Snakeys 1yr relationship ended and now hes gutted!

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Originally Posted by snakey

Yeah possibly her friends are taking advantage of her being in a bad state of mind and i reckon when she came to them for advice they voted against me (she got new friends and i didnt like them). And her parents could of told her that she was spending too much time with me.

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nEW FRIENDS ARE A BAD OMEN IN A GIRLS LIFE. iT MEANS SHE'S WILLINGLY SEEKING CHANGE...bE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU APPROACH HER, YOU MAY FIND HER IN A STATE WHERE SHE'S CHANGING AND IN COURSE MAY TURN ON YOU COMPLETELY IF YOU FORCE THE ISSUE.

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Originally Posted by hitmandonny

nEW FRIENDS ARE A BAD OMEN IN A GIRLS LIFE. iT MEANS SHE'S WILLINGLY SEEKING CHANGE...bE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU APPROACH HER, YOU MAY FIND HER IN A STATE WHERE SHE'S CHANGING AND IN COURSE MAY TURN ON YOU COMPLETELY IF YOU FORCE THE ISSUE.

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Well she only got new friends coz the other ones left school and some moved away. But i knew at some point last year her parents told her she needed to stop seeing me as much so she could study. They are pretty strict parents and shes a good girl so she doesnt like pissing them off.

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Originally Posted by snakey

Well she only got new friends coz the other ones left school and some moved away. But i knew at some point last year her parents told her she needed to stop seeing me as much so she could study. They are pretty strict parents and shes a good girl so she doesnt like pissing them off.

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Yeah I get the picture. Do you know her parents?
If so, running into them by accident would give a clear indication of their attitude toward you. If you live in a close proximity that is.

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Originally Posted by hitmandonny

Yeah I get the picture. Do you know her parents?
If so, running into them by accident would give a clear indication of their attitude toward you. If you live in a close proximity that is.

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Well shes lives around the corner from me...well actually across the road (which is why its so fuckin hard). Her mum is waving to me when she sees me but ive always had the impression like she acts nice to me but turns on me when im not around. And her dad, i got along with but he could be a real dick plus my dad has known him for ages and theyve had their differences. I wouldnt be surprised if hes said to her "hes just like his fuckin father, he will do this etc etc". My dads a bricklayer and her dads a builder so they dont get along alot of times.

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Originally Posted by snakey

Well shes lives around the corner from me...well actually across the road (which is why its so fuckin hard). Her mum is waving to me when she sees me but ive always had the impression like she acts nice to me but turns on me when im not around. And her dad, i got along with but he could be a real dick plus my dad has known him for ages and theyve had their differences. I wouldnt be surprised if hes said to her "hes just like his fuckin father, he will do this etc etc". My dads a bricklayer and her dads a builder so they dont get along alot of times.

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I get you man, I understand completely.
I can't understand how tough that must be on you living close together though, that would be torture.

Perhaps, you should allow yourself to be seen out and about a lot, if she's unhappy and her parents recognise that annd they're reminded of your presence and how happy it made her, then perhaps they may speak to her.

Do you think she's unhappy now?

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Originally Posted by hitmandonny

I get you man, I understand completely.
I can't understand how tough that must be on you living close together though, that would be torture.

Perhaps, you should allow yourself to be seen out and about a lot, if she's unhappy and her parents recognise that annd they're reminded of your presence and how happy it made her, then perhaps they may speak to her.

Do you think she's unhappy now?

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Yeah well mate i noticed she still drives past my house and i reckon 90% of the time she would be looking for my car and it aint there coz im always at a mates house at the moment. Yeah well mate, if i get a chance i will talk to her mum if i see her down the street or something. Ill ask how my ex is and im hoping she will say something that might help me.

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Originally Posted by snakey

Hi guys needed to vent. Been going out with this great girl for over a yr and everything seemed to be fine until a couple of weeks ago. We had a couple of arguments and she tried to break up with me but reconsidered. Then today she dropped the bomb after a little argument...over the phone :( Snakey is now absolutely gutted, feels like i just when 50 rounds with a prime tyson. I loved her...i still do and she couldnt tell me very convincingly that she didnt love me.

