Change your life FOREVER! PUA Style! *Part 1*
Posted 04-12-2008 at 02:24 PM by Dizaster
Updated Today at 06:30 AM by Dizaster (added link to *Part 2*)
Updated Today at 06:30 AM by Dizaster (added link to *Part 2*)
Sooooooo..... What is this big "concept" i've been talking about for the past few days?
What are these big "epiphanies" i've had that i've so hastily labeled "life changing"?
Well, I've given it all a name...
" The OC Effect "
It's huge! It's life changing! And it's SIMPLE!!!
Immediately I can hear you wondering.. What is "The OC Effect"? How will it "change" my life?? And how can something, which i'm hyping as such a profound concept, be SO simple?
Well, let me first introduce you to how it came about...
The Intro.
I came up with what I have coined "The OC Effect" after listening to a Real Social Dynamic seminar, hosted by their lead guy, Tyler Durden. Tyler Durden's real name is actually "Owen Cook". Hence the abbreviation "OC".
During this in depth, 4 day, 22 hour seminar, Tyler discusses a lot of the discoveries he has made through his years of training to become a Pickup Artist. He has also hosted bootcamps nearly every weekend for the past 6 years, to teach average guys the skills it takes to attract gorgeous women.
It is this lifestyle that has given him so many insights, and allowed him develop the ability to articulate them in such a way that they can be understood by the layman.
He has gone from being a shy, hopeless chump, into a guy who can pick up just about any woman in the world, without ANY fear at all.
Gorgeous women are now intimidated by him! All from him simply approaching, and saying "Hi".
How does he do this? More importantly, how can you learn to do it, without having to go through the 7 years he went through to get to that level?
Well, my epiphanies led me to the answer... An answer that I was able to sum up in a meare 5 lines.. 5 life changing Lines.. "The OC Effect"! The unfortunate thing for you though is, I'm not going to give you those 5 simple lines just yet.
Instead, I'm going to save them until the very end.
For now, I am going give you a very quick summary of the key points that led me to my epiphany. And hopefully by the end, you will have had your own epiphany, and there will be no need for me to point you directly to the answer.
You can then simply take the 5 lines, put them in your pocket, and move on to Pickup Artist Stardom!
The Beginning
As you come into the game, it is quite easy to see that Girls do the choosing,, and Men do the attracting. It's obvious!
Men will fuck anything that walks, basically. But a gorgeous woman? She can take her pick. She'll have men throwing themselves at her stupidly all night, and she'll choose the one she wants. Or choose none. Simple.
Up until now, it's been a bit of a black hole for men. See the below diagram titled "Reality 1".

Women are up there. On their pedestal. And we are down here. Sux right?!
But the seduction community came up with the answer! VALUE! We simply have to demonstrate a higher value to her, then she'll happily give us an arm up onto her pedestal..
Learning a technique to demonstrate higher value to her is like building a step at the bottom of the pedestal... Fix your body language to show your a confident guy (even if your not), and you have ANOTHER step. Eventually you will get to the top.. Problem solved!
While other guys are running around the pedestal, gazing up in amazement, we are climbing the steps towards having our way with her.
While other guys are frustrated by the REALITY of the girl being above them, we have MASTERED it!
In a reality that is clearly set AGAINST the Male race, we have the Perfect answer!!
Right ? ? ?
WRONG !!!
Sure, when we see the world in THIS reality, we can master all the techniques to get up there to the girls level.
But what if, we saw a different reality. What if we saw the world as it is in Reality number 2?

Isn't that what we want?
Our value demonstrating techniques can be used as spice, but just walking into a club fully believing you are on the pedestal above her, Isn't that what we are ultimately after? Wouldn't that make you act differently? Wouldn't that automatically bring your body language up to par? Wouldn't that make it a little easier to win her over? Raise your confidence? Make her almost AUTOMATICALLY attracted to you?
If we could BELIEVE this reality, it would make our game grow hugely? Do you agree?
The New Reality
This is where the great Pickup Artists make all their success... We have the same lines as them, but they've been doing them for years! They have also had huge success over many years..
They have proven it to themselves time and time again, that they can have these gorgeous women, any time they like.
They have eliminated their neediness and fears and anxieties,,, and are walking in with total belief that they are the ones on the pedestals...
Their belief is firmly and utterly rooted in Reality number 2. Women are the ones that need to learn how to climb those stairs.

