Woman Troubles

[Purist]

but why play that game?

It hurts to play that game. It is easier to stop and start anew. Your way he can continue to be supportive while he gets his heart and ego stomped on. No thanks.

better to know that he did everything he could then wondering "what if"

[Mad_Dog]

who cares if it is on her.....you seem to be stuck on that. The point is to position SOBO where he is in full control of his destiny without putting it in the hands of another who does not care about him.

[Snakey]

My opinion is that if a girl doubts your relationship and she has a guy calling her 10 times in a week then you are right to demand answers. At this point they were still going out and some bastard was calling her all the time, if i was sobo...i would of confronted the guy and his gf coz all she is doing is caring about herself. Shes leaving sobo without any confirmation on their relationship while talking to some sleazy cunt who decided he loved her, im sorry but in my books thats fucking wrong. Thats getting as bad as cheating imo and i dont think any guy in their right mind would be able to be all pleasent and shit to a girl who could be cheating on him. Sobo mate i think your better off without her, if shes having doubts and is having a lot of contact with another guy who loves her then shes setting you up for a big fall.

But has she been contacting the other guy 10 times and hanging out with him and blowing SOBO off for the other guy? nope. Everything is assumption. She could very well be palnning on staying with SOBO which I think she will, and if she doesn't its on her and not him.

Starr do you really think she would tell him if she was calling him back? Well the fact that shes not showing any concern over these phone calls shows that she could have feelings for the other bloke. I dont think sobo wanting to know whats going on would break them up after all this situation started because of the girl and she aint willing to talk the whole thing through. She was even making up excuses not to see sobo....come on thats suspicious...she did have somethings to answer to and really she didnt answer any of them.

but why play that game?

It hurts to play that game. It is easier to stop and start anew. Your way he can continue to be supportive while he gets his heart and ego stomped on. No thanks.

better to know that he did everything he could then wondering "what if"

Like "What if she was really cheatin on me", she could continue to go out with him and still be screwing that other cunt on the side. Not worth it, if she felt the sameway about sobo then she would of told the other guy to fuck off and that she was with someone...but she didnt, she acknowledged this guys feelings and looked to be leaning towards him coz she was wondering "What IF"

[Snakey]

Snakey, can you say the above in rap? I can I just want to know if you can do it Snoop Doggy Dog style

I am waiting

Mad dog asked me to do a rap
Sobo landed in the crap
His girl didnt care and gave him the flick
Just so she could go with some dick
She didnt consider poor old sobo
She went with some old hobo
She said it he loved her and was confused
While she thought, sobo used booz
Its all over now and sobo has no chick
He acted first and gave her a kick
Sobo theres plenty more fish in the sea
Dont think of bad things, happier you will be

Hows that

[Purist]

He would be in full control. Because "what if" wouldn't be on his mind. it would be easier to move on. I don't think you're getting what I'm saying or getting at.

And I've done what you said to do and just left a guy I was seeing when his old flame moved down to NY from Atlanta and my boyfriend didn't know where his loyaltes laid. And I was miserable for about a month wonderinf what would have happened if I gave him a chance to make up his mind instead of not trusting him to stay. And I still feel really bad about that. So I am trying to stop him from feeling that way. And I know that I would have felt better if "what if" wasn't on my mind the whole while I felt miserable.

In SOBO's situation, the old flame of his girlfriend isn't staying and is going back to where he was soon. So she'll still be there where SOBO is. Did you read that too?

My opinion is that if a girl doubts your relationship and she has a guy calling her 10 times in a week then you are right to demand answers. At this point they were still going out and some bastard was calling her all the time, if i was sobo...i would of confronted the guy and his gf coz all she is doing is caring about herself. Shes leaving sobo without any confirmation on their relationship while talking to some sleazy cunt who decided he loved her, im sorry but in my books thats fucking wrong. Thats getting as bad as cheating imo and i dont think any guy in their right mind would be able to be all pleasent and shit to a girl who could be cheating on him. Sobo mate i think your better off without her, if shes having doubts and is having a lot of contact with another guy who loves her then shes setting you up for a big fall.

But has she been contacting the other guy 10 times and hanging out with him and blowing SOBO off for the other guy? nope. Everything is assumption. She could very well be palnning on staying with SOBO which I think she will, and if she doesn't its on her and not him.

Starr do you really think she would tell him if she was calling him back? Well the fact that shes not showing any concern over these phone calls shows that she could have feelings for the other bloke. I dont think sobo wanting to know whats going on would break them up after all this situation started because of the girl and she aint willing to talk the whole thing through. She was even making up excuses not to see sobo....come on thats suspicious...she did have somethings to answer to and really she didnt answer any of them.

but why play that game?

