Let's forget about the ex wife because she doesn't mean a thing in my book. Personna non gratis. Every man that has acheived something he hinks is great wants a moment of those days , years or months. I once married a woman that helped her mother move and clothes boxes with my Karate belts. She didn't think anything was wrong with what she did so call it callousness or call it by it's other names, being a stupid bitch or vindictive. No man should be in a relationship where he has to check the proximity of his gonads making sure there is something there besides a bulge to see that it was not stolen in the night for a wimpy judge giving yet another unfair settlement this side of hell. I regret that I never found a woman worth keeping but Money is one thing and things with a sentimental value to the other person like trophies or pets do not belong in the hands of people that did not earn the right to have them. I don't have millions of dollars but I have my memories and without some of those trinkets I won, It seems like a bedtime story that gets lame because I have nothing to show for a time in my life I did something I felt was great, solo.