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Well I have been thinking since the news this morning what a great piece of journalism could be made out this. Seriously it doesn't show disconnect to want the story to be explained a bit more. Like it or not, in Venezuela this will be a story of a tragic hero who couldn't get past his own personal demons. A lot can be learned of stories like this, there's no reason why a movie, film, magazine ect. couldn't delve deeper into this without remaining sensitive to what happened.
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JazMerkin
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ryanman
I'm imagining I'm Valero's brother for instance. I'm thinking of the utter anger and revulsion that I would feel at what he did, but also about that gut churning overwhemling agony that I'd have about what became of my brother. I'm imagining feeling that and then reading some of the comments on here. Thats why I agree with some of what Daxx says.
Thank you, Mr De Niro ;D
You talking ta me?
;D
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JazMerkin
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Fenster
No, I think we agreed on that Jade Goody thread. I took offense at all the middle-class "educated" guys calling her low-life scum who didn't deserve her fortune.
At one time you definitely questioned my 6000 daily dead kids rant though.
If that was Miles, you've got it wrong. He's from 'da ghetto'.
Yeah he was a ' stone-cold playa' back in the day don't you know?
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DaxxKahn
IF YOU WERE IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD CHOKE YOU!!!!!
:smilie_whisper: We all have to keep close reigns on what we think or eventually circumstances can bring them out of us for real.
From my point of view Velero became obsessed, then was maybe even possessed: The stages can be seen.
He couldnt watch what he was thinking any longer and his own story took him over.
Through his lack of compassion towards others. His demon won, nurtured an internal story to blame all his pains onto someone else. Then the story took him over and made it his story and history.
Happens alot when our minds can no longer reel in our own emotions we search outside for the cause and then we blame.
You have to let some things just go Daxx.
All people react in different ways some can only deal with it by allowing themselves to search for a funny side.
Others go into depression, others get drunk,others get obsessed by it and have to know every inch of it.
Finding wrong in others is the real issue here, I think it is the root of what caused him to do what he did. If we blame our pains on external causes we can remain victims of them. If we say instead that we are allowing external things to effect us (then we get our power back to be able to do something about our position in it). Theres a big difference in those two ways and none of us are taught them. Which is wrong ! So Im off to kill a few parents and teachers...
No Im not, Im going to remain very calm and smile at the obvious trap I could of fallen into and not join the millions in the world that do.
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amat
Well I have been thinking since the news this morning what a great piece of journalism could be made out this. Seriously it doesn't show disconnect to want the story to be explained a bit more. Like it or not, in Venezuela this will be a story of a tragic hero who couldn't get past his own personal demons. A lot can be learned of stories like this, there's no reason why a movie, film, magazine ect. couldn't delve deeper into this without remaining sensitive to what happened.
So who would you pick to play Valero? I think if they wanted to make the audience have sympathy for Edwin Valero his wife needs to be played by Renee Zelwegger.
@Daxx mate, you made me lol at the 'you be exactly the same if you overheard someone at a supermarket. Just in case it happens, it wouldn't be a good idea to go up to total strangers and lambast them, please think first before you do it :D
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Originally Posted by
amat
Well I have been thinking since the news this morning what a great piece of journalism could be made out this. Seriously it doesn't show disconnect to want the story to be explained a bit more. Like it or not, in Venezuela this will be a story of a tragic hero who couldn't get past his own personal demons. A lot can be learned of stories like this, there's no reason why a movie, film, magazine ect. couldn't delve deeper into this without remaining sensitive to what happened.
I'm also a journalist & like you I want to know more. But, my first reaction to the story was not 'I can't wait to see the movie'. I suspect yours wasn't either Amat, or Bilbo's or most others here. I'm sure weren't also disappointed that you now wouldn't get to read Valero's book about killing his wife because Valero had killed himself. There's a difference between wanting to know more & being crass.
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Yeah he was a ' stone-cold playa' back in the day don't you know?
I've heard the stories, this is reportedly a picture of a younger Miles before a night out on the grab (Miles doesn't need to 'pull', da biatches come to him)
http://cinie.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/pimp.jpg
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Originally Posted by
Andre
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
IF YOU WERE IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD CHOKE YOU!!!!!
