Dames are crazy....

[Howlin Mad Missy]

can't switch feelings off and on and everyone gets over things in their own time.

I've had guys say and do things that an ex has done and yes it can jarr and may you question if things are going down the same path.

Again - you have a theory, if you're not that fussed about her since you're talking about boning blondie stop wasting this one's time. She may be confused about this shit just as much as you are

Sort it out.

If the relationship was 100% as she said then she should have 0 problem leaving and turning her emotions off on that guy. And if she's not ready to then I will be going elsewhere because its not fair to either her or myself.

I'm "not fussed" about her yet, because a strong emotional attachment hasn't been made yet and also in part I do admit, because I'm not going to play the sap again.

Missy perhaps you're confused at the fact I am reasoning out a response rather than just reacting. I'm gathering information, I'm reading signs, and well I'm trying to be as perceptive as possible. The reason I haven't confronted her or dumped her are simply, I could actually be wrong. So I say nothing and continue to gather information for the general common benefit of the relationship.

admitting you have feelings for this dame does not make you a sap, it makes you human.
It also makes it sound like you have your own baggage do deal with? Yes?

I also give free hugs.