Has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

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Originally Posted by miles

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

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So you're dating a bird who is begging you for sex.....this pissed you off.

Clearly everyone on here will have reacted exactly as you did.

Obviously Bilbo is quite obsessed with me too, but believe it or not, he has never asked me for sex. So, I'm kind of okay with him.

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So you're dating a bird who is begging you for sex.....this pissed you off.

Clearly everyone on here will have reacted exactly as you did.

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Well, not now. But a long time ago, I have been compiling notes in an autobiographical way and so I thought I would start this topic as I thought it was kind of funny.

It really did piss me off because she was quite mental. I mean she liked me in a way that was freaky. I seem to attract all the weird women and this was no exception. The cut wrists and the talk of a former boyfriend that met someone from Japan etc. Just too much for a 23 year old which is what I was. I couldn't just sleep with her or help her practice sex. I had to escape and to be fair I was quite lucky in those days, so didn't need that kind of baggage.

But apparently after getting rid of her she shagged some other English guy who people said was my doppelganger, so good for her. But he told me she was weird too and wouldn't meet her again.

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i think my worst example of this was years ago when i was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but i realised she was a bit weird

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pot.........kettle.....black.........!!!!!!!!!!!!! !

I think the "bordering on self-parody" factor was a little strong with this one.

Closet bender, etc (is it bender?). Poof, etc.

uphill gardener, council gritter.

Seriously, stop drinking Miles.

People get obsessed with me all the time and it is frustrating really, but on the whole I always hold the moral ground and don't let the stalkers take over me. But those women and Bilbo can be tough.

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People get obsessed with me all the time and it is frustrating really, but on the whole I always hold the moral ground and don't let the stalkers take over me. But those women and Bilbo can be tough.

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I heard Koreans were obsessed with white people, especially white males. You must be a pussy magnet over there.:D

for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.:-X:mad:

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for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.:-X:mad:

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Hello again Missy. Finally found you! Its like you're are ignoring me! Whats this thread about?
:boobs2::peepingtom:

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for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.:-X:mad:

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Hello again Missy. Finally found you! Its like you're are ignoring me! Whats this thread about?
:boobs2::peepingtom:

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Argh. God damnit. Every where I go!

They fall like dominoes, dominoes....

At least she wasn't Jewish eh miles ;D


Yeah its a right of passage as a man to have at least one fatal attraction.

A chick who I took out a few times,felt close to, but took it real slow,didnt even kiss her, not even once, named her son after me after she had a one nighter over seas with some German dude a year later. Close escape.

I'm more likely to get the obsessio. I didn't think it was that unusual but my brother told me that buying photographs online of girls you fancy and listening at the walls to hear my sexy new neighbours is not normal behaviour.

He even thinks facebook and google searches for pics of girls I've met and want to ogle over is weird too. Apparently it makes me like Robin Williams in One Hour Photo but I think all guys are the same.

If I meet a girl who is hot I instincitvely want to find out about her and ideally see her photographed in revealing outfits and compromising situations. Now thanks to the internet, I can.

if I'm weird because of this then I ask you all, why do you think social networking sites exist? We all do it.

As to Miles not being impressed with a fellow cutter I'm assuming it's because her scars were pathetic and gave the impression of being a typically teenage plea for attention, rather than the assertive arm slashes of an alcohol fuelled, intellectual maverick's manly display of embittered emotion towards his unreasonable and irritating wife.

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A chick who I took out a few times,felt close to, but took it real slow,didnt even kiss her, not even once, named her son after me after she had a one nighter over seas with some German dude a year later. Close escape.

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So you say to the better half.


DNA tells all.... ;D

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A chick who I took out a few times,felt close to, but took it real slow,didnt even kiss her, not even once, named her son after me after she had a one nighter over seas with some German dude a year later. Close escape.

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So you say to the better half.


DNA tells all.... ;D

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Said in Italian.... "I DIDNTA TOUCHHER"!!!

One of my favourite films is Vertigo and that is about obsession too. I have only been properly stalked the one time and that was what I documented in my OP. It was a very interesting period in my life. Much more interesting than now.

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As to Miles not being impressed with a fellow cutter I'm assuming it's because her scars were pathetic and gave the impression of being a typically teenage plea for attention, rather than the assertive arm slashes of an alcohol fuelled, intellectual maverick's manly display of embittered emotion towards his unreasonable and irritating wife.

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Absolutely. Plus that was when I was young and quite normal myself. I just wanted a bit of fun with no ties. Harping on about a suicide attempt is no way to seduce a man.

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Originally Posted by Fenster

So you're dating a bird who is begging you for sex.....this pissed you off.

Clearly everyone on here will have reacted exactly as you did.

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Well, not now. But a long time ago, I have been compiling notes in an autobiographical way and so I thought I would start this topic as I thought it was kind of funny.

It really did piss me off because she was quite mental. I mean she liked me in a way that was freaky. I seem to attract all the weird women and this was no exception. The cut wrists and the talk of a former boyfriend that met someone from Japan etc. Just too much for a 23 year old which is what I was. I couldn't just sleep with her or help her practice sex. I had to escape and to be fair I was quite lucky in those days, so didn't need that kind of baggage.