:smilie_whisper: We all have to keep close reigns on what we think or eventually circumstances can bring them out of us for real.
From my point of view Daniel Velero became obsessed, then was maybe even possessed: The stages can be seen.
He couldnt watch what he was thinking any longer and his own story took him over.
Through his lack of compassion towards others. His demon won, nurtured an internal story to blame all his pains onto someone else. Then the story took him over and made it his story and history.
Happens alot when our minds can no longer reel in our own emotions we search outside for the cause and then we blame.
You have to let some things just go Daxx.
All people react in different ways some can only deal with it by allowing themselves to search for a funny side.
Others go into depression, others get drunk,others get obsessed by it and have to know every inch of it.
Finding wrong in others is the real issue here, I think it is the root of what caused Daniel to do what he did. If we blame our pains on external causes we can remain victims of them. If we say instead that we are allowing external things to effect us (then we get our power back to be able to do something about our position in it). Theres a big difference in those two ways and none of us are taught them. Which is wrong ! So Im off to kill a few parents and teachers...
No Im not, Im going to remain very calm and smile at the obvious trap I could of fallen into and not join the millions in the world that do.
If anyone gives you positive rep for this, whilst mocking my own insightful posting earlier I will dispair of this forum. All you did was repeat my post but change his name to Daniel I'm guessing to create some psuedo religious metaphor :p
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
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Originally Posted by
Andre
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
IF YOU WERE IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD CHOKE YOU!!!!!
:smilie_whisper: We all have to keep close reigns on what we think or eventually circumstances can bring them out of us for real.
From my point of view Daniel Velero became obsessed, then was maybe even possessed: The stages can be seen.
He couldnt watch what he was thinking any longer and his own story took him over.
Through his lack of compassion towards others. His demon won, nurtured an internal story to blame all his pains onto someone else. Then the story took him over and made it his story and history.
Happens alot when our minds can no longer reel in our own emotions we search outside for the cause and then we blame.
You have to let some things just go Daxx.
All people react in different ways some can only deal with it by allowing themselves to search for a funny side.
Others go into depression, others get drunk,others get obsessed by it and have to know every inch of it.
Finding wrong in others is the real issue here, I think it is the root of what caused Daniel to do what he did. If we blame our pains on external causes we can remain victims of them. If we say instead that we are allowing external things to effect us (then we get our power back to be able to do something about our position in it). Theres a big difference in those two ways and none of us are taught them. Which is wrong ! So Im off to kill a few parents and teachers...
No Im not, Im going to remain very calm and smile at the obvious trap I could of fallen into and not join the millions in the world that do.
If anyone gives you positive rep for this, whilst mocking my own insightful posting earlier I will dispair of this forum. All you did was repeat my post but change his name to Daniel I'm guessing to create some psuedo religious metaphor :p
Just fukkin with your head Bilbo .
I think thats the demons name that took him over.
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Valero doesn't deserve much sympathy for killing his wife but what makes me wonder is all the head trauma he had... I am not saying that it is automatically the cause of his behaviors but living closely to somebody who has had a bad head trauma himself, I can assure that it can totally change the character of somebody in the nick of time. Cerebral lesions are a bitch, believe me. IF he did drink and that it did cause even more problems, it totally makes sense as well as cerebral lesions are strengthening the reactions and confusion that somebody would normally have. It would be interesting to know how he was before his brain lesions and after as well as his reaction to alcohol before and after the incident.
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
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Originally Posted by
amat
Well I have been thinking since the news this morning what a great piece of journalism could be made out this. Seriously it doesn't show disconnect to want the story to be explained a bit more. Like it or not, in Venezuela this will be a story of a tragic hero who couldn't get past his own personal demons. A lot can be learned of stories like this, there's no reason why a movie, film, magazine ect. couldn't delve deeper into this without remaining sensitive to what happened.
So who would you pick to play Valero? I think if they wanted to make the audience have sympathy for Edwin Valero his wife needs to be played by Renee Zelwegger.
@Daxx mate, you made me lol at the 'you be exactly the same if you overheard someone at a supermarket. Just in case it happens, it wouldn't be a good idea to go up to total strangers and lambast them, please think first before you do it :D
I don't give a shit Bilbo....People talking shit and being fucking assholes I will tell them...
