I've been to 5 African countries: trust me, they're shitholes

Beans I don't see anything wrong with letting me near your family. You just told me that I would not say it to their faces. But now you have retracted that statement and replaced it with an even sillier one. I'm just waiting for an even sillier one from you after that I know you can outdo yourself beans I just know it

In terms of my own situation I see two parents that were completely incompatible from the start. A prime example of two people that collectively managed to cause a lot of trauma all because they failed to consider the impact that their own behavior would have on children. If anything my understanding of that situation only confirms my belief that people without means or any decent reason to be having children should not be having them. It is selfish and inconsiderate not just on the kids but the state who ends up having to subsidize the lifestyle. My own beliefs are that everything should be done to minimise any of that ever happening.

I am cool with people having children who are genuinely devoted to one another and children who are raised with security, love and confidence. However, we all know that this is becoming less and less common and that to me is a tragedy. To have 6 kids and have them trying to escape to welfare states. That is an absolute disaster and it makes me angry. How dare those women and yes, how dare those men do that! It boggles my mind and instead of saying 'How about we stop this nonsense!' you have lefties saying it is me who is selfish. I am not selfish. I consider my impact to the extreme. I don't demand that people be like me. I do demand that nobody have children unless they have thought about it properly and will never abandon them or put them through things that never needed to happen.

The notion that it is an accident is all too true, but not a good enough excuse. That is why as an adult I have consciously rejected the path my parents took and refuse to ever countenance the possibilities of 'a mistake'. A child should never be a mistake! It is the most serious thing you can ever do in life. To bring a life into this world. A being who has no say in the laws, the methods of parenting, the trauma that will inevitably result from poverty, constant moving, the lack of father figures etc. To pass it off as an accident is just wrong. It isn't difficult to avoid accidents.

In the sense that women seem to be attracted to men who won't respect them. That to me is problematic and their fault. Not all men are scallywags, but many are and a woman typically has the say in who she dates. If you take the time to court someone, to build a relationship, over time you know who they are. If you get pregnant in a month, well that is terrible judgement.

I agree with Miles 100% that the woman has far more responsibility as it is she who has to carry the child for 9 months and then nurse the child and most likely raise the child so therefore it is she who has four more responsibility to her own self.

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I agree with Miles 100% that the woman has far more responsibility as it is she who has to carry the child for 9 months and then nurse the child and most likely raise the child so therefore it is she who has four more responsibility to her own self.

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It takes two to tango.

That's true, Al. Brock makes a good point there though. Technically a man could have a one night stand and never see the woman again. She would be left with a baby and it would hardly be the ideal situation for that baby. In that sense she needs to be more wary and understand that it isn't just a bit of fun. She will have to be pregnant for a long time and be left with a child to raise. Surely she should be more sensible and be responsible for her body. In the olden days you would be more careful about all of this as there was no welfare state, but today there are no consequences for reckless behavior.

It's not about blaming the victim as someone who does one night stands is not really a victim. If I knew a one night stand would result in something growing in me for nigh on a year I would avoid them completely or at least go on the pill or demand that Mr Romeo wear a cap.

Miles on the contrary women in the United States get paid $440 per month for each child if they are single moms. If you go to the ghetto areas where I used to live like East Orange New Jersey for example or Paterson New Jersey or in Jersey City you have single moms there with four kids from two or three different fathers and she is collecting $440 per month per kid so technically 1800 US dollars per month from the for kids that more than pays her discounted public housing known as Section 8 housing plus she will get food stamps as well so basically it covers the rent the utilities the food and the transportation.

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It's not about blaming the victim as someone who does one night stands is not really a victim. If I knew a one night stand would result in something growing in me for nigh on a year I would avoid them completely or at least go on the pill or demand that Mr Romeo wear a cap.

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You are cheating on walrus with Mr Romeo? You cad!

Miles is 100% correct. Miles has completely dominated this point and hands down using pure logic and Common Sense and human decency and dignity he has completely exposed the ugliness of people who just continue to have children with no foresight and no intelligence and no preparedness

Luton is pretty bad and so is the Bronx. Both shitholes

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In terms of my own situation I see two parents that were completely incompatible from the start. A prime example of two people that collectively managed to cause a lot of trauma all because they failed to consider the impact that their own behavior would have on children. If anything my understanding of that situation only confirms my belief that people without means or any decent reason to be having children should not be having them. It is selfish and inconsiderate not just on the kids but the state who ends up having to subsidize the lifestyle. My own beliefs are that everything should be done to minimise any of that ever happening.

I am cool with people having children who are genuinely devoted to one another and children who are raised with security, love and confidence. However, we all know that this is becoming less and less common and that to me is a tragedy. To have 6 kids and have them trying to escape to welfare states. That is an absolute disaster and it makes me angry. How dare those women and yes, how dare those men do that! It boggles my mind and instead of saying 'How about we stop this nonsense!' you have lefties saying it is me who is selfish. I am not selfish. I consider my impact to the extreme. I don't demand that people be like me. I do demand that nobody have children unless they have thought about it properly and will never abandon them or put them through things that never needed to happen.

