Memphis mate, just my opinion and it may be old fashioned and out with the times but i am a bit of a mans man and i dont go for all that moisturising, exfoliating, nourishing bullshat. I am strictly a soap and water man and occasionally if i get dry skin on my feet the only stuff i put on it is baby lotion.

I am of the ilk that once you've shaved if it doesn't hurt like a kunt when you put your aftershave on afterwards (aftershave..not balm) then you are not a man and have not shaved correctly.

To eliminate the shaving rash get 'king of shaves' its an oil based shaving 'thing' that you whack on your face and shave with. Its a little less manly than shaving through a face full of foam but it makes the shave smoother and may help with your rash.

Good luck brother