I have an arrest for beating up a guy who was smacking the shit out of his kid in the street and turned out to be an attorney for the city....Should I have minded my own business?" According to the judge yes...But hey I can't stand there and watch that...
I have an arrest for beating a guy up who was berating his wife at a diner...was it my business? Again according to the judge No!! but could not sit and witness it....
Not trying to act as though I am some savior or some tough guy for good because I certainly am not... but certain things are just wrong and I can care less who it is or where I am I will address it...Not like I am some left wing advocate or a Redneck militia member....who runs around hating non Americans...think the wifes place is to serve the husband...And Only male children are worth keeping because they can only carry on the family name....
I will speak my mind on it...If it is OK for people to say what they want why is it not OK for me to say how I feel about it?...
Like I said before not like I hold any feelings against anyone for what they said because that would be stupid how does anyone here effect my life? The second I click off the site all is forgotten...I am not Danny G I will not sit around my comp looking for ways to get back at people...
I said how I felt about what was said nothing more nothing less....
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
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Originally Posted by
amat
Well I have been thinking since the news this morning what a great piece of journalism could be made out this. Seriously it doesn't show disconnect to want the story to be explained a bit more. Like it or not, in Venezuela this will be a story of a tragic hero who couldn't get past his own personal demons. A lot can be learned of stories like this, there's no reason why a movie, film, magazine ect. couldn't delve deeper into this without remaining sensitive to what happened.
So who would you pick to play Valero? I think if they wanted to make the audience have sympathy for Edwin Valero his wife needs to be played by Renee Zelwegger.
@Daxx mate, you made me lol at the 'you be exactly the same if you overheard someone at a supermarket. Just in case it happens, it wouldn't be a good idea to go up to total strangers and lambast them, please think first before you do it :D
I don't give a shit Bilbo....People talking shit and being fucking assholes I will tell them...
I have an arrest for beating up a guy who was smacking the shit out of his kid in the street and turned out to be an attorney for the city....
Not trying to act as though I am some savior or some tough guy for good because I certainly am not but certain things are just wrong and I can care less who it is or where I am I will address it
Well, I think we know who would play Daxx in a movie...
... he was a man pushed too far by violent attorneys and boxing forum posters...
...now he's getting even...
Charles Bronson is DAXX KAHN
http://downtownindieblog.files.wordp...on-posters.jpg
This time it's personal
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Not far off from murder? I haven't made any jokes about all this personally and don't plan to but I think murder is worse than tasteless jokes personally.
LOL
Mmmm... Murder Vs. Humor
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JazMerkin
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
So who would you pick to play Valero? I think if they wanted to make the audience have sympathy for Edwin Valero his wife needs to be played by Renee Zelwegger.
@Daxx mate, you made me lol at the 'you be exactly the same if you overheard someone at a supermarket. Just in case it happens, it wouldn't be a good idea to go up to total strangers and lambast them, please think first before you do it :D
I don't give a shit Bilbo....People talking shit and being fucking assholes I will tell them...
I have an arrest for beating up a guy who was smacking the shit out of his kid in the street and turned out to be an attorney for the city....
Not trying to act as though I am some savior or some tough guy for good because I certainly am not but certain things are just wrong and I can care less who it is or where I am I will address it
Well, I think we know who would play Daxx in a movie...
...
he was a man pushed too far by violent attorneys and boxing forum posters...
...now he's getting even...
Charles Bronson is DAXX KAHN
http://downtownindieblog.files.wordp...on-posters.jpg
This time it's personal
Jaz...Could we at least get someone born after 1940:-\
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OumaFan
I do laugh at people who fall down, just not old ladies. Somebody my age who falls down in the street = good times.
I don't think it's funny unless their is a failed effort to restore balance. Falling like a sack of potatoes isn't humourous.
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I can understand Daxx. I could wake up tomrrow and be angry about something that I laughed at yesterday.
The fact that Valero was able to walk around with that ridiculous haircut was a warning sign. I never cared for the runt. Plain and simple.
If this were a story about Mike Tyson I'd be offering many a lame excuse. I like the guy.