But apparently after getting rid of her she shagged some other English guy who people said was my doppelganger, so good for her. But he told me she was weird too and wouldn't meet her again.

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A Miles autobiography. Can't wait for that. ;D

I've never bothered with a diary as I am just too lazy, but periodically I do reflect and think and make notes on things. It hasn't been the most exciting life, but it has always had interesting moments. I have ideas for 3 different books documenting key parts of my life. My only problem is finding the will to sit down and do it in the way that it needs. I always argue that Burroughs didn't write Junkie until his mid 30's so I've still time to find my motivation. The stalking thing would only be a minor part of one novel.

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I've never bothered with a diary as I am just too lazy, but periodically I do reflect and think and make notes on things. It hasn't been the most exciting life, but it has always had interesting moments. I have ideas for 3 different books documenting key parts of my life. My only problem is finding the will to sit down and do it in the way that it needs. I always argue that Burroughs didn't write Junkie until his mid 30's so I've still time to find my motivation. The stalking thing would only be a minor part of one novel.

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I think "Putting The Dog To Sleep" is the ideal title for the first chapter covering your difficult childhood period. Then "One, potata, two potata" could be the title for the story of your early musical education. Some other chapter names would include "Landing in Lilliput", the tale of your emigration to Korea, and of course an important educational chapter " On the problem of the Jews and final solutions", and a couple of light hearted chapters such as "American GI's, not all cunts actually", and "The Rice Cooker wars".

Would you include us Saddonians in your biography, I think we are a major part?

Oh, and the book would have to called "A Sticky Cunt Abroad".

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I've never bothered with a diary as I am just too lazy, but periodically I do reflect and think and make notes on things. It hasn't been the most exciting life, but it has always had interesting moments. I have ideas for 3 different books documenting key parts of my life. My only problem is finding the will to sit down and do it in the way that it needs. I always argue that Burroughs didn't write Junkie until his mid 30's so I've still time to find my motivation. The stalking thing would only be a minor part of one novel.

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I think "Putting The Dog To Sleep" is the ideal title for the first chapter covering your difficult childhood period. Then "One, potata, two potata" could be the title for the story of your early musical education. Some other chapter names would include "Landing in Lilliput", the tale of your emigration to Korea, and of course an important educational chapter " On the problem of the Jews and final solutions", and a couple of light hearted chapters such as "American GI's, not all cunts actually", and "The Rice Cooker wars".

Would you include us Saddonians in your biography, I think we are a major part?

Oh, and the book would have to called "A Sticky Cunt Abroad".

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Brilliant.

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I've never bothered with a diary as I am just too lazy, but periodically I do reflect and think and make notes on things. It hasn't been the most exciting life, but it has always had interesting moments. I have ideas for 3 different books documenting key parts of my life. My only problem is finding the will to sit down and do it in the way that it needs. I always argue that Burroughs didn't write Junkie until his mid 30's so I've still time to find my motivation. The stalking thing would only be a minor part of one novel.

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I think "Putting The Dog To Sleep" is the ideal title for the first chapter covering your difficult childhood period. Then "One, potata, two potata" could be the title for the story of your early musical education. Some other chapter names would include "Landing in Lilliput", the tale of your emigration to Korea, and of course an important educational chapter " On the problem of the Jews and final solutions", and a couple of light hearted chapters such as "American GI's, not all cunts actually", and "The Rice Cooker wars".

Would you include us Saddonians in your biography, I think we are a major part?

Oh, and the book would have to called "A Sticky Cunt Abroad".

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That's a pretty good format, but is not really a story per se. Like I think a chapter on my musical discovery would be riveting, but it's really only descriptive of an interest of mine. But if I were to frame it within the context of my first proper female relationship then that would work very well. I discovered most of the great music, but there are actually some bands I still listen to that I didn't actually discover. One of my interests was making compilation tapes for people and likewise others did that for me too. So a document of that period of my life would be very interesting. I was at my best in those formative years, everything was new and a discovery and I was still quite idealistic and naive. I am quite nostalgic about some of the things in my life.

The Korean adventure would be an interesting one too. In my early years I was very sociable and met a lot of people. Some crazy stories and one or two involving me too, that stalker was one and there were other very funny ones too. I laugh now, but at the time it wasn't so funny. Then I guess I settled down and became extremely boring. I think I joined here when I started to stay home more and had a computer in the home for the first time.

There would have to be a chapter on the Jews, but mainly to outline that I only hate the state of Israel and not Jewish people themselves. My main thesis would be that I like Jews like Chomsky and Finkelstein very much and other Jews like Dershowitz less so. I would conclude with an argument that gassing Jews in their millions probably isn't very nice.

There are loads of things that I haven't shared on here that I think would add meat to the book. I would write it in a more considered, reflective way than I do on here. Here it is usually with red mist in front of my eyes and that's not how you write a book. Forums are for venting, books are for appraising in a considered way.

