Dames are crazy....

No info has come to light that makes me think that her "ex" boyfriend is very newly "exed" and in my EXperience (pardon the pun) broads always, ALWAYS put the "ex" in the front of the line. No matter what he's done to her or how he's acted or what, its just something in the female brain that #1 Makes them think they can change a man and #2 makes them think that relationship is worth saving.

I've not confronted her with my theory, and I won't go off half cocked. I've got to be in a calm state of mind and be reasonable and rational when thinking this out.

....Looking more and more forward to trying out blondie though ;D (another thing that isn't factoring in my final decision).

can't switch feelings off and on and everyone gets over things in their own time.

I've had guys say and do things that an ex has done and yes it can jarr and may you question if things are going down the same path.

Again - you have a theory, if you're not that fussed about her since you're talking about boning blondie stop wasting this one's time. She may be confused about this shit just as much as you are :rolleyes:

Sort it out.

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can't switch feelings off and on and everyone gets over things in their own time.

I've had guys say and do things that an ex has done and yes it can jarr and may you question if things are going down the same path.

Again - you have a theory, if you're not that fussed about her since you're talking about boning blondie stop wasting this one's time. She may be confused about this shit just as much as you are :rolleyes:

Sort it out.

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If the relationship was 100% as she said then she should have 0 problem leaving and turning her emotions off on that guy. And if she's not ready to then I will be going elsewhere because its not fair to either her or myself.

I'm "not fussed" about her yet, because a strong emotional attachment hasn't been made yet and also in part I do admit, because I'm not going to play the sap again.

Missy perhaps you're confused at the fact I am reasoning out a response rather than just reacting. I'm gathering information, I'm reading signs, and well I'm trying to be as perceptive as possible. The reason I haven't confronted her or dumped her are simply, I could actually be wrong. So I say nothing and continue to gather information for the general common benefit of the relationship.

Best thing is to be just straight up and ask them what you're thinking, and say what your intent is and talk about a couple of what if situations etc. No secret agendas no future blame or pain.

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Best thing is to be just straight up and ask them what you're thinking, and say what your intent is and talk about a couple of what if situations etc. No secret agendas no future blame or pain.

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...If only it were that easy Andre.

I've found myself actually trying to get angry and use it as a vehicle to get over someone. Unhealthy. Some womem are like newly clean windows, they don't have to be open to see right through.

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I've found myself actually trying to get angry and use it as a vehicle to get over someone. Unhealthy. Some womem are like newly clean windows, they don't have to be open to see right through.

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by that reasoning men and women could never be friends because you're all a bit rapey.

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Best thing is to be just straight up and ask them what you're thinking, and say what your intent is and talk about a couple of what if situations etc. No secret agendas no future blame or pain.

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Andre, don't be so silly and grown up:rolleyes::cool:

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can't switch feelings off and on and everyone gets over things in their own time.

I've had guys say and do things that an ex has done and yes it can jarr and may you question if things are going down the same path.

Again - you have a theory, if you're not that fussed about her since you're talking about boning blondie stop wasting this one's time. She may be confused about this shit just as much as you are :rolleyes:

Sort it out.

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If the relationship was 100% as she said then she should have 0 problem leaving and turning her emotions off on that guy. And if she's not ready to then I will be going elsewhere because its not fair to either her or myself.

I'm "not fussed" about her yet, because a strong emotional attachment hasn't been made yet and also in part I do admit, because I'm not going to play the sap again.

Missy perhaps you're confused at the fact I am reasoning out a response rather than just reacting. I'm gathering information, I'm reading signs, and well I'm trying to be as perceptive as possible. The reason I haven't confronted her or dumped her are simply, I could actually be wrong. So I say nothing and continue to gather information for the general common benefit of the relationship.

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admitting you have feelings for this dame does not make you a sap, it makes you human.
It also makes it sound like you have your own baggage do deal with? Yes?

I also give free hugs.

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I've found myself actually trying to get angry and use it as a vehicle to get over someone. Unhealthy. Some womem are like newly clean windows, they don't have to be open to see right through.

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by that reasoning men and women could never be friends because you're all a bit rapey.

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Your right. And I believe that's the thing I'm so damn stubborn about with this one. Excepting right now we're stationary as friends after the intensity and everything imaginable of a short while ago. A fool clinging to one way hope now, then & now haha. Long story.

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Originally Posted by Howlin Mad Missy

can't switch feelings off and on and everyone gets over things in their own time.

I've had guys say and do things that an ex has done and yes it can jarr and may you question if things are going down the same path.

Again - you have a theory, if you're not that fussed about her since you're talking about boning blondie stop wasting this one's time. She may be confused about this shit just as much as you are :rolleyes:

Sort it out.

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If the relationship was 100% as she said then she should have 0 problem leaving and turning her emotions off on that guy. And if she's not ready to then I will be going elsewhere because its not fair to either her or myself.

I'm "not fussed" about her yet, because a strong emotional attachment hasn't been made yet and also in part I do admit, because I'm not going to play the sap again.

Missy perhaps you're confused at the fact I am reasoning out a response rather than just reacting. I'm gathering information, I'm reading signs, and well I'm trying to be as perceptive as possible. The reason I haven't confronted her or dumped her are simply, I could actually be wrong. So I say nothing and continue to gather information for the general common benefit of the relationship.

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admitting you have feelings for this dame does not make you a sap, it makes you human.
It also makes it sound like you have your own baggage do deal with? Yes?

I also give free hugs.

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Missy...there's no reason to worry. Its not as if this is an established relationship, its just starting out you just don't jump into those all willy nilly...that's crazy, you've got to ease into it.

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Pms

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Pricky man syndrome?

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Try, Psychotic Mood Shift

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Pms

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Pricky man syndrome?

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Try, Psychotic Mood Shift

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sounds like miles after a few shandys.;D

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Lyle you should really give us a humorous story so that we may help/laugh at you.

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OK well I give her multiple orgasms and while I'm working on the last one for her she kind of "dead fish's" and I ask if everything is ok, she asks for a break, I'm like "Yeah, ok, that's cool" and she proceeds to get dressed and leave and then later says she's depressed and has trouble dealing with "things".

HAHAHA....oooooh that's funny :vd:

Let's get this straight, I've got no huge emotional investment in this. I'm in this just for the ride, if I end up falling for her then that's my problem, but that type of shit irks me man. I did MORE than my fair share and she gets all sketchy about it. I honestly wouldn't bother posting it on the forum (risking humiliation from you dopes bar what truly happened) had it not been quite odd.

I'm a gentleman, I don't brag or boast or what have you, this is just odd to me, never dealt with something like this. Any insight for me booze?

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I fail to see the problem

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Originally Posted by boozeboxer

Lyle you should really give us a humorous story so that we may help/laugh at you.

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OK well I give her multiple orgasms and while I'm working on the last one for her she kind of "dead fish's" and I ask if everything is ok, she asks for a break, I'm like "Yeah, ok, that's cool" and she proceeds to get dressed and leave and then later says she's depressed and has trouble dealing with "things".

HAHAHA....oooooh that's funny :vd:

Let's get this straight, I've got no huge emotional investment in this. I'm in this just for the ride, if I end up falling for her then that's my problem, but that type of shit irks me man. I did MORE than my fair share and she gets all sketchy about it. I honestly wouldn't bother posting it on the forum (risking humiliation from you dopes bar what truly happened) had it not been quite odd.

I'm a gentleman, I don't brag or boast or what have you, this is just odd to me, never dealt with something like this. Any insight for me booze?

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I fail to see the problem

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Well #1 I wasn't finished and #2 I'm a gentleman and not a heartless man-slut