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I haven't seen any postings from anybody laughing about what happened.
I made a light hearted remark about the South American police finding him innocent, just a jibe directed at the Gatti investigation, but I don't see how that is really laughing at tragedy or making light of people's deaths.
But exlaiming in CAPITAL LETTERS THAT IF PEOPLE WHO MADE JOKES WERE IN FRONT OF YOU RIGHT NOW YOU WOULD CHOKE THEM kind of puts you closer to the Valero mindset than someone who makes a joke.
Anyway, if you think what has been said up to now is bad wait until you read X's upcoming thread.
And all this trying to make out some of you are morally better than others is just ridiculous. It's a fact of human nature that 99% of us would be more concered about our own slight headache, than about 50,000 people being killed in an earthquake at the same time on the other side of the world. That's just human nature, and yes, you will have been guilty of that too, unless you are permantly wailing in the streets and waving end of the world placards in front of people's noses.
I have only read through the first page or so of this thread and this is the one that stands out for me. This is a message board on the internet and people will say things to rub people the wrong way and sometimes be less considerate than they otherwise would in real life. This often involves exaggerated humour.
What happened with Valero and recent events concerning him are no doubt tragic and god awful, but to start a rant and in that rant include a segment in capital letters saying you would choke them is also way off and not in any way rational, considerate nor noble.
I haven't made any jokes about it, but if anyone does (as I'm sure X will) then so be it. If humans can do anything well, it is to laugh at the absurdity and ridiculousness of situations of all kinds. It isn't always tasteful, but so be it. If you don't like it, you will just have to lump it.
Sorry Daxx, but I think you are being overly sensitive going by your original posting. Chill before you do indeed choke someone. :-\
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ryanman
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Originally Posted by
JazMerkin
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Originally Posted by
Fenster
No, I think we agreed on that Jade Goody thread. I took offense at all the middle-class "educated" guys calling her low-life scum who didn't deserve her fortune.
At one time you definitely questioned my 6000 daily dead kids rant though.
If that was Miles, you've got it wrong. He's from 'da ghetto'.
Yeah he was a ' stone-cold playa' back in the day don't you know?
Haha, ;D
You cunts! :-X
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And I'm not having a go there, just saying that you can't get too worked up about things online. Some people will be insensitive or else have a different approach to a tragic situation. Not everyone will respond quite how you think they should. But that's life really.
And WTF is that picture Jazz? I would never wear those shades. :cool::p
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miles
And I'm not having a go there, just saying that you can't get too worked up about things online. Some people will be insensitive or else have a different approach to a tragic situation. Not everyone will respond quite how you think they should. But that's life really.
And WTF is that picture Jazz? I would never wear those shades. :cool::p
I was thinking they're one of your more conservative choices ;D
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Originally Posted by
killersheep
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OumaFan
Bilbo's so profound these days
It sounds like he's been reading the Dalai Lama
Maybe he's just been getting high a lot.
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Originally Posted by
miles
And I'm not having a go there, just saying that you can't get too worked up about things online. Some people will be insensitive or else have a different approach to a tragic situation. Not everyone will respond quite how you think they should. But that's life really.
And WTF is that picture Jazz? I would never wear those shades. :cool::p
Never?
Is this not you hocking a pair of Blue Blockers?
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2606/...205e106145.jpg
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Originally Posted by
miles
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
I haven't seen any postings from anybody laughing about what happened.
I made a light hearted remark about the South American police finding him innocent, just a jibe directed at the Gatti investigation, but I don't see how that is really laughing at tragedy or making light of people's deaths.
But exlaiming in CAPITAL LETTERS THAT IF PEOPLE WHO MADE JOKES WERE IN FRONT OF YOU RIGHT NOW YOU WOULD CHOKE THEM kind of puts you closer to the Valero mindset than someone who makes a joke.
Anyway, if you think what has been said up to now is bad wait until you read X's upcoming thread.
And all this trying to make out some of you are morally better than others is just ridiculous. It's a fact of human nature that 99% of us would be more concered about our own slight headache, than about 50,000 people being killed in an earthquake at the same time on the other side of the world. That's just human nature, and yes, you will have been guilty of that too, unless you are permantly wailing in the streets and waving end of the world placards in front of people's noses.