I think more books need to talk about online lives and so Saddo's life would have to be a part of it. This has been a central part of my life for half a decade or so now, so I couldn't just put it in the wardrobe. It would need a few words.

Anyway becoming obsessed with someone isn't a cool thing to do. In fact, it is quite deranged. I would never think to become obsessed with anyone so why anyone would want to do that to me just bewilders me. I would be the worst famous person in the world, I would be punching photographers and throwing the stalkers out the windows. No man needs that in his life.

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Anyway becoming obsessed with someone isn't a cool thing to do. In fact, it is quite deranged. I would never think to become obsessed with anyone so why anyone would want to do that to me just bewilders me. I would be the worst famous person in the world, I would be punching photographers and throwing the stalkers out the windows. No man needs that in his life.

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....Odd, that's exactly what Chomsky said about you

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I've never bothered with a diary as I am just too lazy, but periodically I do reflect and think and make notes on things. It hasn't been the most exciting life, but it has always had interesting moments. I have ideas for 3 different books documenting key parts of my life. My only problem is finding the will to sit down and do it in the way that it needs. I always argue that Burroughs didn't write Junkie until his mid 30's so I've still time to find my motivation. The stalking thing would only be a minor part of one novel.

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I think "Putting The Dog To Sleep" is the ideal title for the first chapter covering your difficult childhood period. Then "One, potata, two potata" could be the title for the story of your early musical education. Some other chapter names would include "Landing in Lilliput", the tale of your emigration to Korea, and of course an important educational chapter " On the problem of the Jews and final solutions", and a couple of light hearted chapters such as "American GI's, not all cunts actually", and "The Rice Cooker wars".

Would you include us Saddonians in your biography, I think we are a major part?

Oh, and the book would have to called "A Sticky Cunt Abroad".

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Brilliant.

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I thought so too. ;D

Quote Bilbo: " As to Miles not being impressed with a fellow cutter I'm assuming it's because her scars were pathetic and gave the impression of being a typically teenage plea for attention, rather than the assertive arm slashes of an alcohol fuelled, intellectual maverick's manly display of embittered emotion towards his unreasonable and irritating wife. "

That was witty as well.:cool:

Anyone remember the thread I did years ago on the "other" side?
About the 2 female co-workers... :-X

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Anyone remember the thread I did years ago on the "other" side?
About the 2 female co-workers... :-X

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Link or a good summary of the episode?

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I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

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:lol: Agreed. Adult English class!?


Oh and you turned down no strings attached sex, what's the matter with you?!

no such thing as NSA sex.

Fact.

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I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

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I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

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fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

Of course I turned down sex. If I accepted sexual offers from everyone there wouldn't be a person in the country I hadn't screwed. :rolleyes:

As long as obsession and hotness levels remain on par, I don't think there is a limit to what I could stand before putting a stop to it....

I understand about you now wanting to give her the sex, because obviously she would probably continue to just be more and more nuts,,, and there is no way JUST sex with someone like that who is also obsessed with you would be very healthy...

Back in the start of high school, the UGLIESSSSSST girl in our whole entire year was obsessed with me.... She was FAT, BLACK LONG CURLY UGLY GREASY HAIR, BRACES, this BIG GUMMMMMMY MOUTH, BAD B.O. that could literally clear a room out...

She went around telling everyone on a day that I was away that she loved me... So I returned to literally 100+ students all laughing at me... She had all sorts of girls coming up to me asking me if I wanted to go out with her... I at least thought she'd be shy about it, but when I walked past her one time she just stared at me and said "f'king wild!".... :eek:

That went on for about 2 weeks and is the first time I recalled giving serious consideration to suicide... Or murder.....

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She ended up going out with this 30 year old (she was 14) so she obviously had problems.... Just sad I got roped into her crazy at one stage of my life... A year later her whole family changed their name to get away from the 30 year old who was obsessed with her..... Karma's a bitch!!

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I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

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fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

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No.

She texts me 'want sex?' I reply 'come over' We fuck, she goes home. No strings sex does exist and it's good.

The fact I'll happily call her a tart means I have no feelings for her other than using her as a mastabatory aid.

I actually consider an attitude where you consider sex to be anything more than a pleasureable activity or a means of reproduction quite imature. I'm not living in a childish fatasy world where love, sex and marridge mean something, and we all live happily ever after under a big rainbow playing with fluffy bunnies....

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I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

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fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

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No.

She texts me 'want sex?' I reply 'come over' We fuck, she goes home. No strings sex does exist and it's good.

The fact I'll happily call her a tart means I have no feelings for her other than using her as a mastabatory aid.

I actually consider an attitude where you consider sex to be anything more than a pleasureable activity or a means of reproduction quite imature. I'm not living in a childish fatasy world where love, sex and marridge mean something, and we all live happily ever after under a big rainbow playing with fluffy bunnies....

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Who broke your heart?

No one. It's very hard to have you heart broken when you realize that their is no such thing as 'the one' and that women are in abundence. you can always find another one if you want one.