Where does that leave you? The beginner Pickup Artist?
Wouldn't it be amazing if you could have an absolute belief in this reality too? Only without needing to go through the years of training and success' before this beleif is firmly rooted inside you?
There is no doubt, this would be AMAZING! You would cut your learning and success curve in half.
Hell, you'd cut it into 10ths!!!
But I have something to confess to you...
I can't give you this reality.
Not in a year, a month, a minute. Not in a second. And not in 5 lines..
It would be great! No doubt!
But I can't.
The only concelation I have for you is this.
I wouldn't want to give it to you!
Why?
Because I can do you one better!
This reality I have just described... Reality number 2.. This is the reality of the "Master" Pickup Artist! A land where most men would give their SOULS to live...
But for us,,,, we are going further.
WAY Futher!
In my next blog.. Through a short lesson that won't take you more that 10 minutes to digest...
I am taking you to the "Land of the Naturals!!"
For now, I will leave you with these 5 very important words...
"You are not your Khakis"
Click here for *Part 2*
What are these big "epiphanies" i've had that i've so hastily labeled "life changing"?
Well, I've given it all a name...
" The OC Effect "
It's huge! It's life changing! And it's SIMPLE!!!
Immediately I can hear you wondering.. What is "The OC Effect"? How will it "change" my life?? And how can something, which i'm hyping as such a profound concept, be SO simple?
Well, let me first introduce you to how it came about...
The Intro.
I came up with what I have coined "The OC Effect" after listening to a Real Social Dynamic seminar, hosted by their lead guy, Tyler Durden. Tyler Durden's real name is actually "Owen Cook". Hence the abbreviation "OC".
During this in depth, 4 day, 22 hour seminar, Tyler discusses a lot of the discoveries he has made through his years of training to become a Pickup Artist. He has also hosted bootcamps nearly every weekend for the past 6 years, to teach average guys the skills it takes to attract gorgeous women.
It is this lifestyle that has given him so many insights, and allowed him develop the ability to articulate them in such a way that they can be understood by the layman.
He has gone from being a shy, hopeless chump, into a guy who can pick up just about any woman in the world, without ANY fear at all.
Gorgeous women are now intimidated by him! All from him simply approaching, and saying "Hi".
How does he do this? More importantly, how can you learn to do it, without having to go through the 7 years he went through to get to that level?
Well, my epiphanies led me to the answer... An answer that I was able to sum up in a meare 5 lines.. 5 life changing Lines.. "The OC Effect"! The unfortunate thing for you though is, I'm not going to give you those 5 simple lines just yet.
Instead, I'm going to save them until the very end.
For now, I am going give you a very quick summary of the key points that led me to my epiphany. And hopefully by the end, you will have had your own epiphany, and there will be no need for me to point you directly to the answer.
You can then simply take the 5 lines, put them in your pocket, and move on to Pickup Artist Stardom!
The Beginning
As you come into the game, it is quite easy to see that Girls do the choosing,, and Men do the attracting. It's obvious!
Men will fuck anything that walks, basically. But a gorgeous woman? She can take her pick. She'll have men throwing themselves at her stupidly all night, and she'll choose the one she wants. Or choose none. Simple.
Up until now, it's been a bit of a black hole for men. See the below diagram titled "Reality 1".

Women are up there. On their pedestal. And we are down here. Sux right?!
But the seduction community came up with the answer! VALUE! We simply have to demonstrate a higher value to her, then she'll happily give us an arm up onto her pedestal..
Learning a technique to demonstrate higher value to her is like building a step at the bottom of the pedestal... Fix your body language to show your a confident guy (even if your not), and you have ANOTHER step. Eventually you will get to the top.. Problem solved!
While other guys are running around the pedestal, gazing up in amazement, we are climbing the steps towards having our way with her.
While other guys are frustrated by the REALITY of the girl being above them, we have MASTERED it!
In a reality that is clearly set AGAINST the Male race, we have the Perfect answer!!
Right ? ? ?
WRONG !!!
Sure, when we see the world in THIS reality, we can master all the techniques to get up there to the girls level.
But what if, we saw a different reality. What if we saw the world as it is in Reality number 2?

