Had this happen to me recently and I just cut ties with her completely BUT i didnt give her the satisfaction of knowing she did any damage to me at all. My response to her was basically "oh ok fair enough well you know the deal, i dont do the whole friends with ex gfs so good luck in the future". She tried to get a reaction out of me and I just gave an unemotional response each time, she tried the whole "i still have feelings for you though" and i was like "yeah but youll get over that soon enough, youll be fine". So by the time I was done it was like I was breaking up with her when she had actually been breaking up with me and she was one of those chicks that doesnt cry that much but without even raising my voice or getting angry I had her in tears just by the fact I acted like I dont give a shit. Her friends told me she was all upset and cut up about it and I just told them that I didnt care coz I dont have feelings for her and that I possiby never did (which also apparently did a shit load of damage when they told her) but meh she cheated on me so she can fuck off. I do have the urge to beat the absolute shit out of the guy she cheated on me with considering I see him around every week and he tries to act like we are good mates (he doesnt know that I know about the whole cheating thing) and he had been braggin to people about it but has never been game to say anything to me.
Short version- Act like you dont give a shit, dont react, cut all ties
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Re: Getting cheated on!!!
Originally Posted by Snakey
Had this happen to me recently and I just cut ties with her completely BUT i didnt give her the satisfaction of knowing she did any damage to me at all. My response to her was basically "oh ok fair enough well you know the deal, i dont do the whole friends with ex gfs so good luck in the future". She tried to get a reaction out of me and I just gave an unemotional response each time, she tried the whole "i still have feelings for you though" and i was like "yeah but youll get over that soon enough, youll be fine". So by the time I was done it was like I was breaking up with her when she had actually been breaking up with me and she was one of those chicks that doesnt cry that much but without even raising my voice or getting angry I had her in tears just by the fact I acted like I dont give a shit. Her friends told me she was all upset and cut up about it and I just told them that I didnt care coz I dont have feelings for her and that I possiby never did (which also apparently did a shit load of damage when they told her) but meh she cheated on me so she can fuck off. I do have the urge to beat the absolute shit out of the guy she cheated on me with considering I see him around every week and he tries to act like we are good mates (he doesnt know that I know about the whole cheating thing) and he had been braggin to people about it but has never been game to say anything to me.
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