Now guys cheer me up and give me advice on how to get her back coz i dont believe the shit she told me coz it sounded like a lie.

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Trying sleeping with her sister or her cousin. You'll feel better afterwards. Fuck her!

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Originally Posted by snakey

Yeah well mate i noticed she still drives past my house and i reckon 90% of the time she would be looking for my car and it aint there coz im always at a mates house at the moment. Yeah well mate, if i get a chance i will talk to her mum if i see her down the street or something. Ill ask how my ex is and im hoping she will say something that might help me.

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Cool man, don't hang on that result though, perhaps as insurance look beyond this situation and see the future, ways you could be happy without her.

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Originally Posted by Violent Demise

Trying sleeping with her sister or her cousin. You'll feel better afterwards. Fuck her!

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In truth VD has a point, It sounds bad, but when a girl miostreats you, revenge is sweet.

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Originally Posted by Julius Rain

just go out find any chic that you can bang. even fat chicks just bang them and while your doing so. think of that girl you just lost and bang that wet puss harder and scream at it how much you hate her guts. hold down that chick that your bangings arm, widen her legs with your thighs and keep pounding. Tell her all your frustration tell her everything while pounding that poor innecent fat chick, just let it all out of you stomach while banging a random fat chick. Ofcourse that random fat chick won't know what the hell your talking about but don't worry she'll be too busy moaning and dripping wet to even pay attention to what your talking about as long as you sound dominant and angry while pounding her she'll just keep enjoying being ram'd.

It works for me ;)

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Dont you have to dress up like an Arab , Afgan or Paki musilum for that type of sex?

I called her today and i think im fucked. We are going to talk on monday, face to face. But i asked her if there was any chance of us getting back together and she said she didnt know. I asked whether she really meant it last week when she said she didnt love me. She said she wasnt sure, she said she think so but doesnt know. And i asked her how she was going and she said really well. She said that shes going to think about getting back together.






So come monday im fucked, basically im just turning up to find out what went wrong and that she doesnt want me back.

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Originally Posted by snakey

I called her today and i think im fucked. We are going to talk on monday, face to face. But i asked her if there was any chance of us getting back together and she said she didnt know. I asked whether she really meant it last week when she said she didnt love me. She said she wasnt sure, she said she think so but doesnt know. And i asked her how she was going and she said really well. She said that shes going to think about getting back together.






So come monday im fucked, basically im just turning up to find out what went wrong and that she doesnt want me back.

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You shouldnt have called DAMMIT:mad: you did not give yourself ample time to pull it together.. You probably sounded shaky and desperate and gave her the upper hand. You should have waited till got you shit together and composed yourself so that you can talk to her and make a last ditch mature ADULT effort to reason with her and plead your case.

The few weeks would have helped you master your emotions better so you would appear like you were going on with your life just fine(huge psychological advantage)

Dude, no matter what be strong from here on in, we're here buddy

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Originally Posted by snakey

Yeah well mate i noticed she still drives past my house and i reckon 90% of the time she would be looking for my car and it aint there coz im always at a mates house at the moment. Yeah well mate, if i get a chance i will talk to her mum if i see her down the street or something. Ill ask how my ex is and im hoping she will say something that might help me.

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If she's driving by your house in that manner then that's a good sign that she still loves you. DON'T GIVE UP JUST YET!!!

oR KIDNAP HER?








No No No....don't do that actually, then you have to keep her somewhere...

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Originally Posted by hitmandonny

oR KIDNAP HER?








No No No....don't do that actually, then you have to keep her somewhere...

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Actually, if Snakey was to act like he had found someone else, or actually DID find someone else, she would probably want him back.

It's weird how when you don't want anything to do with someone as long as they still want something to do with you, but when they actually find someone else and don't need you anymore, it makes it much harder to get over them. :-\