her back out onto the streets now and starting a new bachelor lifestyle?

Something like that... Nuh i'll work it out in a way I don't sound as evil as you put it...

[Manuel "Chubby" Medina]

Koo man, i had the same problem not being able to approach girls i didnt know, now i can approach em and juzz talk to em when i feel like.
I was a big dork.

[Kel]

The biggest thing though is thinking back to ALL the nights I went out with the blokes and get pissed and have a good time, but not even talk to any girls.. Like just look at them and be like, "fuck man how hot is she", like, for HOURS.. And then go home like, darn wish I talked to this or that girl..

Last night I probably spent 80% of my time talking to a stranger, and at least 30 different strangers..

Well done mate proud of you. So are you ditching your lazy girl and throwing her back out onto the streets now and starting a new bachelor lifestyle?

Something like that... Nuh i'll work it out in a way I don't sound as evil as you put it...

Tell her that her fanny is too big. I bet you any money it will work.

[Youngblood]

hahaha I think this is awesome. dating seminar groups heading out into the world with a collective plan for the hook up.

Anyway, yea Dizaster, good luck wth it, and especially with that soul sucking vampire otherwise known as your gf.