For all of those who are broken hearted.....

[The Congressman]

I've been in that situation before. I was more mad than sad. But I got over in about 3 months when I met someone. My advice is just talk to someone and stay busy with something productive. Go to the gym, work out, etc..

[Mr. Montage]

I gotta say that all of these responses to my post is amazing. i have learned alot from what people have suggested and told me. thank you all i know this will help me most in the end. you were all right i need to move on and find a new woman who will be even better for me. Keeping busy will also help me. thanks/./././

[Snakey]

Yeah have experienced it and im only 20 lol My ex broke up with me by phone when i lived just around the corner from her. Then i asked to speak to her 2 weeks later because i wanted closure and she said she would. 5 mins before i was supposed to meet her, she texted that she didnt want to talk to me and wanted to leave things the way they are. I wasnt given a reason at all. I told her i wouldnt bad mouth her and she promised she wouldnt either. I kept my end of the bargain, she didnt apparently lol She wont even look me in the eye these days and thats a yr ago lol Im way over it, quite happy to be single and she has a new bf (if you ask me, hes a step down from me lol hes a little nerdy lookin bloke). I introduced myself to her new bf and the guy nearly shit himself haha

Havent really been with anyone since the break up, long story made short...i now have trust issues. If a girl has interest in me, i find it very hard to trust them and i usually end up fuckin it up coz i live in a small town where everyone knows each other and im very weary of who i crack onto lol Recently this week i have had sucess with this one girl but i get flash backs of situations i had with my ex when certain topics come up. I realise from this situation how much easier single life is, sure relationships are nice but fuck they cause some stress.

[Mr. Montage]

true that.... i have the situation of respecting her too much to really hurt her boyfriend. i could break him he is pretty scrawny but i have respect for both of them. So when i first found out they were dating i scared him shitless because i told him if i ever see her cry i was going to break his f***ing legs. he took a pretty big scare to that...lol.

[BIG H]

My advice to anybody under the age of 40. STAY SINGLE! Relationships are too painful!!

[Mr. Montage]

wow. that is a bit extreme. one night stands all around.lol