Has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

[Memphis]

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

100% uphill gardener

[Hornfinger]

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

100% uphill gardener

Agreed. Adult English class!?


Oh and you turned down no strings attached sex, what's the matter with you?!

[Howlin Mad Missy]

no such thing as NSA sex.

Fact.

[Hornfinger]

I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

[Howlin Mad Missy]

I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

[Gandalf]

Of course I turned down sex. If I accepted sexual offers from everyone there wouldn't be a person in the country I hadn't screwed.

[Dizaster]

As long as obsession and hotness levels remain on par, I don't think there is a limit to what I could stand before putting a stop to it....

I understand about you now wanting to give her the sex, because obviously she would probably continue to just be more and more nuts,,, and there is no way JUST sex with someone like that who is also obsessed with you would be very healthy...

Back in the start of high school, the UGLIESSSSSST girl in our whole entire year was obsessed with me.... She was FAT, BLACK LONG CURLY UGLY GREASY HAIR, BRACES, this BIG GUMMMMMMY MOUTH, BAD B.O. that could literally clear a room out...

She went around telling everyone on a day that I was away that she loved me... So I returned to literally 100+ students all laughing at me... She had all sorts of girls coming up to me asking me if I wanted to go out with her... I at least thought she'd be shy about it, but when I walked past her one time she just stared at me and said "f'king wild!"....

That went on for about 2 weeks and is the first time I recalled giving serious consideration to suicide... Or murder.....



She ended up going out with this 30 year old (she was 14) so she obviously had problems.... Just sad I got roped into her crazy at one stage of my life... A year later her whole family changed their name to get away from the 30 year old who was obsessed with her..... Karma's a bitch!!

[Hornfinger]

I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

No.

She texts me 'want sex?' I reply 'come over' We fuck, she goes home. No strings sex does exist and it's good.

The fact I'll happily call her a tart means I have no feelings for her other than using her as a mastabatory aid.

I actually consider an attitude where you consider sex to be anything more than a pleasureable activity or a means of reproduction quite imature. I'm not living in a childish fatasy world where love, sex and marridge mean something, and we all live happily ever after under a big rainbow playing with fluffy bunnies....

[Howlin Mad Missy]

I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

No.

She texts me 'want sex?' I reply 'come over' We fuck, she goes home. No strings sex does exist and it's good.

The fact I'll happily call her a tart means I have no feelings for her other than using her as a mastabatory aid.

I actually consider an attitude where you consider sex to be anything more than a pleasureable activity or a means of reproduction quite imature. I'm not living in a childish fatasy world where love, sex and marridge mean something, and we all live happily ever after under a big rainbow playing with fluffy bunnies....

Who broke your heart?

[BIG H]

I disagree, ask the tart I been knobbing.

fact that you consider her to be a tart shows that I am correct. And considering the fact you consider all women to be whores shows your immature attitude to sex which has no doubt developed over the years whilst claiming it's NSA.

Basic physics action=reaction.

No.

She texts me 'want sex?' I reply 'come over' We fuck, she goes home. No strings sex does exist and it's good.

The fact I'll happily call her a tart means I have no feelings for her other than using her as a mastabatory aid.

I actually consider an attitude where you consider sex to be anything more than a pleasureable activity or a means of reproduction quite imature. I'm not living in a childish fatasy world where love, sex and marridge mean something, and we all live happily ever after under a big rainbow playing with fluffy bunnies....

If you ever get married and have kids you will chnage that view - trust me. It may sound lame to you, but nothing I did in my life prior to becoming a dad means anything in comparison to what I feel for my wife and family.