Woman Troubles

[Bomp]

If you ever meet her in a bar, buy her a drink to show there's no hard feelings.







But make sure you spit in it.

Damn straight, add some pubes as well. When she's choking on them tell her you never want to see her again.





Then you'll be a man

[Purist]

Your blue text does not compare to mine

Darkside

Jedi Consuler

Mace Windo

[AdamGB]

I would expect a lightsabre themed post from Missy... not you Starr... :P Missy has a thing for geeks






































(did I mention I'm a geek missy? :P I'll proove it to you... the original versions of star wars are coming out on DVD... and despite owning the rereleased ones I will buy them.... there... Wadda ya say... My place? about 8:30?)

[SOBO]

i've been thinking, as of right now, I am feeling crappy, obviously, but I know it will pass, don't know how long, but it will. Although I do keep looking at my phone, hping she would have called, left a message etc. pretty weak I know, but see I don't actually want to talk to her, just know that she broke, and is thinking about me, and that she made a mistake, other than that, I mean i need to make some changes, like switch things around, so im not in a lull and thinking about her,

besides that, I honestlythink that I will NOT take her back if she ever asks me that, even thinking bout the poke and run, if I get the chance, but chances are that I wont go that far, I am young, and right now and during our relationship i thought she was perfect etc. just like in the movies, but im sure as my life goes on, I will be plenty more women better than her, it just stings now, that is all.

I just wish this would pass sooner, so I can get on with my life, and not look at my phone, or check my email hoping, etc.

[Purist]

i've been thinking, as of right now, I am feeling crappy, obviously, but I know it will pass, don't know how long, but it will. Although I do keep looking at my phone, hping she would have called, left a message etc. pretty weak I know, but see I don't actually want to talk to her, just know that she broke, and is thinking about me, and that she made a mistake, other than that, I mean i need to make some changes, like switch things around, so im not in a lull and thinking about her,

If you sit around waiting for revenge, when it happens it won't be as satisfying as you thought.

besides that, I honestlythink that I will NOT take her back if she ever asks me that, even thinking bout the poke and run, if I get the chance, but chances are that I wont go that far, I am young, and right now and during our relationship i thought she was perfect etc. just like in the movies, but im sure as my life goes on, I will be plenty more women better than her, it just stings now, that is all.

Are you making this decision because your emotionally wanting revenge or with your mind? Just remember, there's no such thing as a perfect relationships. And most relationships go through what you're going through.

Hmm.. so it was like this.

1) you think it's perfect it isn't.
2) the old flame comes and says that "he loves her"
3) This makes her rethink everything.. so she talks to you about it instead of cheating.
4) In the end she decides to seperate because she wasn't in love anymore... but then again she doesnt' go to the guy who said he loved her, which means she doesn't love him.
5) She has seperated herself from the situation.

One thing she did was that she was honest about her feelings and didn't go back to you falsely until she felt it again(which may or which may never be). But she didn't go back to you falsely and is being honest about her feelings right now.

I just wish this would pass sooner, so I can get on with my life, and not look at my phone, or check my email hoping, etc.

You're not moving on with your life if all you want is revenge. Look at this whole situation, she didn't do this because she hates you, she did it because she is confused where her loyalties lay, and it's actually looking back on it didn't it do you a favor by leaving? She left you heartbroken yea, but it's better for you to be single then you both living a lie, would you agree with that?

You shouldn't be sitting around waiting for revenge, right now I think you're very emotional right now.

But it's the wrong thing to wait for her call just to throw her back. Why not consider what she's going through right now too. And if she comes back to you or asks you can bet its BECAUSE she truly feels for you. So don't make a mistake by focusing on revenge.

Live your life, but don't wait around for revenge because thats not you, and thats not thinking smart. Live your life and let what happens happen, but don't make a mistake through pride or emotion. And really think about what you want to do without focusing on revenge.

[raleights]

Nonsense, think about revenge, money, sex, working on your abs, and penis implants

Good example!

To help you understand the situation.... where I live, behind the houses are alleys so everything is pretty compact (typical city living). A week ago I'm coming home from work right, I'm trying to get to my house and in the middle of this alley is a huge fuckin garage sale, with the person putting on the garage sale having parked their car in the middle of the alley - rude right? Well as I pull up to them they start giving me this assholish stare and waving at me to go back and shaking their head, just completely rude I wanted to rip their ears off (6 pounds of pressure with the right grip and it comes off btw). So instead of doing whats right (like I said ripping the ear off) I attempt to turn the truck around. While doing this I accidently reverse into some fuckin object, not sure what it was exactly but it messed up the rear bumper of the truck (really nice vehicle btw). Naturally I start feeling like a moron, then I see those same assholes staring at me again... So after being the initial cause of me reversing into some thing, they have the nerve to stare. What do I do being a nice guy? I keep going the other way like nothing happend but still totally pissed. Well a week later I was still pissed, knowing that money has to come out of my pocket at some point or another. The only thing that made me feel better was sticking a knife in their tires.

Sorry but revenge does help, even though I'm out $150 it feels pretty good knowing they got their

[Purist]

Nonsense, think about revenge, money, sex, working on your abs, and penis implants

ALL YOU MEN ARE ABOUT IS EGO!!! Ego aint got shit to do with commitment. Which only means that I am right in saying all men are afraid of commitment

[AdamGB]

Of course where scared... when you have a mad rapid bitch try and control the monstor (for its weight) in your pants you'll understand too

It goes where it wants and does what it wants

[Memphis]

Cant be bothered reading all this shit. When it comes to the tarts, theres nothing a good thump wont fix, once you have hit her, make her say thank you, all Kray like.