Isn't that what we want?
Our value demonstrating techniques can be used as spice, but just walking into a club fully believing you are on the pedestal above her, Isn't that what we are ultimately after? Wouldn't that make you act differently? Wouldn't that automatically bring your body language up to par? Wouldn't that make it a little easier to win her over? Raise your confidence? Make her almost AUTOMATICALLY attracted to you?
If we could BELIEVE this reality, it would make our game grow hugely? Do you agree?
The New Reality
This is where the great Pickup Artists make all their success... We have the same lines as them, but they've been doing them for years! They have also had huge success over many years..
They have proven it to themselves time and time again, that they can have these gorgeous women, any time they like.
They have eliminated their neediness and fears and anxieties,,, and are walking in with total belief that they are the ones on the pedestals...
Their belief is firmly and utterly rooted in Reality number 2. Women are the ones that need to learn how to climb those stairs.

Where does that leave you? The beginner Pickup Artist?
Wouldn't it be amazing if you could have an absolute belief in this reality too? Only without needing to go through the years of training and success' before this beleif is firmly rooted inside you?
There is no doubt, this would be AMAZING! You would cut your learning and success curve in half.
Hell, you'd cut it into 10ths!!!
But I have something to confess to you...
I can't give you this reality.

Not in a year, a month, a minute. Not in a second. And not in 5 lines..
It would be great! No doubt!
But I can't.
The only concelation I have for you is this.
I wouldn't want to give it to you!
Why?
Because I can do you one better!

