ok, so i've been going out with this chick for almost 2 years now, and we ran into some trouble recently, just want your thoughts and opinions....

ok, so we'll start in mon and wed... i was over, but both nights she asks me to leave at 10, o'clock, b/c she is tired...
so me and my buddy have night school on tues and thurs, so we are going to school, but b4 i talk to her and she tells me that her friend asked her to go to a bar with her and her work firends, so my first thoguths are... "wait... so i have to leave at 10 b/c your tired, but your now going to go to a bar at 930..." i came home and waited for her to call, i even calle dher are 11 to see what was up, but no answer, she eventually called at 1AM! and i was sorta pissed off, but when near the end of the convo i could sorta tell that something was wrong, she was kinda crying... I was mad so I didntcall, i was tired,

then later she called like 10 mins later and she was crying, telling me she wanted to hear my voice... i asked if anything happened, she told me that her good friend was there, she had been frinds wih thid guy for 2 year before she met me, they went out for like 2 months...

ok, then the next day, we go to the mall, and I feel all wierd, like empty, and I dont know what it is, but in the way back, I stop in a parking lot and am like, I dont know what is wrong with me but i feel all empty inside, this is when she tells me

that this guy that was there, and was her best friedn for the first wo years of high school told her that he loves her, and that she has been thinking about it ever since,

so how do I feel about this... pretty crappy,

I mean she is the first person i loved, and I tihnk he is the first person she loved, they didnt have sex or anytihng, but i guess they were both each others first person that they loved, i dont know, she says is different, but she is always telling me that she has a lot on her miond, last night we sorta talked about it, I told her that i wished she had said when he told her " sorry to bad your too late, I love him (me) right now" but I guess she didnt, and she caims that this guy didnt plan this, how is that possible you dont just spirt somethign out like that, I am quite sure he planned it, but she is adement that he did not...

I dont know what to do, I really love this girl, but I mean if she doesnt feel the same way about me what do I do

Thanks for all the help.