I have only read through the first page or so of this thread and this is the one that stands out for me. This is a message board on the internet and people will say things to rub people the wrong way and sometimes be less considerate than they otherwise would in real life. This often involves exaggerated humour.
What happened with Valero and recent events concerning him are no doubt tragic and god awful, but to start a rant and in that rant include a segment in capital letters saying you would choke them is also way off and not in any way rational, considerate nor noble.
I haven't made any jokes about it, but if anyone does (as I'm sure X will) then so be it. If humans can do anything well, it is to laugh at the absurdity and ridiculousness of situations of all kinds. It isn't always tasteful, but so be it. If you don't like it, you will just have to lump it.
Sorry Daxx, but I think you are being overly sensitive going by your original posting. Chill before you do indeed choke someone. :-\
Obviously the "CHOKING" comment was figuratively not literal
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
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Originally Posted by
miles
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
I haven't seen any postings from anybody laughing about what happened.
I made a light hearted remark about the South American police finding him innocent, just a jibe directed at the Gatti investigation, but I don't see how that is really laughing at tragedy or making light of people's deaths.
But exlaiming in CAPITAL LETTERS THAT IF PEOPLE WHO MADE JOKES WERE IN FRONT OF YOU RIGHT NOW YOU WOULD CHOKE THEM kind of puts you closer to the Valero mindset than someone who makes a joke.
Anyway, if you think what has been said up to now is bad wait until you read X's upcoming thread.
And all this trying to make out some of you are morally better than others is just ridiculous. It's a fact of human nature that 99% of us would be more concered about our own slight headache, than about 50,000 people being killed in an earthquake at the same time on the other side of the world. That's just human nature, and yes, you will have been guilty of that too, unless you are permantly wailing in the streets and waving end of the world placards in front of people's noses.
I have only read through the first page or so of this thread and this is the one that stands out for me. This is a message board on the internet and people will say things to rub people the wrong way and sometimes be less considerate than they otherwise would in real life. This often involves exaggerated humour.
What happened with Valero and recent events concerning him are no doubt tragic and god awful, but to start a rant and in that rant include a segment in capital letters saying you would choke them is also way off and not in any way rational, considerate nor noble.
I haven't made any jokes about it, but if anyone does (as I'm sure X will) then so be it. If humans can do anything well, it is to laugh at the absurdity and ridiculousness of situations of all kinds. It isn't always tasteful, but so be it. If you don't like it, you will just have to lump it.
Sorry Daxx, but I think you are being overly sensitive going by your original posting. Chill before you do indeed choke someone. :-\
Obviously the "CHOKING" comment was figuratively not literal
Your previous two convictions might suggest otherwise. :D
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Originally Posted by
Bilbo
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
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Originally Posted by
miles
I have only read through the first page or so of this thread and this is the one that stands out for me. This is a message board on the internet and people will say things to rub people the wrong way and sometimes be less considerate than they otherwise would in real life. This often involves exaggerated humour.
What happened with Valero and recent events concerning him are no doubt tragic and god awful, but to start a rant and in that rant include a segment in capital letters saying you would choke them is also way off and not in any way rational, considerate nor noble.
I haven't made any jokes about it, but if anyone does (as I'm sure X will) then so be it. If humans can do anything well, it is to laugh at the absurdity and ridiculousness of situations of all kinds. It isn't always tasteful, but so be it. If you don't like it, you will just have to lump it.
Sorry Daxx, but I think you are being overly sensitive going by your original posting. Chill before you do indeed choke someone. :-\
Obviously the "CHOKING" comment was figuratively not literal
Your previous two convictions might suggest otherwise. :D
But as you stated only SUGGEST ;D
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I've been off all day,not read thread but did he commit suicide ??
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Spicoli
I've been off all day,not read thread but did he commit suicide ??
He sure did...here is a yahoo link
Boxer Valero kills himself in jail, police say - Boxing - Yahoo! Sports
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Shite just saw thread yah.Damn.I've known 7 people over time that went like that.No one wins,least of all his kids left behind to struggle on without parents.I've always thought that one who ends their life at own hand effectivly ends the life of those they leave,in a way.Sad shit all around really.Dead is dead and it always cheats an innocent, no matter the circumstances!
