To Keep or Not to Keep?

[Kev]

I wouldn't ask or expect anyone one to get rid of past memories that were special to them.

We all only have one life to lead and will only experience each phase of our lives but once.

I've never been a hoarder of things and have thrown out all my pics, letters, cards etc over the years but now I wish I hadn't.

Why would you be so paranoid and needy that your partner isn't even allowed any memories of their past lives?

Shit like that doesn't bother me in the slightest and any girl who has ever acted like that with me has always turned me right off quite honestly with their feelings of jealous inadequacies.

She's with you so why fret over some photo's or a ring?

The only reason such things ever become a problem is when someone gets all jealous over them.




Having said that, I think it's fair enough to want to start afresh in terms of a bed, sofa, house etc.

I mean say I was married and got divorced and then met someone else who moved in with me. I'd agree it was entirely reasonable, in fact necessary to move to start our own life together somewhere else.

But she could take her photo's and shit with us.