Quote Originally Posted by Aweless View Post
lol Sometimes you get trainers like that. My first gym was like that. When doing mitts if you were open the trainer would whack you wherever you were open. "I kept dropping my right" At the moment it made me mad but when I look back on it I clearly benefited from it since I don't make that mistake anymore. This is boxing you will get hit which is something you need to learn. I think having a trainer that won't hit his/her students isn't teaching them practically. Even with a great stance a punch or two will slip by and having your trainer show you where the holes are will better prepare you. Actually hitting you instead of showing you will also get you use to the feeling of being hit. After being hit you need to be able to remain calm.


I might have not understood you correctly does he punch you in the stomach if you were jumping rope/x wrong?? If so then that's not ok. If he hits you in the stomach when practicing form/mitts/etc then I'd suggest you learn from it.

As for yelling I'm not sure why that bothers you. In a fight your trainer may yell at you to stop doing x, or start doing x, because he wants you to perform better. I know your only 16 but you should be able to handle someone yelling. Good luck

I disagree with some of the things you say here - not all but some.

I tyhink some of the best trainers teach using training parters to hit you and study you from the sidelines more objectively. Too many times you hear of and see trainers who are unable to put their own egos aside enought to spar and teach at the same time.

They end up compromising what they are trying to build in their fighters because they don't like to see themselves getting tagged, then either make a joke out of the exercise, stop and waffle on too much so you get cold or worst case scenario which I believe some on this forum can relate to - just go completely overboard.

Consistant yelling I believe is unneccessary. i know some who like it but I have always hated it. It leaves no time for a proper explanation and aims to intimidate and degrade. If I'm putting in my best effort i don't expect to be yelled at all the time. Maybe once or twice but not constantly.

There are rules against trainers of amatuer boxers yelling from the sidelines when they compete here. If trainers are unable to explain anything in clear even language they are severely limited. I also believe the best trainers can handle a few Qs and if trainers yell consistantly in my experience it's because they don't have the answers so leave no space for Qs.

As for being hit with the pads a bit that is fine but a slap with the pads is not really the same thing is it! I wouldn't call it being hit really because if it's a routine then they do it because they expect you to have your hands up and expect you to protect yourself.

Especially if he's a guy with broadish shoulders it may be very difficult for him to protect himself from a shot to his stomach especially at this early stage. Actually as a beginner boxer I doubt even being hit with the pads is beneficial until he's learnt some basic defence. It can only be messing with his reactions in a bad way so later he'll hesitate and cringe when he needs to act.