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CFH
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killersheep
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Originally Posted by
OumaFan
Bilbo's so profound these days
It sounds like he's been reading the Dalai Lama
Maybe he's just been getting high a lot.
I heard Bilbo snorts meow as of lately, dont do beak no more.
Regarding Valero its sad for his wife, she's a Mother with 2 kids. And as for Valero he can rot in hell. Murdering is the lowest of the low, he wont be getting any sympathy from me. Whether he was drugged up or not when it happened. Apparently he has always been violent and his wife was "Always under the threat of death" from him. Fukking coward.
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Yeah this was a sad day in boxing and even worse for the family. I saw the posts that made jokes of the situation and ignored them because the people making the jokes obviously have no heart if they can make light of a tragic situation.
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Bilbo
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Snakey
Mate I live in a small town where recently someone I know was brutally murdered and they caught the guy. Everyone was hoping the cops would kill him in a struggle, I wasnt...i was hoping he was thrown into jail with everybody else so he could suffer!!! Im afraid I have no sympathy for murderers, I feel for Valeros family, kids and wifes family....I do not feel for Valero. Everybody has issues, his was alcohol and other bullshit and he decided to be a coward and take the easy way out. So in short no I dont think its good that he hung himself (shocked that it happened) but only coz he will not get punished the way he should of been.
I don't know that you can ever really judge a man. I mean I highly doubt he killed her with no remorse, or for fun. Clearly he was suffering some kind of major problems, and it seems like it was a spontaneous out of control act.
My best friend's dad killed his wife, stabbed her 49 times with a pair of scissors when she told him she was leaving and taking the kids away.
This was over 30 years ago. A tragic story, but guess what, his dad is a lovely guy. He just snapped and went literally crazy. He spent a couple years in a mental ward, and was then released and carried on caring for his son and daughter, even building a house himself.
Amazingly his mother and father in law forgave him. It was a shockingly violent and horrendous act, but he didn't have control over it, the stress caused him to snap.
A similar thing happened to a guy a couple years ago in the uk who grabbed both his kids and jumped out of a window, trying to kill himself. They died but he survived, and he has to live the rest of his life with that terrible, emotion driven 30 second split decision.
Clearly murder is bad and the ultimate wrong, and we all instinctively know that, but that doesn't mean that under certain situations all of us are not capable, in a split moment of doing something that will have consequences for ever.
We don't know why Valero did what he did, what was going through his mind, whether he was even of conscious mind. Now we will never know.
But I'm sure Edwin Valero knew murder was wrong and felt it instinctively as much as you do, which is probably why he killed himself.
Mate sorry my care for the person who conducts the murder goes straight out the window as soon as he commits that act. His mental state, his problems, his hard life...goes out the window coz at the end of the day how can I feel sorry for the person who took someones life away? Valero may of had issues that made this happen and he couldnt deal with them by himself then maybe he should of done the responsible thing and seek help else where, it aint like he lacked the money to do it. He would be in a better position to seek help than alot of other people in the world. Its too bad he didnt get what was coming to him jail but I guess at least the world now has one less phsyco, its too bad one innocent lady had to die. I feel very sorry for her family.
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Re: I am F**KING ashamed of some people here and their Valero comments!!!!
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
I have to say I really thought better of some people here due to the way they have posted over time...Seemed like decent people....(As decent of an opinion you can get of someone over the internet I guess)..
This whole Valero thing is a tragedy....First it is sad that a professional fighter killed his wife...A mother of children,,,the Daughter of 2 hard working people...A sister...
I mean MAN that is some tragic tragic shit....
There is NO excuse for what happened..NONE I mean Alcohol played a big part in this and possibly other things unknown to us..
There is no forgiving Valero for what he did...But to add to the tragedy this man hung himself...He obviously knew what he did was wrong...He obviously had remorse to the point he could not bear....
These kids have not only lost a Mother murdered by their Father but they will now have to live with the fact their Father committed suicide......
There is NOTHING GOOD ABOUT THIS AND NO JUSTICE CAME FROM VALEROS DEATH!!!! NO ONE IS RELIEVED IN HIS FAMILY I AM SURE OR HIS WIFES BY WHAT HE DID TO HIMSELF....