[AdamGB]

I wouldn't advise sticking a samuri sword through her hand into a snooker table like they did though... think of the conciquences....



















































You'll have to start choking you're own chicken if her hands are too damaged.

[Memphis]

I'd imagine it would play havoc with her prowess in the kitchen too.

[SOBO]

Starr. yes she was honest about her feelings, but then how do you explain her telling me everytime she said she loved me for 2 months she didn;t mean it?? I don't know how someone can do that, I see your point, but I think you have to take what I said into consideration,

about revenge, yes, it would be sweet, but im not gonna be a HUGE asshole to her, but IM obviously act nice, and pretend nothing happened, maybe I am sorta thinking of revenge, but who wouldn't in my situation, i dont want to hit her, or kill her, etc. but I do want her to miss me, and maybe feel like shit, for a bit,

and to update, I was with my lil bro shopping for a baseball mit for him, and as I am going out, (the store plaza was near her house,) I saw her car pull up, I didn't want to look but I did, and I tihnk i saw her in the passenger seat, and her sister was driving, i just looked, and turned away to go tomy car.

[SOBO]

and about this commitement, I was fine with it, I mean I was young, and naive, at one point we were talking silly, and thinking we were gonna youknow, have a house, with a white picket fence, etc.

Which was fun, but totally unrealistic, now looking back, and I knew it, but still set myself up.

And now, what would be the reason for taking her back? (if it happens, which is a big if)
i now know that, whether or not i do want to have future with her, she will not be the only girl I will be with, which is sometihng I thoguth before all this, so that is why im thinking about not getting back with her, b/c what good will that do?

might be better to just cut loose huh?

[Purist]

Starr. yes she was honest about her feelings, but then how do you explain her telling me everytime she said she loved me for 2 months she didn;t mean it?? I don't know how someone can do that, I see your point, but I think you have to take what I said into consideration,

Yea that is very cold. But I think this whole situation has helped since she told you it brought out so you wouldn't have to live a lie, and its good that you know that isn't it? Now that you are both seperated and are "honest" IF she came back(big if) it would be because she felt it again, unless you feel like it would be a lie.

about revenge, yes, it would be sweet, but im not gonna be a HUGE asshole to her, but IM obviously act nice, and pretend nothing happened, maybe I am sorta thinking of revenge, but who wouldn't in my situation, i dont want to hit her, or kill her, etc. but I do want her to miss me, and maybe feel like shit, for a bit,

Well sure, but you make someone miss you by being yourself. Not letting them get as close but always being yourself. Don't try anything different, just be SOBO, because it's SOBO that she would miss wouldn't it be? don't act different(well of course act different because you aren't together but nothing out of your personaloty) and really, do you really think she "wanted" you to feel miserable? You're "wanting" her to be miserable, which isn't what she wanted for you is it?

and to update, I was with my lil bro shopping for a baseball mit for him, and as I am going out, (the store plaza was near her house,) I saw her car pull up, I didn't want to look but I did, and I tihnk i saw her in the passenger seat, and her sister was driving, i just looked, and turned away to go tomy car.

There's a good and a bad to that. Making it seem like you're avoiding her isn't the image you want to present if you miss her. be yourself but don't show any "neediness" to her.

and about this commitement, I was fine with it, I mean I was young, and naive, at one point we were talking silly, and thinking we were gonna youknow, have a house, with a white picket fence, etc.

Which was fun, but totally unrealistic, now looking back, and I knew it, but still set myself up.

Are you sure she wasn't sincere about those thoughts too at the time that you both were talking it?

And now, what would be the reason for taking her back? (if it happens, which is a big if)

If you both found a way back to each other I guess. And that would mean a lot if after THIS that still happened. It doesn't seem that ya'll had a problem with each other. Sounds more like you two needed time apart.

i now know that, whether or not i do want to have future with her, she will not be the only girl I will be with, which is sometihng I thought before all this, so that is why im thinking about not getting back with her, b/c what good will that do?

Chart down going through this and somehow finding a way back to each other? That would probably do a lot good. But I think if it happened it would probably be a more honest relationship. Without as many secrets. Because personally I don't think she did this to hurt you. You seem to think she did this to hurt you otherwise you wouldn't want revenge. Ask yourself if she did this to hurt you before you decide anything else.

might be better to just cut loose huh?

Your choice. She told you that a few times of the two months she didn't mean "i love you" right? Do you think she said that to hurt you? or to be honest? Now think about you wanting revenge, is that because you want to hurt her? and then ask yourself a third question, did she want to hurt you? And her not wanting to hurt you may also answer the question on why she went the last 2 months telling half truths. But I think that this chap just was the last straw and she decided to tell you everything by being honest. So in a way its a good thing that it happened or you both may continue livinv a lie. At least you know if you got back together it would be a more honest relationship. And you'll get the answer about how you should feel. But don't let ego get in the way.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

Why can't you knuckle draggers understand we can still care about you even if we've split up with you

Well in sobos situation its hard to really believe she cares about him when she made some pretty selfish decisions....and since they split up might be rooting another guy. That could be why we dont think they still cares about us

And what do you make of her telling him that she doesn't want the other guy Is that part of the master plan

a wierd senerio, yes, it all seems like that was the reason, but then she talks to me tells me that she does not want to go out with him, in fear of being used,? yet still keeps her decision, She DID tell me in our final talk that for th elast month and a bit of the relationship, ant rime she said she loved, usually after i had told her, she said she didn;t mean it,

that is pretty cold

the way I see she still cared but didn't want to hurt you - which is why she continued to say it, by the sounds of things the relationship was falling down anyway and this guy showing up just brought things forward a few months.