It hurts to play that game. It is easier to stop and start anew. Your way he can continue to be supportive while he gets his heart and ego stomped on. No thanks.

better to know that he did everything he could then wondering "what if"

Like "What if she was really cheatin on me", she could continue to go out with him and still be screwing that other cunt on the side. Not worth it, if she felt the sameway about sobo then she would of told the other guy to fuck off and that she was with someone...but she didnt, she acknowledged this guys feelings and looked to be leaning towards him coz she was wondering "What IF"

She ISN"T CHEATING ON HIM!! Look at what you said, how many assumptions are in there? And how many from what you knew. You are assuming more and you are assuming the negative. there are two sides.

Let me ask you..

What if she is intending to stay with SOBO and be with SOBO and remain loyal and aint been cheating or anything that you said could "potentially" happen, what if they aren't? just like I think they aren't.

[Snakey]

He would be in full control. Because "what if" wouldn't be on his mind. it would be easier to move on. I don't think you're getting what I'm saying or getting at.

And I've done what you said to do and just left a guy I was seeing when his old flame moved down to NY from Atlanta and my boyfriend didn't know where his loyaltes laid. And I was miserable for about a month wonderinf what would have happened if I gave him a chance to make up his mind instead of not trusting him to stay. And I still feel really bad about that. So I am trying to stop him from feeling that way. And I know that I would have felt better if "what if" wasn't on my mind the whole while I felt miserable.

In SOBO's situation, the old flame of his girlfriend isn't staying and is going back to where he was soon. So she'll still be there where SOBO is. Did you read that too?

My opinion is that if a girl doubts your relationship and she has a guy calling her 10 times in a week then you are right to demand answers. At this point they were still going out and some bastard was calling her all the time, if i was sobo...i would of confronted the guy and his gf coz all she is doing is caring about herself. Shes leaving sobo without any confirmation on their relationship while talking to some sleazy cunt who decided he loved her, im sorry but in my books thats fucking wrong. Thats getting as bad as cheating imo and i dont think any guy in their right mind would be able to be all pleasent and shit to a girl who could be cheating on him. Sobo mate i think your better off without her, if shes having doubts and is having a lot of contact with another guy who loves her then shes setting you up for a big fall.

But has she been contacting the other guy 10 times and hanging out with him and blowing SOBO off for the other guy? nope. Everything is assumption. She could very well be palnning on staying with SOBO which I think she will, and if she doesn't its on her and not him.

Starr do you really think she would tell him if she was calling him back? Well the fact that shes not showing any concern over these phone calls shows that she could have feelings for the other bloke. I dont think sobo wanting to know whats going on would break them up after all this situation started because of the girl and she aint willing to talk the whole thing through. She was even making up excuses not to see sobo....come on thats suspicious...she did have somethings to answer to and really she didnt answer any of them.

but why play that game?

It hurts to play that game. It is easier to stop and start anew. Your way he can continue to be supportive while he gets his heart and ego stomped on. No thanks.

better to know that he did everything he could then wondering "what if"

Like "What if she was really cheatin on me", she could continue to go out with him and still be screwing that other cunt on the side. Not worth it, if she felt the sameway about sobo then she would of told the other guy to fuck off and that she was with someone...but she didnt, she acknowledged this guys feelings and looked to be leaning towards him coz she was wondering "What IF"

She ISN"T CHEATING ON HIM!! Look at what you said, how many assumptions are in there? And how many from what you knew. You are assuming more and you are assuming the negative. there are two sides.

Let me ask you..

What if she is intending to stay with SOBO and be with SOBO and remain loyal and aint been cheating or anything that you said could "potentially" happen, what if they aren't? just like I think they aren't.

Then id think she would of or should of told sobo...but by the sounds of it didnt have a go. The fact it doesnt sound like she didnt try tells me i dont think she was going to stay.

[Purist]

Its a hard decision a very very hard decision.

because "what if" weighed on her mind.

But she hasn't been going out with the guy, and she hasn't been avoiding SOBO. So it doesn't mean anything.

The problem is that everyone seems to be assuming that she is going to leave when she hasn't been doing anything with the other guy nor has she been cutting SOBO off for the other guy either. Also, the guy that has his girlfriends mind racked at the moment doesn't even live where SOBO and his girlfriend is and is going away so when he leaves she is still going to be with SOBO, you didn't read that? The main thing SOBO is asking is that he wants to know that her mind is going to be on him and not the guy who came for a visit.