I mean shit regardless of what happened this man is ALSO someones son...Someones Father.....
I read shit on the other threads about...Hope he kills himself...Good he killed himself...
The we have ASSHOLES MAKING JOKES LIKE
"Valero murders next opponent, then chokes under pressure."
WHAT A FUCKING SCUMBAG!!!!!
YOU ARE AS BAD IF NOT WORSE THEN VALERO BECAUSE YOU FIND HUMOR IN THIS!!!! WHAT IS SO FUCKING FUNNY!!!!!! IF YOU WERE IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD CHOKE YOU!!!!!
I am not going to call anyoner out and mention their names on the LOW CLASS comments made by them...they know who they are and anyone can look for the post themselves if they are that curious but FUCK man..
I fail to see the humor in 2 people dead one murdered the other by their own hand leaving families to suffer the not only loss of them but the indignities of this being publicized world wide....
It is a sad sad day not for boxing but in general....
But that is FUNNY!!!!....It was Cool and tough to post shit like I hope he dies etc......
I hope this never happens to one of you FUCK HEADS...And if GOD FORBID you do have to endure some tragedy like this..BECAUSE I WOULD WISH THIS ON NO ONE!!!!!!! I hope you never have to read comments like these...hear comments like these or be publicly humiliated the way these people are right now....
AND IF the person was that bad to the point they deserve no sympathy not for what they did but just for being human beings..One who was obviously tormented by demons through addiction or maybe some sort of mental disability (we don't know) I would at least feel a bit of empathy for the families and not use this as a way to amuse myself or try to be the forum joker hoping for some rep for my scumbag of a joke!!!
This type of behavior is something reserved for child molesters and murderers or children
I feel bad for your families!!!
Although i havent made any jokes about this situation , you need to calm down before you get ulcers .
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all i feel sorry about are his two kids. now what is gonna happen to them? they are the real tragedy because they have to live thru all this knowing that their mom got killed by their dad and he hung himself after that. i guess all we could do here is pray for the Valero's children.
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couple of kids woke up yesterday to find they had no parents anymore
That is what should be the primary concern for everyone involved right now. Valero`s dead and he dies a viscious murderer who will never have any respect within the boxing world
RIP to the wife and hope to god she made peace
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Re: I am F**KING ashamed of some people here and their Valero comments!!!!
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Originally Posted by
DaxxKahn
I have to say I really thought better of some people here due to the way they have posted over time...Seemed like decent people....(As decent of an opinion you can get of someone over the internet I guess)..
This whole Valero thing is a tragedy....First it is sad that a professional fighter killed his wife...A mother of children,,,the Daughter of 2 hard working people...A sister...
I mean MAN that is some tragic tragic shit....
There is NO excuse for what happened..NONE I mean Alcohol played a big part in this and possibly other things unknown to us..
There is no forgiving Valero for what he did...But to add to the tragedy this man hung himself...He obviously knew what he did was wrong...He obviously had remorse to the point he could not bear....
These kids have not only lost a Mother murdered by their Father but they will now have to live with the fact their Father committed suicide......
There is NOTHING GOOD ABOUT THIS AND NO JUSTICE CAME FROM VALEROS DEATH!!!! NO ONE IS RELIEVED IN HIS FAMILY I AM SURE OR HIS WIFES BY WHAT HE DID TO HIMSELF....
I mean shit regardless of what happened this man is ALSO someones son...Someones Father.....
I read shit on the other threads about...Hope he kills himself...Good he killed himself...
The we have ASSHOLES MAKING JOKES LIKE
"Valero murders next opponent, then chokes under pressure."
WHAT A FUCKING SCUMBAG!!!!!
YOU ARE AS BAD IF NOT WORSE THEN VALERO BECAUSE YOU FIND HUMOR IN THIS!!!! WHAT IS SO FUCKING FUNNY!!!!!! IF YOU WERE IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD CHOKE YOU!!!!!
I am not going to call anyoner out and mention their names on the LOW CLASS comments made by them...they know who they are and anyone can look for the post themselves if they are that curious but FUCK man..
