
Originally Posted by
amat
That was a good post Bilbo it is to bad I repped you for the first one.
For example, the good peersonality thing. There is a girl I work with who is a great person, great great person and very attractive. She could be a librarian, but she has no grip for sarcasm, like whatsoever. And for whatever reason, that turned me off from her. She has a great personality, she is like 10 times the greater person I am I can't stress that enough but yeah, no sarcasm grip.
So I guess I try to find someone who understands sarcasm? I never knew that until recently. I like girls not to be squares. My last girlfriend was a square and it was just a giant mistake, cute and everything and she was fine with everything I did but there was nothing I wanted to that she did. Even drinking, she was fine with a glass of wine I was like, you have to be kidding me. That was like 1 giant mistake.
Of course getting with girls you just meant in a blunt circle could lead to a lot of problems.
As for looks, I like tall skinny girls, that's a preference.
Glad you get what I mean Amat, not picking on Ice as his response is typical for 99.99999% of guys when asked what they find attractive in a girl but it means nothing.
Translated roughly it means 'I have to be attracted to them'

I know what you mean as well about your girl examples. It's the intangibles that often make us attracted to someone. Initially almost all males are attracted to a physically attractive girl, someone who most approximates the youthful, childrearing potential ideal of a nice petite hourglass type figure but personality is where it gets complicated.
I really think to a large extent we are attracted to girls who are like us, at least in several important regards.
By good sense of humour, we actually mean, someone who likes MY humour, and by kind and good natured, and 'a nice person' we usually actually mean someone who is kind and nice to ME and likes ME.
We are selfish shallow creatures ultimately, all of us are, but there is nothing wrong with that. If we are going to spend our lives, or at least a significant portion of it with somoene
we expect that we should find them sexually desirable, that they make us feel good about ourselves, and that we enjoy spending time with them more than spending time without them.
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