Anyone Ever Lose a Girl you love out of sheer stupdity????

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gl for future jtrock

[JT Rock]

Not sure when this was posted. The post times are always crazy for me.


I always wanted a woman with no children. That way if we had a child together the experience would be new to us both. Same for marriage. I thought I had found that person. We were married for two years and she got bored and split. Oh, I was bitter.

I am now with a woman who has a 15 year old son that I cannot stand. I had dated her a bit in the past and decided to move on. Now, she lives with me and considers us "married."

The woman I have loved the most are the ones that didn't want me. Weird how that works out...

Anyway, my advice is... be sure you're not just lonley. Sometimes when are lonley you start urning for something confortable from your past. If the things she has done in her past truly bother you than they probably always will. Also, for me persoanlly the fact that she is a bartender would drive me bonkers. I would steer clear of her no matter how much I loved her. Even if she isn't cheating you won't be able to stop thinking that she is. And if she is than she will say your just being paranoid.
First thing you should do is clean up your act and stay single for an extended period of time. DO NOT DATE. Save money, educate your mind, take it easy. Then when you are in a good frame of mind start fresh with someone you have no history with and take it slow...

Thanks Gorilla!! I am not lonely and never have had a shortage of woman in my life.....I have gone thru times were I stayed alone and single so I could fortify my being and do things for me I want to be happy for myself not cause someone makes me happy, They can enhance my happiness but shouldnt be the bases of it cause when there gone so is the happiness, you have to be comfortable in your own skin, if you are not then what do you really have to bring to the table come relationship time......I can be happy single or happy with someone I am comfortable doing either one

[JT Rock]

gl for future jtrock

Thanks bro....This shit is hard sometimes, but hey its all part of life I'll get it sorted out one way or another..

[JT Rock]

Man I thought you guys would be all about giving me advice and stuff..... :P

[Tito BHB]

Man I thought you guys would be all about giving me advice and stuff..... :P

aight i spose theres nothing wrong with a lil advice from your man Body Head!!

i had a real nice gal once..... went out with her for damn near a year....pretty as hell ..i'd show her off to all my buddies...but frijid as hell( that means she was a virgin n i wasnt getting any f9or those who dont get it)
so basically i wasnt getting any and i proper loved her.... but because im a male and i wasnt getting none i was cheating here there and everywhere i got more back then when i had a girl that i REALLY liked then i do now!! and i slept with so many chicks that one happened to be best friends with her best friend and when we'd had a few arguements her best friend blabbed cos she didnt think we were lasting much longer so i was in the shit, and it was all over and i was real gutted ...i know how it feels like cos its like no other physical pain its like in your stomach and you cant think strait cos all it is is like oh shiiiit i reaaaly fucked up...
but give it two weeks i got over her...
then i would hope i dint see her in town or hide if i saw her.....
and now ive never really been into relationships since...
doesnt bother me, i see her i give her a nid and a wink or smile say hello and thats it
i wouldnt get back with her on her nelly, fuck that
you'll get over it..... she MIGHT!! forgive you and if you want her that bad then i suggest if she see's your making an effort and you get friendly again thats all good....
if not..... tough shit i guess
lol
peace out

[JT Rock]

Also, for me persoanlly the fact that she is a bartender would drive me bonkers. I would steer clear of her no matter how much I loved her. Even if she isn't cheating you won't be able to stop thinking that she is. And if she is than she will say your just being paranoid.

I am not a jealous person by anymeans, and I am pretty secure I never gave it a second thought that she bartends if she cheats she is gonna cheat whether she's a cleaning lady a metermaid or a Bartender

[Lords Gym]

nothing like a loose metermaid i might add

[Tito BHB]

nothing like a loose metermaid i might add

haha

[TheBESTP4P]

yo JT bro I got ya PM and i want u to know im here for ya bro i briefly skimmed thru ya story, but im mad busy right now i have another meeting to go to then i have to make an inventory run then later tonight ill drop some REAL TALK on here for ya!
hang in there bro!

[JT Rock]

yo JT bro I got ya PM and i want u to know im here for ya bro i briefly skimmed thru ya story, but im mad busy right now i have another meeting to go to then i have to make an inventory run then later tonight ill drop some REAL TALK on here for ya!
hang in there bro!

Thanks Brutha your input would be greatly appreciated....I got myself into a good one here I am fuked..LOL I got to work on this whole balance issue its all or its nothing with me no in between....I will pull off the upset though and charm her again just got to put the gameplan together...Sad enough it's all about the damage control now and nothing else.........

[JT Rock]

just walk in wen its busy with a massive bunch of flowers


write im sorry, can we talk, on the card


be confident, give her the flowers and say i love you and walk back out, be prepared to have them thrown back at u, but she should be sensible enough to realise how hard it is do do tht and let you call her.

if not, harsh, but you gotta move on

I thought of that beds not a bad move its a viable option

[beds]

just walk in wen its busy with a massive bunch of flowers


write im sorry, can we talk, on the card


be confident, give her the flowers and say i love you and walk back out, be prepared to have them thrown back at u, but she should be sensible enough to realise how hard it is do do tht and let you call her.

if not, harsh, but you gotta move on

I thought of that beds not a bad move its a viable option

would take big balls to do it mate

so polish them gonads and in ya go

[undefeated]

never got 2 have any of the girls that ive cared about--it just sux --i always lose out 2 some douche bag--atleast youve had the girl that actually meant somethin 2 u---cuz i neva had

[beds]

never got 2 have any of the girls that ive cared about--it just sux --i always lose out 2 some douche bag--atleast youve had the girl that actually meant somethin 2 u---cuz i neva had

cheer up ugly


j/k fella cc for being lonely

[Tito BHB]

i guess if shiz gets to rough for you jt you can always join the navy!!

bet you meet some nice new friends there!!