Marrying a woman mostly for her looks

[Howlin Mad Missy]

it's clear you're not ready for marriage, don't do it just to have someone there, that's not fair to her at all and not to you

[VictorCharlie]

Marriage is a partnership. Obviously physical attraction is important but when you are going through the trials and tribulations that every couple does you won't be concerned with how perky her tits are but does she make you laugh and when things go south can you depend on her. I second Missy, you are in no way ready to get married.

Oh and VD is pure fucking genius! I got to figure out how I've been missing out on the hot 19 yr old neighbor's blow jobs though.

[SugarBoxing]

it's clear you're not ready for marriage, don't do it just to have someone there, that's not fair to her at all and not to you

agree here. I think marriage for the topic starter is a selfish move to secure the ownership of the girl only for himself, which comes from the inner insecurity that one day she will dump him

[birch]

From my experience it doesn't matter how good looking a girl is, if there is nothing there but sex, after about 6 months to a year you will get bored of the same pussy.

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and was seeing other girls at the same time, had an fling at the office, but always come back to her because there is something more than just the sexual attraction. She makes me laugh like no one else can which I think is really important. I never thought that she was the best looking girl but I wouldn't change her for anything now and find her more attractive than anyone else.

I have just found out I'm gonna be a father to her child and I couldn't be happier.

So my advice is stick with someone who you can build a full well rounded relationship with rather than just someone you want to fuck. And if that fails join a swinging club.

[Spicoli]

Try all that and be satisfied with a steady relationship first. It sounds like dwelling on marriage right now may be putting the cart before the horse. I don't think anyone should get married in hopes of finding security be it financial or mental. Get secure in yourself first...women don't want insecure dudes. At least half of everyone I know on a daily basis is divorced, some a couple of times. Or are "stuck" as they say which I think is bullshit. Looks fade, age comes, substance is revealed regardless if you are ready or not when you get beyond a prepared package or presentation. I worry about people who want to be seen saying something rather than heard first. Things can be overlooked in someone if you 'care' about them enough so its not a uniformed question, one size does not fit all.

[VictorCharlie]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

[Xwetie]

You have to get a girl who you can take out without be ashamed of. spend a few grand on her, so nice dresses, nice heels. haircut, new boobs, whatever that's looks good. she have to look good from the beginning tho. working with a decent one is just to much work.

[Master]

It will never work out mate, I give it 18 months tops.

[brocktonblockbust]

forget the stunner forget the hottie. they are full of shit. remember that. they focus on their looks and looking great just to get guys like you who value that above so many other things. dont be a sucker. any girl can put on makeup and the right clothes and look just as hot as any other girl.. They are human beings, they are not dolls to be get all dressed up to please your eye. If you marry for looks you will be divorced in 3 years.

Buy the "plain jane" some clothes that you think are "hot" if you need "hot" so much, buy her some "hot" clothes, then you will get all worked up looking at her. If that's what important. I tell you ALL women are beautiful, every single one fo them, all women are God's gift to this world, its the men that are the fucking scumbags, the ones who go for goodlooking girls and skip the mediocre ones. There are no mediocre ones. There are no inferior ones. They are all beautiful. Problem with most men is that they dont realize this until they are like 40 years old. All women are goddesses. ALL.

[Beanz]

I agree all women are goddesses, it's just that some look like Lakshmi and others look like Ganesh.

[brocktonblockbust]

I agree all women are goddesses, it's just that some look like Lakshmi and others look like Ganesh.

[stebs]

What are the pros and cons of this? I know most guys want that perfect 10 model type but alot of them grow out of it as they get older. ONce they mature, they look for other qualities in women, and not just looks.

I know marrying a woman with a good personality is the right thing to do but for some reason, i put so much stock into a woman's looks and i just can't get past it.

It's like a great looking woman can make up her lack of personality with her looks. IT's so fucked up that i think like this but i can't help it.

Enlighten me fellas and ladies.. What are the pros and cons of spending a lifetime with a real hot woman

I'm a lot like you, physical attraction for me is a must, especially at first as that is what generally brings two together, whats different is I have been married for 31 years and both of us has changed in the looks department. The important thing is that you not only love each other but also like each other. Looks and body will never make up for personality and it sounds like you don't even like the hot one, so have your fun and move on to someone you can love and like.


A real hot women will not stay that way forever unless you love her. The happiest guy I know is married to a fat homely looking women in my eyes, but they love and like each other and they take care of each other no matter what and that's the key.

[Fenster]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

[VictorCharlie]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

I believe he was originally in O&G and got caught in an oil bust in the 80s. The second time I think involved an unhealthy gambling addiction and nasty divorce. Either way he was the kind of guy scripted by movie writers.

[SugarBoxing]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

Same way Tyson blew half a billion