[Mad_Dog]

Snakey, can you say the above in rap? I can I just want to know if you can do it Snoop Doggy Dog style

I am waiting

Mad dog asked me to do a rap
Sobo landed in the crap
His girl didnt care and gave him the flick
Just so she could go with some dick
She didnt consider poor old sobo
She went with some old hobo
She said it he loved her and was confused
While she thought, sobo used booz
Its all over now and sobo has no chick
He acted first and gave her a kick
Sobo theres plenty more fish in the sea
Dont think of bad things, happier you will be

Hows that

FUCKING AMAZING!!!!!!!


WOOOOT WOOOOOOTT!!

[Purist]

Snakey, can you say the above in rap? I can I just want to know if you can do it Snoop Doggy Dog style

I am waiting

Mad dog asked me to do a rap
Sobo landed in the crap
His girl didnt care and gave him the flick
Just so she could go with some dick
She didnt consider poor old sobo
She went with some old hobo
She said it he loved her and was confused
While she thought, sobo used booz
Its all over now and sobo has no chick
He acted first and gave her a kick
Sobo theres plenty more fish in the sea
Dont think of bad things, happier you will be

Hows that

Stick to hating on Hatton m8. because if she didn't consider sobo she would have left him.

[Snakey]

Snakey, can you say the above in rap? I can I just want to know if you can do it Snoop Doggy Dog style

I am waiting

Mad dog asked me to do a rap
Sobo landed in the crap
His girl didnt care and gave him the flick
Just so she could go with some dick
She didnt consider poor old sobo
She went with some old hobo
She said it he loved her and was confused
While she thought, sobo used booz
Its all over now and sobo has no chick
He acted first and gave her a kick
Sobo theres plenty more fish in the sea
Dont think of bad things, happier you will be

Hows that

Stick to hating on Hatton m8. because if she didn't consider sobo she would have left him.

This is the second time ever...the first time ever happened last night that some chick has called me mate. Its mostly a guy thing really...when girls say it to a bloke it sounds funny lol She was setting up for the leave, she didnt care enough about sobo to give him any real updates and like i said....if she was planning on staying with sobo then she would of or should of made it known.

[X]

Starr - I don't know you or anything , so no offence - but you are coming across as a bit of a bunny-boiler here.

What's all this 'be there for her' supportive psychobabble bullshit all about?

The guy had a girlfriend. She wants someone else. Life is a bitch. Get out with dignity intact (and SOBO, you've failed mate) Get over it. Move on.

[smashup]

SOBO

Grow a set of Bollocks mate.
Your weak and a disgrace to all men.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

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Remember 99% of all women are about themselves, the only way to counter this is to be 100% about yourself.

Most men are.

Stop acting like women are bitches. Treat us better and we won't be tempted by guys who use the ploy of listening to us to get us in to bed.

It's pretty sad, but from my experience treating a woman "right" (which I always have) usually end up with the woman getting bored with you and starting the "he's too nice" crap

Women (most) like bad boys and bad boys will tend to treat them like sh1t - sad but true!!

BIG H is exactly right, doesn't matter how hard you try to do the right thing, usually you get S*** on. You really think I draw my opinion from treating a woman like dirt? No it's from treating them like gold and in return being treated like garbage. Don't get me wrong, theres definately some cool women out there who've been fucked over in their own right that share this same point of view, I just think Missy and Starr havn't been through those bad times yet otherwise they wouldn't trust people to the extent they claim to. Who knows maybe they have and just don't want to accept trusting another person is F****** insane

No, I'm just very careful of who I trust so you don't get shit on and generaly women are better at reading the signals.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

Starr - I don't know you or anything , so no offence - but you are coming across as a bit of a bunny-boiler here.

What's all this 'be there for her' supportive psychobabble bullshit all about?

The guy had a girlfriend. She wants someone else. Life is a bitch. Get out with dignity intact (and SOBO, you've failed mate) Get over it. Move on.

She hasn't said that.

Her ex meets her and tells her he loves her - of course it throws her for a curve especially if things aren't going well with her & SOBO. It's natural that she has things on her mind. They agree it's something she needs to figure out, they begin to talk, when they finally arrange to meet up and talk SOBO walks away, leaving her on her own while she's confused and to my mind, regardless of saying he understands and cares, his actions say she's dumped and he doesn't care. At that point I would have made my mind up like I said. Fact is she's still gonna be emotional for a while, she may date this guy thinking the grass is greener, maybe it will be and SOBO and her weren't meant to be, maybe she'll figure out this guy is a jerk and want SOBO back, she may feel she's made an idiot of her self and be too embarrassed to say it.

If SOBO is still interested in her, give it about a month, when he sees her passing just shoot her a how's it going? her reaction will tell him everything he needs to know whether it's dead or can be resurrected.

[X]

Fuck me - men really are from Mars and women are from some other fucking planet.