Getting cheated on!!!

[Mark TKO]

"Just being friends" doesn't work because in the end you both want totally different things out of that relationship. Your best move is to cut ties completely...nothing good can come from anything else

I agree though I would try shag her one more time and when done just get up pull your jeans on and say "cheers bitch" then turn round and walk out and never contact her again.

Do not under any circumstance look back round at her when you leave.


ps this also doesn't work very well if you are at your place when you do this as you can't just walk out of your own pad leaving her in it eg she may nick something

[jabvargas24]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

[Youngblood]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

not to point out the obvious, but can you understand the contradiction between this line and the purpose of you starting this thread?

Sorry to hear ya got cheated. I'm one for giving it to her one more time, dry and up the poop shoot then telling her to hit the bricks and not looking back.

[El Kabong]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

[jabvargas24]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

[El Kabong]

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

Thanks....I just know I've been where you are right now, it totally sucks and you figure it's always going to feel like this but you grow, you learn, and you figure things out about life, girls, and more importantly yourself and what you will and won't accept in your life and that's what matters. You can choose to be all down and depressed about this or you can say "fuck it" and do what everyone wishes they did when they were in school....ask out the hottest chicks you can and don't be afraid to if you ask out 100 chicks hotter than this girl you're all worked up over the odds are at least 1 (maybe more ) will take you up on your offer and heck the rest is down hill after that man.

Have fun, be happy, don't waste your youth being depressed or jealous, or hung up on some girl who at this point in her life doesn't know her ass from a hole in the ground.

[jabvargas24]

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

Thanks....I just know I've been where you are right now, it totally sucks and you figure it's always going to feel like this but you grow, you learn, and you figure things out about life, girls, and more importantly yourself and what you will and won't accept in your life and that's what matters. You can choose to be all down and depressed about this or you can say "fuck it" and do what everyone wishes they did when they were in school....ask out the hottest chicks you can and don't be afraid to if you ask out 100 chicks hotter than this girl you're all worked up over the odds are at least 1 (maybe more ) will take you up on your offer and heck the rest is down hill after that man.

Have fun, be happy, don't waste your youth being depressed or jealous, or hung up on some girl who at this point in her life doesn't know her ass from a hole in the ground.

Haha thanks bruh. I appreciate the help.. Startin to feel better already.

[Spicoli]

Man. That sucks I feel for you. Happenend to me in highschool with someone I loved very much. ** edit **. Hard as it is don't retreat to anger,it will eat you up !! Cheapens you and ruins potential.

[Andre]

hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..

You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't

If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.

Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.

That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.

I agree. What MAg do you write for Lyle ?

I'd be saying to her, "Now I have had the space to think, Its probably for the best, think maybe we were both in it for all the wrong reasons.

Move on for real bro, once a cheat 99% of the time = always a cheat. And you deserve better.

[El Kabong]

I don't write for any mag, I just have experience in dealing with this kind of thing. I personally have gone through it, I've had friends go through it and I've just seen that getting all sad and depressed over it doesn't accomplish a damn thing, it closes you off to new people, it makes you not fun to be around, and it creates a very bad vibe around you....believe it or not (I know Andre will be on board for this ) people are either givers of energy or takers of energy, people either make you happy when you're around them or make you feel like you've been drained of all happy feelings...and you have to notice what you're putting out there......chicks don't dig "Donny Downer", the dude that's all sullen and sad, unless they are those goth/emo girls and they are usually closet lesbians or just are psychologically and emotionally at a point where you don't want to mess with them.

[ono]

*Opens popcorn and awaits VD's advice*

[ICB]

Get off with her best mate.

[Gandalf]

Men who cheat should have their willy chopped off and women who cheat should have their nether regions sewn up never to be used again. Cheating is a nasty business. I'm probably closer to sharia law than any Western concept of justice on an issue such as this.

[Gandalf]

And yes, I like ICB's advice too.

[ICB]

And yes, I like ICB's advice too.

Yes clearly the best advice.

But nah seriously i mean i don't really see the problem here, he's pretty young isn't he ? still in school ? so a girl he's been seeing at school has cheated on him.

If her best mates fit, just give her one. If not has she got any sisters ? then give them a portion. Or just totally forget about her and move on to the next one.

Its not like your without choice your at school, its basically a pick em mix. Choose one to taste and if you don't like it, spit it out and try the next one.

Get stuck in there lad.