2. Most people here think you sound angry and frustrated, but you say you aren't. Maybe he is a bit like you? Or maybe you just want him to be angry thus making you a bit of a hypocrite. I mean, he really seems more upset about belittling male issues more than anything. Oh, and media smears and lies.
Of course in a sardonic or jokey comment anything goes. But if it doesn't look like he is joking? Well, I am quite convinced that the married father is not joking when he says he wouldn't rape her. You have a humor bypass. In the old days Derek and Clive and Rik Mayall would say whatever they liked and people either laughed or turned it off. You are the forum Mary Whitehouse.
You could always ask him, politely of course too in case he is really, really angry, but you won't talk to 'nobodies'. Thus you hide behind your keyboard going 'Waah! He won't rape someone!' It is so weird.