I fail to see the humor in 2 people dead one murdered the other by their own hand leaving families to suffer the not only loss of them but the indignities of this being publicized world wide....
It is a sad sad day not for boxing but in general....
But that is FUNNY!!!!....It was Cool and tough to post shit like I hope he dies etc......
I hope this never happens to one of you FUCK HEADS...And if GOD FORBID you do have to endure some tragedy like this..BECAUSE I WOULD WISH THIS ON NO ONE!!!!!!! I hope you never have to read comments like these...hear comments like these or be publicly humiliated the way these people are right now....
AND IF the person was that bad to the point they deserve no sympathy not for what they did but just for being human beings..One who was obviously tormented by demons through addiction or maybe some sort of mental disability (we don't know) I would at least feel a bit of empathy for the families and not use this as a way to amuse myself or try to be the forum joker hoping for some rep for my scumbag of a joke!!!
This type of behavior is something reserved for child molesters and murderers or children
I feel bad for your families!!!
Surely that would make you just as bad as....
http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture...0909/Irony.png
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The moment someone called someone else out on this, is the moment it all went wrong.
At the end of the day, strong opinions/ counter opinions will be made in such a messed up situation... Best to just leave certain people to it... (admittedly, I'm saying that in hind sight).
But yeah, just let it go. Let it out, whatever.
But please, lets not turn on one another :-\
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Bilbo
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OumaFan
Bilbo's so profound these days
Sitting alone in a hole in a ground, you have a lot of time to think.
And of course pontification is second only to masturbation as a worthwhile pursuit.
invite those fat chicks round ;D
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Everyone is entitled to thier own opinion and react to different things different ways....i can respect a guy who's an asshole and says it more than someone that hangs out with black people and listens to rap music during the day and attends klan meetings at night. (only example i can think of) to each thier own. This place would suck if we all thought the same. What some find funny ??!!! Others find tasteless.....and the world keeps spinning either way.
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better off dead than wasting tax payers cash for however many years, great boxer, really exciting but obviously a fucking moron scumbag unfortunetly, so if someone wants to take the piss out of him- fine by me. In fact take the piss out of anyone! Martin Luther king, muslims, christians, jews, a joke is a joke why do people get so offended?
Im white and i laugh at black jokes, i also laugh at white jokes THEY ARE ALL FUNNY, you arnt scum if you laugh, nor are you racist, etcetc
free speech! Say what the fuck you want, which is why Daxx should be perfectly allowed to rant his rant about people, and the people who he is ranting about should keep being allowed to make jokes!;D
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oakleyno1
better off dead than wasting tax payers cash for however many years, great boxer, really exciting but obviously a fucking moron scumbag unfortunetly, so if someone wants to take the piss out of him- fine by me. In fact take the piss out of anyone! Martin Luther king, muslims, christians, jews, a joke is a joke why do people get so offended?
Im white and i laugh at black jokes, i also laugh at white jokes THEY ARE ALL FUNNY, you arnt scum if you laugh, nor are you racist, etcetc
free speech! Say what the fuck you want, which is why Daxx should be perfectly allowed to rant his rant about people, and the people who he is ranting about should keep being allowed to make jokes!;D
Well said....I always find it funny how people can be rude, obnoxious, or just plain out asses but the second it is brought back or someone decides they did not like what they heard about their antics or in this case post then it is..
Chill out..
Dude you should not say that...
Your just too uptight...
Hell I may be crazy for thinking the things I said..Maybe it is right to joke about a young woman murdered leaving motherless children.... .But either way each to his own opp.....
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R.I.P. JENNIFER.
That's all that matters. My prayers sincerely for her. I just hate it when some posters here try to justify your death from the hands of a guy even if he's mentally unstable, high on drugs or whatever. That specific poster who is a pathetic woman hater as wellknows who he is. Well I'm not saying I'm respectful to women,i made some stupid post about them one time but this clearly ain't shit to poke fun with or to put some charlie manson hatred with. A poster here clearly got in to my nerve by making those shitty posts. A woman was brutally murdered here and lost a life, lost a chance to be with her love ones for God's sake. I hope that fucking poster knows that and understands the shit he's saying in this forums.