This reality I have just described... Reality number 2.. This is the reality of the "Master" Pickup Artist! A land where most men would give their SOULS to live...
But for us,,,, we are going further.
WAY Futher!
In my next blog.. Through a short lesson that won't take you more that 10 minutes to digest...
I am taking you to the "Land of the Naturals!!"
For now, I will leave you with these 5 very important words...
"You are not your Khakis"
Click here for *Part 2*
Total Comments 8
Comments
| | Sorry for the suspense guys... It will all be summed up in part 2 ![]() |
Posted 04-12-2008 at 02:26 PM by Dizaster |
| | Good stuff Dizaster this sounds like one of those internet adverts that ends with 'click here to purchase this life changing information' ![]() Actually I've been thinking along these lines recently and it's occurred to me that evolutionarily the male is clearly the superior species, its just that modern culture has disguised this fact. But consider this, if aliens came to our planet and studied us as an animal species they would assume very much that the males were by far the dominant species. Not only are we bigger, stronger, more muscular and more attractive physically..from an evolutionary point of view at least but we hold virtually all the positions of power. Furthermore woman are forced to use makeup and clothing to accentuate their attractiveness to make sure they measure up to a man's ideal. If we were studying human behaviour like an animal species we'd actually feel sorry for the females and how inferior they are to the male of the species. It's actually a role reversal of the male peacock or male bird of paradises forced into elaborate make up displays to win the affection of the dowdy female who doesn't need to have bright plumage because they are simply superior. But if you really think about, if an alien species took two naked humans a perfect male specimen and a perfect female specimen the tall, muscular, strong male looks far superior. The fact that a woman has to build a face mask and wear clothing to enhance or in someway even disguise their features only highlights the inbalance between the sexes. The male clearly DOES belong on the pedastal not the woman. Of course I expect Sharla to tear me to shreds in a minute for being such a mysoginist but as long as I believe this in my heart I'll never feel inferior again. Just have to be strong and make sure she doesn't change my mind ![]() |
Posted 04-13-2008 at 02:14 AM by Bilbo |
| | LOL, hopefully she doesn't make good enough points to change both our minds.. Glad you liked.. :-) I think I actually have read wayyy to many internet adverstisments where they build you up into a ball of excitement and hope, then dump a $$$ amount on you... Although, I was trying to make the thing exciting and build it up, as it's kind of simple.. And I think you can understand it deeper when you analyze all the little concepts surrounding it as well.. I agree with you also in regards to us being the superior gender.. *ducks to avoid Sharla's flying shoe* If you look at it say, 100 years into the future, where natural disasters have ravaged the world and we are back to the stone age pretty much.. A big, intelligent, survival built man will be the dominent person... He can offer HUGE survival and protetction value to the lady.. Without him, she may die out on her own... He can hunt, feed, protect, build shelters etc ect for her. Today's society has flipped the switch somewhat... A women can put on a lovely dress, perfume, make up, and walk down the street with her nose slightly in the air... As she gracefully drifts along, men anywhere in sight of her will spin around and appreciate this 'superior' being.. Some will even make a pass at her.. But admiration is the general concenses through the entire street. In an apocolyptic society where survival is key, the man could once again take it's place as the chooser.. Maybe? It's definetly an interesting topic that requires a lot of thought to discover answers... I was thinking about this a while ago and wrote a couple of pages of notes just exploring the idea that men really could be classed as the sexual "choosers", and not the women... I'll have to see if I can dig it up... |
Posted 04-13-2008 at 02:41 AM by Dizaster |
| | I've almost finished up with Part 2 now.. God it's difficult to explain.. I understand why it took him 4 days to get down to that level... It's brilliant though.. If you get it, you'll be blown away.. I still am every time I go over it. Unforunately what I have so far is a lot or repetition and a lot of F words to try to and get the point out, so it's going to take much much much fine tuning... I'm extremely excited to have it down in words though, for anyone to learn and understand... At least I hope it's understandable. |
Posted 04-13-2008 at 05:21 AM by Dizaster |
| | Bilbo you're a TWAT! Dizaster is scared of spiders and inhales toxic gas while wasting hours of hif life in front of the TV daily wondernig why chick don't dig him - case closed as far as he's concerned. As for you if I can bash you thereby proving I'm stronger and since I really don't put any effort into my appearance and you two knobs are out getting streaks and using 'holiday skin' - you're just full of SHITE really! Furthermore guys who actually look after themselves do get admired from afar by women all around them. They can be choosers - they first choose not to be loosers though. These guys do exist - they are just not you! They don't pike out of doing the things which really make them attractive (like working out, sticking to their values etc etc) and diverting their attention to beer and other zone out activities to the point of doing nothing at all. Definition of a looser = someone who has to justify themselves and their existance by adding value to basic descriptors which they have but did not have to earn in any way eg gender, height, race, species, mummy and daddy's money etc etc. Such loosers delude themselves in this manner in order to excuse themselves for piking out of actually doing anything energetic and anything which is not for instantaneous personal gratification as they are lazy shits! |
Posted 04-14-2008 at 02:04 AM by Sharla Updated 04-14-2008 at 02:15 AM by Sharla |
| | Wow so much anger! I think you should take some kind of relaxation class and maybe anger management! You mock me and Dizaster though but Dizaster does actually have a girlfriend and I have a little harem of semi regular fuck buddies whilst you prefer to beat up the guys you meet and condemn as slurry's any girl guilty of having actual attraction to and feelings for guys they fall for. ![]() I've finally got a nickname worthy of you now, Elizabeth or Queen Bess after our beautiful red headed queen Elizabeth 1st! Like her your charming and brilliant one minute and the next you are spitting venom and throwing temper tantrum's. ![]() And calling me a TWAT is harsh, that's even worse than the dickhead you called me last week! I wonder how long before you're telling me I'm a complete fucking cunt? Probably the next time you reply I imagine ![]() |
Posted 04-14-2008 at 04:59 AM by Bilbo |
| | She's a slurry because she doesn't care - she hasn't been singe since she was 14 because she overlaps them all for anything from a few months to a year. You love me picking on you - otherwise you wouldn't throw out the baited hook. I've told you I'm not a red head - but i know that's just another baited hook. Plus the only guys I beat up are boxers and they really enjoy it! :P |
Posted 04-14-2008 at 05:10 AM by Sharla |
| | haha yeah I do love setting you off I must admit. Anything to get to your attention really. When i try to be nice to you just flat out mock me so winding you up is the only way I can get some emotion out of you. Plus much like Violent D your little putdowns are often hilarious ![]() |
Posted 04-14-2008 at 08:27 AM by Bilbo Updated 04-14-2008 at 08:30 AM by Bilbo |
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