For all of those who are broken hearted.....

[yvonne]

Wow,that sounds exactly what i've been through over this great woman i met a few years ago.She was everything to me,she had a great personality and fantasic looks.She was the best looking woman i've seen in me life.I met and dated women before i met this lass in question,but none of them were like her.For me she was the "ONE".We were together just over a year.She was my best friend as well as my girfriend.We would just get all soo well together.But i knew it was all to good to be true from the started and she evetually dropped a bombshell on me with a txt while i was grafting me arse off on a building site.Me heart felt like it had been ripped out and thrown on the floor.I throught it was a joke when i read the txt message.So i went to phone her up on my lunch break but she had switched off her phone.So i left her a message on her voicemail.It was'nt till later that day she sent me another txt telling me again that it was all over and she did'nt even wanted to be friends"which hurt the most!"I went to phone her straight back again as soon as i recieved the message but yet again she did'nt answer.Then i recieved another txt off her a bit later telling me not to phone her again.It really pissed me off to be hurt like that and not getting a explanation of why she ended it.Thats all i wanted to know from her.

Thing is,people kept on saying to me,you'll get over her in time,but you know what i've never have really even after 3years.I mean i've met great women since afterwards,but their've picked up that im not over another women and their leave me too.

Thing is it makes me stronger now.Known i've be hurt.I count it as her loss not my.And i know one day she'll regret leaving me,i know she will.

Hang in there mate,your not the only one.

[BIG H]

Wow,that sounds exactly what i've been through over this great woman i met a few years ago.She was everything to me,she had a great personality and fantasic looks.She was the best looking woman i've seen in me life.I met and dated women before i met this lass in question,but none of them were like her.For me she was the "ONE".We were together just over a year.She was my best friend as well as my girfriend.We would just get all soo well together.But i knew it was all to good to be true from the started and she evetually dropped a bombshell on me with a txt while i was grafting me arse off on a building site.Me heart felt like it had been ripped out and thrown on the floor.I throught it was a joke when i read the txt message.So i went to phone her up on my lunch break but she had switched off her phone.So i left her a message on her voicemail.It was'nt till later that day she sent me another txt telling me again that it was all over and she did'nt even wanted to be friends"which hurt the most!"I went to phone her straight back again as soon as i recieved the message but yet again she did'nt answer.Then i recieved another txt off her a bit later telling me not to phone her again.It really pissed me off to be hurt like that and not getting a explanation of why she ended it.Thats all i wanted to know from her.

Thing is,people kept on saying to me,you'll get over her in time,but you know what i've never have really even after 3years.I mean i've met great women since afterwards,but their've picked up that im not over another women and their leave me too.

Thing is it makes me stronger now.Known i've be hurt.I count it as her loss not my.And i know one day she'll regret leaving me,i know she will.

Hang in there mate,your not the only one.

Mate the way she treated you was unforgivable. In a strange way I think it's easier to deal with that, than some other situations, becuase you can hate somebody when they act like that and you can realise you don't want somebody like that anyway!

[yvonne]

Wow,that sounds exactly what i've been through over this great woman i met a few years ago.She was everything to me,she had a great personality and fantasic looks.She was the best looking woman i've seen in me life.I met and dated women before i met this lass in question,but none of them were like her.For me she was the "ONE".We were together just over a year.She was my best friend as well as my girfriend.We would just get all soo well together.But i knew it was all to good to be true from the started and she evetually dropped a bombshell on me with a txt while i was grafting me arse off on a building site.Me heart felt like it had been ripped out and thrown on the floor.I throught it was a joke when i read the txt message.So i went to phone her up on my lunch break but she had switched off her phone.So i left her a message on her voicemail.It was'nt till later that day she sent me another txt telling me again that it was all over and she did'nt even wanted to be friends"which hurt the most!"I went to phone her straight back again as soon as i recieved the message but yet again she did'nt answer.Then i recieved another txt off her a bit later telling me not to phone her again.It really pissed me off to be hurt like that and not getting a explanation of why she ended it.Thats all i wanted to know from her.