The notion that it is an accident is all too true, but not a good enough excuse. That is why as an adult I have consciously rejected the path my parents took and refuse to ever countenance the possibilities of 'a mistake'. A child should never be a mistake! It is the most serious thing you can ever do in life. To bring a life into this world. A being who has no say in the laws, the methods of parenting, the trauma that will inevitably result from poverty, constant moving, the lack of father figures etc. To pass it off as an accident is just wrong. It isn't difficult to avoid accidents.

In the sense that women seem to be attracted to men who won't respect them. That to me is problematic and their fault. Not all men are scallywags, but many are and a woman typically has the say in who she dates. If you take the time to court someone, to build a relationship, over time you know who they are. If you get pregnant in a month, well that is terrible judgement.

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Is this an argument for your own nonexistent existence

On the night of miles' @Gandalf departure from the United Kingdom which he is being hit with mixed emotions and mixed feelings after having not been for so long and he has really just tucked into some nice cozy newspapers and playing snooker and even went to the corner store few times even though the lady looked at him like he was an alien and even though he tried to speak Korean to a few Koreans who probably are British at this point he is about to head back for that Korean New Year's and he has to get up at 2 a.m. to cook some mooncakes and s*** like your wife has to cook @walrus

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In terms of my own situation I see two parents that were completely incompatible from the start. A prime example of two people that collectively managed to cause a lot of trauma all because they failed to consider the impact that their own behavior would have on children. If anything my understanding of that situation only confirms my belief that people without means or any decent reason to be having children should not be having them. It is selfish and inconsiderate not just on the kids but the state who ends up having to subsidize the lifestyle. My own beliefs are that everything should be done to minimise any of that ever happening.

I am cool with people having children who are genuinely devoted to one another and children who are raised with security, love and confidence. However, we all know that this is becoming less and less common and that to me is a tragedy. To have 6 kids and have them trying to escape to welfare states. That is an absolute disaster and it makes me angry. How dare those women and yes, how dare those men do that! It boggles my mind and instead of saying 'How about we stop this nonsense!' you have lefties saying it is me who is selfish. I am not selfish. I consider my impact to the extreme. I don't demand that people be like me. I do demand that nobody have children unless they have thought about it properly and will never abandon them or put them through things that never needed to happen.

The notion that it is an accident is all too true, but not a good enough excuse. That is why as an adult I have consciously rejected the path my parents took and refuse to ever countenance the possibilities of 'a mistake'. A child should never be a mistake! It is the most serious thing you can ever do in life. To bring a life into this world. A being who has no say in the laws, the methods of parenting, the trauma that will inevitably result from poverty, constant moving, the lack of father figures etc. To pass it off as an accident is just wrong. It isn't difficult to avoid accidents.

In the sense that women seem to be attracted to men who won't respect them. That to me is problematic and their fault. Not all men are scallywags, but many are and a woman typically has the say in who she dates. If you take the time to court someone, to build a relationship, over time you know who they are. If you get pregnant in a month, well that is terrible judgement.

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Is this an argument for your own nonexistent existence

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Oh absolutely. We are all nothing pretending to be something only to return to nothing. Gotta get over it.

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In terms of my own situation I see two parents that were completely incompatible from the start. A prime example of two people that collectively managed to cause a lot of trauma all because they failed to consider the impact that their own behavior would have on children. If anything my understanding of that situation only confirms my belief that people without means or any decent reason to be having children should not be having them. It is selfish and inconsiderate not just on the kids but the state who ends up having to subsidize the lifestyle. My own beliefs are that everything should be done to minimise any of that ever happening.

I am cool with people having children who are genuinely devoted to one another and children who are raised with security, love and confidence. However, we all know that this is becoming less and less common and that to me is a tragedy. To have 6 kids and have them trying to escape to welfare states. That is an absolute disaster and it makes me angry. How dare those women and yes, how dare those men do that! It boggles my mind and instead of saying 'How about we stop this nonsense!' you have lefties saying it is me who is selfish. I am not selfish. I consider my impact to the extreme. I don't demand that people be like me. I do demand that nobody have children unless they have thought about it properly and will never abandon them or put them through things that never needed to happen.

The notion that it is an accident is all too true, but not a good enough excuse. That is why as an adult I have consciously rejected the path my parents took and refuse to ever countenance the possibilities of 'a mistake'. A child should never be a mistake! It is the most serious thing you can ever do in life. To bring a life into this world. A being who has no say in the laws, the methods of parenting, the trauma that will inevitably result from poverty, constant moving, the lack of father figures etc. To pass it off as an accident is just wrong. It isn't difficult to avoid accidents.

In the sense that women seem to be attracted to men who won't respect them. That to me is problematic and their fault. Not all men are scallywags, but many are and a woman typically has the say in who she dates. If you take the time to court someone, to build a relationship, over time you know who they are. If you get pregnant in a month, well that is terrible judgement.

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Is this an argument for your own nonexistent existence

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Oh absolutely. We are all nothing pretending to be something only to return to nothing. Gotta get over it.

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assuredly I say unto you, u lack faith and are empty my good man

Just like I don't like religious fanatic thinking I also don't like thinking that one should be 100% sure that there is no God.