Is it acceptable to go out to bars / clubs by yourself?

[Bo-Bo24]

So tonights a saturday night. I'm 20 and have not too long ago became single. I've been mulling over all of yesterday and today if I should go out tonight, and indeed if I did which bar / club should I go to. However I've recently moved back to university but none of my friends are back yet so I would be going out by myself. Do you guys think its acceptable to go out by yourself? Im sat here now thinking I could be doing a load of better things with my life right now but at the same time Im not sure its normal to get drunk by yourself in your room go to a nightclub and just try and pull. Thoughts?

[Jerry Rice]

So tonights a saturday night. I'm 20 and have not too long ago became single. I've been mulling over all of yesterday and today if I should go out tonight, and indeed if I did which bar / club should I go to. However I've recently moved back to university but none of my friends are back yet so I would be going out by myself. Do you guys think its acceptable to go out by yourself? Im sat here now thinking I could be doing a load of better things with my life right now but at the same time Im not sure its normal to get drunk by yourself in your room go to a nightclub and just try and pull. Thoughts?

You have to be super charismatic to pull it off, I have tried 2-3 times and it never worked, there I am walking around the club by myself looking suspicious, every girl is going to be with at least one friend if not multiple so its going to be hard to split her up, like I said before it all depends on how charismatic you are.

[Memphis]

You have to be super charismatic to pull it off, I have tried 2-3 times and it never worked, .

You're shitting me?

[Dia bando]

So tonights a saturday night. I'm 20 and have not too long ago became single. I've been mulling over all of yesterday and today if I should go out tonight, and indeed if I did which bar / club should I go to. However I've recently moved back to university but none of my friends are back yet so I would be going out by myself. Do you guys think its acceptable to go out by yourself? Im sat here now thinking I could be doing a load of better things with my life right now but at the same time Im not sure its normal to get drunk by yourself in your room go to a nightclub and just try and pull. Thoughts?

You have to be super charismatic to pull it off, I have tried 2-3 times and it never worked, there I am walking around the club by myself looking suspicious, every girl is going to be with at least one friend if not multiple so its going to be hard to split her up, like I said before it all depends on how charismatic you are.

Charismatic that's a big word,! don't you mean pissed.

[IamInuit]

Why not? I used to be in a LOCKERS like dance group. 4 lads. We hung out at funk clubs to cut the rug. Poppin and Lockin. No spinning on the head stuff. Shabbadoo like although we were actually before him.

The Lockers came first in my years of watching Carson and Soul Train. There were many times in the big city that I got a hankering to go out and did so on my own.

I enjoy my own company and its usually when I have had the most fun if I were to calculate it.

[Beanz]

Why not? I used to be in a LOCKERS like dance group. 4 lads. We hung out at funk clubs to cut the rug. Poppin and Lockin. No spinning on the head stuff. Shabbadoo like although we were actually before him.

The Lockers came first in my years of watching Carson and Soul Train. There were many times in the big city that I got a hankering to go out and did so on my own.

I enjoy my own company and its usually when I have had the most fun if I were to calculate it.

We made do with a bit of lino in the subway outside of C&A.

[armin]

If you're going to "pull" you're actually better of by yourself, girls are much more likely to open a chat with ya on their own if you're by yourself than if you're in a group, at least from personal experience. Irregardless of that i say if ya wana go out by yourself do it, it can be fun as long as ya make conversation with people n don't just sit by yourself in a dark corner getting shitfaced, altho done that too, haha.

[El Kabong]

YES, grow a pair...it's ok to go out to eat on your own, to a club on your own, you know who cares about what other people think? Weak people. Be yourself and own it

[0james0]

Of course it is.

If you do, you can also use a great line when chatting to a bird:

I've lost all my friends and I'm now by myself.

Their motherly instincts will kick in and they will want to stick with you.

[Master]

Yes it is acceptable to go to bars but it is not acceptable to go alone to the cinema Billy No Mates.

[Bo-Bo24]

Of course it is.

If you do, you can also use a great line when chatting to a bird:

I've lost all my friends and I'm now by myself.

Their motherly instincts will kick in and they will want to stick with you.

Shit, I like your logic!

[Master]

Of course it is.

If you do, you can also use a great line when chatting to a bird:

I've lost all my friends and I'm now by myself.

Their motherly instincts will kick in and they will want to stick with you.

Shit, I like your logic!

It is if you want to shag your mum.

[Xwetie]

Yeah just go for it!

When i went traveling i went by my own had to go out having a few drinks to meet people. Most of the times went really good. remember, those girls who's craziest on the dance floor is the ones that wants it the most. but be careful no backup with ya

After having had sex with his Thai wife newlyweds so they are laying on the bed. Long afterwards she laying down and caressing his penis and watch it. Do you love it so much, he wonders?
Nah, she says, I miss my own!

[Master]

Why we are not going out

Blame lack of money for neglecting their social life 53%
Struggle to spend time with friends and family 32%
Are happy to delegate the organising to someone else 22%
Admit to forgetting birthdays 14%

When it comes to socialising

26% of us are doers
14% forgetters
11% culture vultures
8% latecomers
8% drop outs.

[Gandalf]

Out here I go to a bar I know occasionally, but it is easy to find people who will play a game of darts with you. As a foreigner people will make the effort with you. In England I would never go out on my own, here I don't mind.