Quote Originally Posted by miles View Post
In question 1 I would choose a mixture of A and B. It's not about loyalty for me, it's just that I think other people are free to make their own decisions regarding their own marriages and it is not for me to interfere. If he asked my opinion I would give it though and that opinion would indicate a certain displeasure at what he was doing. I wouldn't just stop being friends with someone though. At the end of the day it is his choice, for better or worse.

Question 2 is more difficult for me. Perhaps I would choose C too. I don't think murder is acceptable and think the person should get out of the marriage rather than resort to murder. After all, it's not all that hard to get a divorce and keep a decent pot of the money. But it has come to it and the closest person has indeed commited the crime. Yeah, I wouldn't lie. The person did what they did and so I couldn't just cover it up. It was wrong to kill, but I would understand the bad experience and how the person is generally a decent but beaten down person. I would have no issues with attesting to the persons character. Now if they were to do it again.....well, send the twat to jail for life. No need to keep on killing.
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