Thing is,people kept on saying to me,you'll get over her in time,but you know what i've never have really even after 3years.I mean i've met great women since afterwards,but their've picked up that im not over another women and their leave me too.

Thing is it makes me stronger now.Known i've be hurt.I count it as her loss not my.And i know one day she'll regret leaving me,i know she will.

Hang in there mate,your not the only one.

Mate the way she treated you was unforgivable. In a strange way I think it's easier to deal with that, than some other situations, becuase you can hate somebody when they act like that and you can realise you don't want somebody like that anyway!

Thing is though,even know she moved away down south and i have'nt seen her for about 3years,i would try to get back with her if i was to bump into her.Oh it was kind of bad.I was'nt going to let her slip out of my grip too easly.I was really fond of her and tryed me hardest to get some kind of connection.I did eventually talk to her after she left me.I phoned her up while i was drunk on new years and wished her Happy new year and asked how she was doing since afetr she left me.Not once during the our chat on the phone did i ask her why she fucked off and left me.I wanted too,but i know that i did she would just hang up straight away soo i did'nt want to spoil the moment.Soo i asked her if she wanted to be friends and she said yes,so i told her that when she was up my way sometime we could hang iout as friends and she agreed but im still waiting!

[Mr. Montage]

see that sounds bad sorry to hear that dude. THe thing about what is going on with me is that she is always around me with the other guy and it hurts just to see them together. It pissed me off at first but now it is just a pain that i cant seem to get past it has been about half a year since she broke up with me. But texting and using that as the tool of the breakup sounds the worst i have been dumped that way but most chicks are at least good enough to tell me to my face. She shouldnt have treated you that way. You sound like a good guy so it sounds just wrong to do that to someone. i went out with my ex for like a year and a couple months but i see her everyday. and she keeps f****ing with me talking " i really miss you" then i would ask "why you broke up with me not the other way" Almost like it wasnt good enough to break up with me but to keep f***ing around with me after...

[BIG H]

This may sound really bad, but I never stayed friends with an ex. It's too painful. The only way I can deal is to cut all ties completely. It's very hard to do for a few weeks, but in the long run it's best for your mental state.

All that "I missyou" stuff is just her trying to make you still want her! Girls don't want you to stop wanting them even when they don't want you!

[BIG H]

What a bunch of faigs we are

Seriouslly though, I can deal with most things, e.g when I was 23 I was about £25,000 in debt and I never lost a minutes sleep! I've lost jobs and been out of work (before been married) and not given a shit! Day-today stuff can't get to me, but woman are my weakness and the right woman (and there aren't many like that) can reduce me to a whimpering little kid lol

[Mr. Montage]

it really just pisses me off that she would keep it up even after she broke up with me. she is a serious hazard to my mental being also. but i was such good friends with her before and i cant see where my life would go if i didnt try to mend the relationship.

[BIG H]

it really just pisses me off that she would keep it up even after she broke up with me. she is a serious hazard to my mental being also. but i was such good friends with her before and i cant see where my life would go if i didnt try to mend the relationship.

If you think you can still live your life having to see her all the time and be friends, then that's the right thing for you. Personally, as hard and horrible as it would be to beging with, I would cut all ties with her and move on with your life.

[The Congressman]

I've been in that situation before. I was more mad than sad. But I got over in about 3 months when I met someone. My advice is just talk to someone and stay busy with something productive. Go to the gym, work out, etc..

[Mr. Montage]

I gotta say that all of these responses to my post is amazing. i have learned alot from what people have suggested and told me. thank you all i know this will help me most in the end. you were all right i need to move on and find a new woman who will be even better for me. Keeping busy will also help me. thanks/./././

[Big-Daddy-Cyanide]

Girls just f*** with the mind man like my bro is saying .... if you really put everything into it then it could just end in ruins... ive been through pretty much the same thing but im not going to explain it and everytime you think about it you always feel kinda bad....

[Mr. Montage]

wow. i dont remember you being through anything quite like i have.